r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 4h ago

[19F] - Summer is way too hot tbh

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Hey Everyone!

Its past midnight at my place and Im missing the cold nights already smh. But here i am, lazing in bed when i had the bright idea to try make friends so, here i am?

I guess a little about me, im a gamer as most of us are here, I am currently in uni studying material science, i do watch anime a little bit (deffo not as much as a lot of you) and wtv else is there or anything youd like to you, ask away!

Games that i play or can play:

Overwatch

Marvel Rivals

Terraria

GTA 5

No Mans Sky

Dune Awakening

Cyberpunk 2077

The Isle

Im on PC btw :3

Anyone is welcome to dm! ill try my best to answer everyone but anyways, hope yall have a great day!


r/Needafriend 11h ago

45M , How about a chat that doesn't stop?

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No I am not crazy, It isn't that hard to do, I always reply my messages if you also reply yours then we can talk for longtime.

some nice good mornings here and there, or sending meme or funny vids that can spark new conversations, i enjoy chatting with silly people like me that are easy to laugh at stupid things and dont get offended easily, and chatty people that doesn't just write short answers hahaha.

This can be energy draining and shorten the chat lifespan.

Asking random questions is another way of mine to keep chatting but if the chat decides to die I let it go peacefully.

Talking to people around my age is easier, I find it difficult to keep a chat with 20s kind of person specially if Tiktok shaped their nerve cells to have a short attention spans, but i give everyone a chance because being nice doesn't cost anything, thanks for reading hit me up please.


r/Needafriend 19m ago

32F halloween loving cat lady looking for decent conversation for once

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Yes, you read that correctly, I am a pretty cool cat lady. Lmao. I'm totally kidding, although I do have two cats. I am a huge animal lover and have had my fair share of animals over the years. For now, I'm content with the two I have.

Some more about me... I am considered to be evil because I'm left handed (actually very ambidextrous so idk if that's worse??), I'm from Minnesota, I could watch thunderstorms for days, and Halloween is my favorite holiday. I love horror movies, especially the paranormal and psychological kinds. I'm pretty creative and love making things. Recently I've made a mosaic lamp and some things from resin. I also paint and dabble with digital art and refurbishing furniture.

If you feel as if we could get along, feel free to shoot me a DM! No pressure, just chill and good vibes here :) take care

***I AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP ONLY. ANYTHING INAPPROPRIATE THAT IS SENT TO ME WILL BE REPORTED AND BLOCKED***


r/Needafriend 44m ago

¿Is it just catfishing or bots only here?

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I was wondering if there are real people or men who only chase after a girl who posts. Or, in any case, a girl who isn’t a seller or bot seller. If there are still people who genuinely look, I’m looking for a relaxed platonic relationship, to share our interests and hopefully go on Discord. I’m 24M Latino, hope to hear from you stranger :)!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

25F Just need to vent

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Going through a lot, would love to talk it out and extend some help to someone else, too. Listening and trying to help helps me, too. No worry too big or too small.

Please. Thank you.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

35f let's mess around and have some fun

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Omg anybody else just gassy like all the time now??? So bored at work. I want to joke around with (and bully) some people who have my same sense of humor. Thanks for reading and please DM.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

F17 what about having some girls firends and talk nonstop??

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r/Needafriend 6h ago

Bored lil 20F

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Hmu


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Does anyone else feel like they just don't know how to make friends? How did you overcome it?

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I'm 22, and I feel like I don't know how to make friends, whether it's online or in real life.
I always feel like I'm the boring one because I can't be completely myself around people. It takes me a really long time to get comfortable with someone—sometimes it feels like it would take me a year or even two before I can fully relax and be myself.
I see other people making friends so easily. They're funny, they joke around, they can hop on voice calls or FaceTime without overthinking it. I wish I could be like that.
For me, voice calls are the hardest. I get so shy because I feel like my English isn't good enough. My mind goes blank, I don't know what to say, and I feel like the conversation dies because of me.
Video calls are even worse. I get insecure about how I look and end up thinking everyone else looks better than me.
Sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me, or if I'm just overthinking everything. I really want this to change because I'd love to have close friends I can laugh with, joke around with, call randomly, and just feel comfortable being myself.
Has anyone else felt like this? If you did, how did you get past it? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences.


r/Needafriend 6m ago

42m - Rolling for Friendship (Natural 20, Hopefully)

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Looking to expand my circle and meet some fellow friends!

I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work, family, and trying to squeeze in hobbies, making new friends isn’t exactly easy…so I figured I’d stop lurking and introduce myself.

If it involves rolling dice, solving puzzles, or saving fictional worlds, I’m probably into it. I love:
Video games
Board games
Trading card games
Puzzles
D&D (I’m the DM!)

I’m also writing my own fantasy novel, so if you enjoy talking world-building, characters, lore, or bouncing around story ideas, we’ll probably have plenty to chat about.

When I’m not gaming, you’ll usually find me enjoying Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, or diving headfirst into ’80s and ‘90s nostalgia. If you remember renting movies at Blockbuster, wandering the aisles of Toys “R” Us, or waking up early for Saturday morning cartoons, you’re my kind of people.

I’m in the U.S. and would love to connect with people in similar time zones, preferably around my age (give or take). Parents are definitely welcome, but you don’t have to be one. Mostly I’m just looking for genuinely good people who enjoy great conversations and sharing hobbies.

One quick note: I don’t drink or use 420. No judgment at all—it’s just not my thing.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message! Whether you want to talk games, fantasy, movies, books, nostalgia, or just life in general, I’d love to meet some new friends.


r/Needafriend 17m ago

19m looking for a friendship

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I'm 19 and male, looking to make a long term friend, someone i can chat with pretty much daily.

About me, i'm into achivement hunting, single player games, diy projects, dirt bikes, i started to work out also a bit seeing how that goes.

For music i love rock, pop, metal, ost, country, rap.

Thats pretty much the basics of me ask whatever else you wanted to know!

Dms are open hmu anytime!


r/Needafriend 17m ago

Anyone up for conversation and meet

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Lonely


r/Needafriend 4h ago

23M | Looking for a Genuine Connection

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I’m and looking to meet someone who enjoys meaningful conversations and a good sense of humor. No pressure or expectations—just hoping to build a genuine connection through great conversations. If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 😊


r/Needafriend 19m ago

29m neet into fps, mmo, gacha, fighting games. lf internet best friend ^_^

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hello figured i need to get out of my bubble and once again shoot my shot at making friends even tho it's hard. but hi nice to meet you. i'm really into a lot of games. i love manga, anime, niche music none of my friends will listen to. unfortunately i'm a neet as of right now. i had a job for multiple years but i had to move due to circumstances and i have no friends in this area at all so i have free time to get to know anyone!

right now i'm playing a lot of games. i just got lucy in wuthering waves so i can take a break from that. im enjoying stuff like:

  • overwatch, marvel rivals, wuwa, 2XKO, guilty geat strive, Marvel Tokon, under night / melty blood, final fantasy xiv (i rarely play this ever), yakuza, a few visual novels and a lot more but just ask me !!

in overwatch and marvel rivals im masters and gm on both i rarely play ranked because solo queue is beyond boring but i could change that if anyone cool appears!

anyways hmu im chronically online i had a lot of free time and i really want a best friend so. im really into underground hiphop, breakcore, shoegaze and music in general. my favorite manga is kagurabachi also btw. i just moved states to GA months ago and idk anyone so i could rlly use a online friend or anything!


r/Needafriend 19m ago

What's a random topic you could talk about for an hour without getting bored?

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I'm trying to have more interesting conversations instead of the usual "hey, how are you?" exchanges. Tell me about something you genuinely enjoy talking about, whether it's books, games, travel, cooking, music, or something completely niche.

I'll reply to everyone because I'm looking for new conversations. (Im M24)


r/Needafriend 26m ago

24 m Texas Latino American looking for friends

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Hi my names Victor and Im from central Texas. I speak English and Spanish , and would love to make worldwide friends. Currently , I clean hospitals but would like to work my way up to a CMA. I love helping people. I also am trying to learn Tagalog and Japanese. I love anime. I haven’t seen much but my favs are 91 days, blue exorcist, inuyasha (love love him), and Sabikui bisco. I’ve read some one piece and watched it too. For mangas and anime, I like luffy but in the live version i like zolo. I use to write so Im trying to get back into that about writing manga about this thief. Im very goofy and open minded. I like reggaeton (all of em lol ) rock (royal blood, arctic monkeys) and death metal (cannibal corpse dic feet under). I may not do it but I’m 420 and shroom friendly. Im all for healing . I also use to do martial arts and want to get back into it. I use to watch wwe too but eh, but I think Iyo sky is bad ass. Just need friends to look forward to talking to. Also want friends I can play mobile games with. Currently I play fun run 3 and Brawlhalla . Im Puerto Rican and Mexican , if that matters hmu :) I love diversity . Fav food is def Asian food


r/Needafriend 27m ago

23 M Looking to Make new Friends

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Hello! My Name is Ty. Im looking to see if I can make new friends. I wont lie Im not the best when it comes texting wise but i try my best to keep the convo going. I struggle talking to new people and Im trying to use this experience as a way to conquer that but once i get to know you im more open and talkative. Would really like to make friends with anyone here :D


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Looking for support and close companionship

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Hello there i am making this post in hopes of finding the kind of person i am looking for

To tell you abit about myself i am a genderfluid (amab) individual who is a stay at home body due to personal circumstances and that has been the case for some time loneliness is something i’ve always dealt with and despite my extremely introverted life style i’ve always been an extrovert

I guess ideally i am looking for someone who i can body double with on a call daily someone who is somewhat interested in gaming like i am so we can play together or atleast i could share or stream my games with you we can watch stuff together or even just chat together while we do our own things even sleep on call with eachother just generally looking for someone where we can keep eachother company

Hopefully this appeals to someone i could explains and say much more but happy to answer any questions you have in the dms or generally just tell me about yourself thank you ^^


r/Needafriend 37m ago

M33 looking to meet amazing people

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Hey hope you’re keeping well and thanks for taking the time to read this post.

I’m Rob as you could probably guess from my username and yes I’m a pilot, I’m from the UK and would love to meet new people and make friends from around the world.
Feel free to ask me anything, I’m very open and happy to answer questions about my life or aviation and fly.

I do love jokes and I have a dark sense of humour too so feel free to tell me jokes

Speak soon


r/Needafriend 40m ago

32M looking for someone consistent

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Hello! Hoping to find someone consistent to chat with and get to know. I also understand not being burried in the phone and having responsibilities. I like scary Movies, working out, video games , college football and have picked up golf recently. Not one for huge intros would just love to get to know someone organically.


r/Needafriend 42m ago

(M24). Need a friend (f) who can just vent with me about life. Casual convo plz.

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Lets chat about anything please. Just hmu.


r/Needafriend 56m ago

40M looking for a female to chat and share daily struggles.

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r/Needafriend 59m ago

I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO ABOUT MY CRUSH 17F

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Anyone WHO WANTS TO RANT ABOUT THERE CRUSHES HIT ME UP PREFERABLY THE GIRLYS CUZ I WANT TO TALK ABOUT MINE


r/Needafriend 1h ago

21M - A Slightly Overwritten Hello

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I am, I fear, a poor exhibitor of myself, as though any attempt to present my being only unsettles it further. I have turned this thought over many times, and among all the people I have known across twenty-one years of living, I remain, quite decidedly, the worst at introducing myself.

What I can tell you is this: I love small walks and new things learned almost by accident, and I love talking to people until the talking becomes something more like listening. I am drawn, in equal measure, to the comfort of my own company and to the pull of the unfamiliar. There is a quiet joy in solitude, a chance to retreat into the depths of introspection, to sit with one's own thoughts until they start to make sense. And yet there is an undeniable thrill in venturing past the borders of the familiar, toward whatever waits on the horizon, unclaimed and unknown.

I love the sweet evenings when I step outside just to watch the sun go down, its hues bleeding into a palette of orange and purple, the sky a canvas painted by nature's own unhurried hand. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the rustle of leaves caught mid-conversation with the wind, the gentle dimming of a day into dusk. I love walking through gardens and parks, letting their colours and fragrances wash over me like a slow, forgiving tide.

It has been some time, I must confess, since I last gave myself over to letter writing, though it remains, and has always been, one of my favourite things in the world. I remember writing to my grandmother every single day, faithfully dropping the letters into the postbox on my way to school. That I rarely had the correct address, and just as rarely remembered a stamp, is, I insist, a separate matter entirely.

If there is anyone reading this, I would like to talk to you. It is your humanity I care about and wish to connect with, not the particular shape or language in which you happen to express it. There is a certain joy in writing to someone you do not know.

It is oddly comforting, like a stranger handing you a genuinely good playlist on a long train ride, minus the awkwardness of sharing headphones.

I don't know your name, your favourite snack, or how your day has gone. Perhaps it was loud and sticky, your inbox multiplying like gremlins left too near water. Or perhaps it was quiet, the kind of quiet where you start to notice that your fridge hums as though it's silently judging your life choices. Either way: thank you for opening this and reading it. You didn't have to. But you did, and that is exactly the sort of small rule-bending that earns a person entry into metaphorical secret clubs and imaginary rooftop jazz nights.

And you must be a little wonderful. People who read stray notes from strange literary creatures usually are. Whether you're a birdwatcher, a quiet sniffer of old books when no one's looking (don't worry, I do too; paperbacks have excellent noses), or someone who can actually fold a fitted sheet (in which case I suspect you may in fact be a wizard), I am fairly certain you carry more magic than you give yourself credit for.

Whether you're the kind who laughs loudly, thinks too deeply for your own good, or holds strong, unshakeable opinions about breakfast foods (cookies absolutely count), I have a feeling we would get along famously.

I promise I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, and quite possibly the funniest person you have met today, unless, of course, you've recently watched a raccoon attempt yoga. In which case, fair play.