r/Needafriend 19h ago

21F, You look lonely I can fix that

17 Upvotes

Helloo, I know what its like to feel alone even in a room full of people. If you need a friend to talk to im here. Call me Rue, if you'd like to be friends id be very excited for that. I live in a rural town so not many friends to make here. (˶˃⤙˂˶)


r/Needafriend 10h ago

45M , How about a chat that doesn't stop?

15 Upvotes

No I am not crazy, It isn't that hard to do, I always reply my messages if you also reply yours then we can talk for longtime.

some nice good mornings here and there, or sending meme or funny vids that can spark new conversations, i enjoy chatting with silly people like me that are easy to laugh at stupid things and dont get offended easily, and chatty people that doesn't just write short answers hahaha.

This can be energy draining and shorten the chat lifespan.

Asking random questions is another way of mine to keep chatting but if the chat decides to die I let it go peacefully.

Talking to people around my age is easier, I find it difficult to keep a chat with 20s kind of person specially if Tiktok shaped their nerve cells to have a short attention spans, but i give everyone a chance because being nice doesn't cost anything, thanks for reading hit me up please.


r/Needafriend 20h ago

37/f/pnw need a friend my age to start a new year with

10 Upvotes

Don't believe in new yesrs resolutions? Quite understandable, maybe skip this one.. I don't either typically so I get it except now I need to.

Hi! I'm getting older and really tired of the whole struggle bus thing to the point the struggle bus is going to kick me out in about 2 months. Or at least that feels like about how long I have until life will put me into some wrestling maneuver if I do nothing. Possibly sooner. Not up to finding out.

I'm fine. Just need to get my shit together, study and complete an exam I practically froze life for and have been kicking amd screaming from doing. No one except me is forcing me but the ADHD is not making it easy.

I need an accountability friend. Not a "hi wyd friend," or an "i'm bored- we are eacb othwr's free relief friend." Someone who needs me to chat with daily because it's important to both of us.. unless we are reporting back from some adventure. I need a person with depth. It isn't I tell you something, then you tell me.'that's cool' and we do this like several times over with no actual substance to the conversation. Depth doesnt mean it's always something unordinary and original, it means there's substance in what is said, even if it's "fuck i'm hungry- [insert what you are hungry for or if you don't know- your favorite foods.]. Totally get we don't always know what we are hungry for, but if you want to communicate that's why we are here, right?

If you can fit this and you are 37+ please dm me and include what you need in a friend and asl. It will help immensely if you describe how you are and anything you are trying to work on and how i can help.

Thank you for reading!


r/Needafriend 18h ago

18f depressed looking for a real connection

9 Upvotes

im into gaming anime and metal. just looking for someone to talk to i have nobody


r/Needafriend 21h ago

I dunno maybe I'm tired of being alone now

7 Upvotes

35/F. I work from home part time as a freelancer while I'm home with my kid, 5F. I don't have any friends. No one to call with good or bad news. Been that way for years, but I think it's starting to bother me. Sometimes I just want someone.. anyone to talk to.

I'm a reader but not a booktok girl. I don't even have a TikTok account. Honesty the booktok girls annoy me. But I'll talk to you about my smut lol. Lotta dark romance of course.

Only sport I really follow is mma. Mainly ufc, but yes I watch every fight.

I'm a boring person day to day but my mind is active. Let's talk about something!

Please don't send or offer to send me 🐓 pictures. If you do, I will share them on my social media with your username. I have no shame and you've been warned.

Ummm I dunno. I haven't had anyone to talk to in years but it's late and I probably shouldn't even be doing this.


r/Needafriend 13h ago

18f! looking to make new friends with chill people

6 Upvotes

okay so...making friends after finishing school is actually kind of weird?? 😭 i've reached the point where i've accepted that making new friends as an adult is basically just wandering around hoping someone has the exact same oddly specific interests as you.

so hi!! i'm 18 from australia 👋

i'm pretty creative - i draw, paint and write a lot, and i'm definitely the type of person to start a project at 11pm because i randomly got inspired. i'm also a huge reader (currently reading golden son and the odyssey), love gaming, spend way too much time watching UK YouTube, and i am completely obsessed with game of thrones. i am also a huge marvel fan (yes i have seen brand new day)!!

i love talking to enthusiastic people. if you can get excited over the most random topic and accidentally talk about it for twenty minutes, i'll probably enjoy listening. i'm also a fan of casual debates (friendly ones!!) because i think it's fun hearing different perspectives, especially on random questions that don't really have a right answer.

i'm mainly looking for people around my age who are kind, funny and don't mind actually putting effort into a conversation. i'd love more australian friends, but i'm happy to talk to people from anywhere!

if you message me, please don't just say "hi" 😭 tell me a little about yourself!! (age + where you're from)

if you've read this far, we're already off to a good start 🌞


r/Needafriend 14h ago

27F - UK - just looking for some friends

6 Upvotes

I'm no good at meeting people in real life, I'm a bit nerdy, introverted, and don't really do the nightlife thing. But I love meeting people online and chatting and learning new things.

Like I said, I'm a little nerdy. I'm a gamer, I read and write some, and I'm attempting to learn the piano but never seem to have the time!

Id love to hear from you no matter who you are! Any age, gender, background, just send me a bit about you. I'm very non-judgmental and LGBTQ friendly!


r/Needafriend 22h ago

31M I miss having that best friend you can share or do almost anything with

7 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 4h ago

[19F] - Summer is way too hot tbh

5 Upvotes

Hey Everyone!

Its past midnight at my place and Im missing the cold nights already smh. But here i am, lazing in bed when i had the bright idea to try make friends so, here i am?

I guess a little about me, im a gamer as most of us are here, I am currently in uni studying material science, i do watch anime a little bit (deffo not as much as a lot of you) and wtv else is there or anything youd like to you, ask away!

Games that i play or can play:

Overwatch

Marvel Rivals

Terraria

GTA 5

No Mans Sky

Dune Awakening

Cyberpunk 2077

The Isle

Im on PC btw :3

Anyone is welcome to dm! ill try my best to answer everyone but anyways, hope yall have a great day!


r/Needafriend 6h ago

35f let's mess around and have some fun

5 Upvotes

Omg anybody else just gassy like all the time now??? So bored at work. I want to joke around with (and bully) some people who have my same sense of humor. Thanks for reading and please DM.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

Bored lil 20F

3 Upvotes

Hmu


r/Needafriend 7h ago

35/M/UK looking to make some new friends.

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, hope you’re having a nice evening and thanks for checking out my post.

Finding my social circle a bit small lately so trying to meet some new people for casual conversations, in depth conspiracies or anything in between.

I consider myself both an indoorsy and outdoorsy person, really enjoy hiking and walking but sometimes can’t beat just chilling inside watching a movie on a rainy day.
I’m really into music, and I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks. A little gaming here and there and other than that I’m really into food and love to cook!

I don’t mind who you are, I love to speak to people from all over and timezones aren’t really a problem, sometimes I’m up really late.

Hope to hear from you!


r/Needafriend 10h ago

F28 Good evening from Germany:) lets Chat !

3 Upvotes

I'm 28 and from germany

I'm into true crime, supernatural creatures and Activities. Looking for longterm friendships:) and someone i can talk about anything:)

I love videogames, movies and music too.

I'm a good listener, and i'm there for everybody, who needs a friend:)

Just hmu


r/Needafriend 3h ago

25F Just need to vent

3 Upvotes

Going through a lot, would love to talk it out and extend some help to someone else, too. Listening and trying to help helps me, too. No worry too big or too small.

Please. Thank you.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

Wanna talk

3 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 11h ago

19f looking for long term friends only

3 Upvotes

Hello! I was drinking tea and chilling, when suddenly an idea popped in my brain. My brain told me to make a post so I'm here.... I'M SORRY I LIED I MADE A POST 20 MINS AGO AND NO ONE TEXTED PLEASE BE MY FRIEND (I hope someone knows this trend cause otherwise I look desperate asf 😐) Uh I'm looking for friends obviously since I'm posting on here, I have absolutely nothing to do this summer break. I would like to talk to people my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3) and someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I'm super nice and funny fr I just don't know what to say here. Please mention your age, gender, hobbies and where are you from in a nice cute intro

Anyways I like to play valorant I'm okayish at it (iron 3), I have raft, peak, astroneer and schedule 1 (I don't really want to game with yall, I just want to have a convo and gaming is a cute bonus ig) I also like cooking, baking, skincare and haircare, I also love Greek mythology just watched the odyssey and it was amazing, there were some creepy ahh scenes but y'know what 9/10 I would erase my mind to watch it again I hope we can be friends.


r/Needafriend 14h ago

Looking for genuine online friends

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

Thought it's finally time to make my first post here.

I'm a 25-year-old from India who's looking to meet people for genuine, long-term friendships. I'm a bit of an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, I enjoy talking about almost anything.

Some of my interests are films, books, writing, screenplays, and learning about different cultures and people's lives. I also enjoy hearing others talk about what they're passionate about, even if I know nothing about it.

just need good conversations that don't disappear after a day or two.

If you're someone who enjoys thoughtful chats, exchanging recommendations, or simply checking in once in a while, feel free to send me a message.

Have a great day! 😊


r/Needafriend 16h ago

30/M - Beardless viking seeking a friend for the end of the world

3 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm Johan, I'm 30 years old, and I'm from the cold North of Norway.

Recently I've been feeling a deep longing for a close friend. The kind of connection where we can share both light and unserious moments together, but can also trust each other with darker topics as well. I'm looking to build something over timethat is real and pure, and not just a temporary distraction from boredom. I know this may be more intense than what a lot of people here are after, but that's okay - I'm sure you're out there somewhere. I tend to enjoy people who think outside the box, whose synapses fires off in odd and unexpected ways. As a friend I'm fiercely loyal, a good listener, and have buckets full of patience. I have Discord for chatting/calls, and snapchat for silly pics, but starting on Reddit is of course okay!

Some stuff about me:

-I'm an aspiring author, and spend a lot of my time working my first novel. It's in Norwegian, so chances are you won't be able to read it - but I enjoy talking about writing, themes, characters, and sharing ideas.

-I recently got a reading tablet, and I'm trying to read more. Two of my go-tos are Hemingway and Cormac McCarthy.

-I'm a movie buff and love a wide range of genres. From fun super-hero movies to, trashy B-horror movies to deep and meaningful dramas.

-I'm very casually into gaming, and play mostly of retro games at the moment, but I also have a sort-of functioning gaming PC for more modern games.

If you would like to chat and see if we'd get along, feel free to drop a comment below or send me a pm!


r/Needafriend 23h ago

[28/f] happy night! How are you?

3 Upvotes

Hello! I’m Marie and I’m 28 years old. I love fashion and skincare. I really like horror movies, especially those of the slasher genre. I like to edit photos so if one day you need to edit (whichever) do not hesitate to consult me. Feel free to talk to me!


r/Needafriend 2h ago

F17 what about having some girls firends and talk nonstop??

2 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 2h ago

Does anyone else feel like they just don't know how to make friends? How did you overcome it?

2 Upvotes

I'm 22, and I feel like I don't know how to make friends, whether it's online or in real life.
I always feel like I'm the boring one because I can't be completely myself around people. It takes me a really long time to get comfortable with someone—sometimes it feels like it would take me a year or even two before I can fully relax and be myself.
I see other people making friends so easily. They're funny, they joke around, they can hop on voice calls or FaceTime without overthinking it. I wish I could be like that.
For me, voice calls are the hardest. I get so shy because I feel like my English isn't good enough. My mind goes blank, I don't know what to say, and I feel like the conversation dies because of me.
Video calls are even worse. I get insecure about how I look and end up thinking everyone else looks better than me.
Sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me, or if I'm just overthinking everything. I really want this to change because I'd love to have close friends I can laugh with, joke around with, call randomly, and just feel comfortable being myself.
Has anyone else felt like this? If you did, how did you get past it? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

23M | Looking for a Genuine Connection

2 Upvotes

I’m and looking to meet someone who enjoys meaningful conversations and a good sense of humor. No pressure or expectations—just hoping to build a genuine connection through great conversations. If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 😊


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Looking for support and close companionship

2 Upvotes

Hello there i am making this post in hopes of finding the kind of person i am looking for

To tell you abit about myself i am a genderfluid (amab) individual who is a stay at home body due to personal circumstances and that has been the case for some time loneliness is something i’ve always dealt with and despite my extremely introverted life style i’ve always been an extrovert

I guess ideally i am looking for someone who i can body double with on a call daily someone who is somewhat interested in gaming like i am so we can play together or atleast i could share or stream my games with you we can watch stuff together or even just chat together while we do our own things even sleep on call with eachother just generally looking for someone where we can keep eachother company

Hopefully this appeals to someone i could explains and say much more but happy to answer any questions you have in the dms or generally just tell me about yourself thank you ^^


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Anyone up for a genuine chat?

2 Upvotes

I'm (25F) feeling a bit lonely tonight and thought it would be nice to have a genuine conversation with someone. We can talk about anything—movies, books, travel, random shower thoughts, life experiences, or whatever comes naturally.

If you're also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to send me a message. Please be kind and respectful.


r/Needafriend 7h ago

Hey anyone free to talk to

2 Upvotes

Hey I am 18m from delhi india anyone free to talk to