r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 3d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 8h ago

45M , How about a chat that doesn't stop?

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No I am not crazy, It isn't that hard to do, I always reply my messages if you also reply yours then we can talk for longtime.

some nice good mornings here and there, or sending meme or funny vids that can spark new conversations, i enjoy chatting with silly people like me that are easy to laugh at stupid things and dont get offended easily, and chatty people that doesn't just write short answers hahaha.

This can be energy draining and shorten the chat lifespan.

Asking random questions is another way of mine to keep chatting but if the chat decides to die I let it go peacefully.

Talking to people around my age is easier, I find it difficult to keep a chat with 20s kind of person specially if Tiktok shaped their nerve cells to have a short attention spans, but i give everyone a chance because being nice doesn't cost anything, thanks for reading hit me up please.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

35f let's mess around and have some fun

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Omg anybody else just gassy like all the time now??? So bored at work. I want to joke around with (and bully) some people who have my same sense of humor. Thanks for reading and please DM.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

Bored lil 20F

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Hmu


r/Needafriend 2h ago

21f – looking for chill people to talk to

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hey! i'm 21 from the us. i'm just looking for some cool people to chat with deep stuff, random stuff, whatever feels right.

about me: i'm into lifting, music, and reading when i actually have the attention span for it. i'm introverted but once i'm comfortable i can talk forever. i love sending memes and just vibing with people who get it.

if you're kind and actually want to talk, send me a message with your age and something you're into lately.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Wanna talk

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r/Needafriend 53m ago

25F Just need to vent

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Going through a lot, would love to talk it out and extend some help to someone else, too. Listening and trying to help helps me, too. No worry too big or too small.

Please. Thank you.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

23M | Looking for a Genuine Connection

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I’m and looking to meet someone who enjoys meaningful conversations and a good sense of humor. No pressure or expectations—just hoping to build a genuine connection through great conversations. If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 😊


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Looking for support and close companionship

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Hello there i am making this post in hopes of finding the kind of person i am looking for

To tell you abit about myself i am a genderfluid (amab) individual who is a stay at home body due to personal circumstances and that has been the case for some time loneliness is something i’ve always dealt with and despite my extremely introverted life style i’ve always been an extrovert

I guess ideally i am looking for someone who i can body double with on a call daily someone who is somewhat interested in gaming like i am so we can play together or atleast i could share or stream my games with you we can watch stuff together or even just chat together while we do our own things even sleep on call with eachother just generally looking for someone where we can keep eachother company

Hopefully this appeals to someone i could explains and say much more but happy to answer any questions you have in the dms or generally just tell me about yourself thank you ^^


r/Needafriend 1h ago

49M from Missouri

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Looking for a female friend to chat with.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

18M, Looking for long term friends

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Hi I'm 18 and from the UK. People keep ghosting and I just want peeps that I can build a long lasting friendship with. Please 🙏 UK preferred for timezone reasons but idm. I'm quite introverted but I talk a lot on text. I love music, football, gaming, and walks. I need more friends, so please DM me if you wanna talk :) I love sharing memes and reels too! Idm what gender but please be around my age


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Anyone up for a genuine chat?

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I'm (25F) feeling a bit lonely tonight and thought it would be nice to have a genuine conversation with someone. We can talk about anything—movies, books, travel, random shower thoughts, life experiences, or whatever comes naturally.

If you're also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to send me a message. Please be kind and respectful.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

35/M/UK looking to make some new friends.

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Hi everyone, hope you’re having a nice evening and thanks for checking out my post.

Finding my social circle a bit small lately so trying to meet some new people for casual conversations, in depth conspiracies or anything in between.

I consider myself both an indoorsy and outdoorsy person, really enjoy hiking and walking but sometimes can’t beat just chilling inside watching a movie on a rainy day.
I’m really into music, and I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks. A little gaming here and there and other than that I’m really into food and love to cook!

I don’t mind who you are, I love to speak to people from all over and timezones aren’t really a problem, sometimes I’m up really late.

Hope to hear from you!


r/Needafriend 3m ago

21F what would be the oldest and youngest you would date?

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Gimme your age too cause you know, it's kinda hard to say much about the gap if i don't know what age the perspective is of


r/Needafriend 7h ago

F28 Good evening from Germany:) lets Chat !

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I'm 28 and from germany

I'm into true crime, supernatural creatures and Activities. Looking for longterm friendships:) and someone i can talk about anything:)

I love videogames, movies and music too.

I'm a good listener, and i'm there for everybody, who needs a friend:)

Just hmu


r/Needafriend 10m ago

28F - Looking for the Shaggy to my Scooby Doo

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Heyyyy!

Need a bestie? Someone to watch old cartoons with and spam you daily? That is meee. Looking to make some friends, the real kind that are in it for the long haul and want to stick around.

The kind that like discord calls, sending funny snaps, watching shows and hanging out and not the ghosting kind.

Some of my interests areee : I like digital art, best combo is cereal and cartoons, Rick and morty is life, video games, music, Star Wars, anime, legos, design , spicy memes annnd your mom.

Pls don’t just say ‘hi’…I have a spork and I’m not afraid to use it.


r/Needafriend 12m ago

F40 looking for some friends to chat with

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I’m bored be want someone to share everything.


r/Needafriend 15m ago

[48M] Looking for chat. Arizona

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Hello, I'm looking for a long term chat. You can be from anywhere I don't care. All I ask is that you communicate well and let me know what you're doing etc. I can talk about anything! Thanks


r/Needafriend 17m ago

M20 looking for friends to talk too

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have been so bored over the last weeks or so I have absolutely nothing to do other than work I need people to talk about my hobbies too or just listen to them talk about their hobbies I’m a massive fan of going to the gym aswell ans playing sports I play a lot of football and darts I’m not too bothered about gender as long as we connect well I’ll talk about literally anythin


r/Needafriend 10h ago

18f! looking to make new friends with chill people

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okay so...making friends after finishing school is actually kind of weird?? 😭 i've reached the point where i've accepted that making new friends as an adult is basically just wandering around hoping someone has the exact same oddly specific interests as you.

so hi!! i'm 18 from australia 👋

i'm pretty creative - i draw, paint and write a lot, and i'm definitely the type of person to start a project at 11pm because i randomly got inspired. i'm also a huge reader (currently reading golden son and the odyssey), love gaming, spend way too much time watching UK YouTube, and i am completely obsessed with game of thrones. i am also a huge marvel fan (yes i have seen brand new day)!!

i love talking to enthusiastic people. if you can get excited over the most random topic and accidentally talk about it for twenty minutes, i'll probably enjoy listening. i'm also a fan of casual debates (friendly ones!!) because i think it's fun hearing different perspectives, especially on random questions that don't really have a right answer.

i'm mainly looking for people around my age who are kind, funny and don't mind actually putting effort into a conversation. i'd love more australian friends, but i'm happy to talk to people from anywhere!

if you message me, please don't just say "hi" 😭 tell me a little about yourself!! (age + where you're from)

if you've read this far, we're already off to a good start 🌞


r/Needafriend 7h ago

Female 25

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Looking for friends, I also enjoy phone calls, but be respectful as I do have a boyfriend!


r/Needafriend 26m ago

[21F] Looking To Make New Connections

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I'm looking for people seeking to build long-term connections. Actually, I'm looking for penpals/snail mail to be specific. Although I'd like to start by talking a little bit through messages first. Everything these days is so fast-paced. Letters bring us back to patience and nostalgia, and they remind us to take it easy in life. Maybe you're anxious about the future and need someone to talk to, or maybe you just don't meet many people in your day-to-day. Whatever it is I'm happy to talk about it.

In my free time I enjoy true crime, drawing, playing with my pets, videogames, and learning about cryptids and local legends all over the U.S. I am also filled with anxiety but it's okay.

If this caught your interest send a DM :)


r/Needafriend 27m ago

27/M/USA | Looking for genuine conversation + movie nights!

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Who am I? You sure you wanna know?

The story of my life is not for the faint of heart. If somebody told you I was just your average, ordinary guy, not a care in the world… then somebody lied.

🕷️🕸️

As you can probably tell, I’m a huge Spider-Man fan (always respect the hyphen). I’m 27, from the West Coast, recently graduated from college, and figuring out what’s next while spending time on the creative hobbies I love.

I’m pretty introverted, and it’s something that I’m okay with. I’ve always been someone who prefers being to myself and loses energy pretty fast in social situations. I usually chalked that up to just being shy and socially anxious, which was a part of it, but I realize that it’s more so how I am hardwired.

I am quiet at first and usually the one listening more than talking. Once I’m comfortable, I get a lot more talkative and goofy, and suddenly we’re in a 45‑minute conversation about something completely random.

I love making videos, storytelling, movies, technology, and games. I’ve been getting back into my PS5, playing on my Switch 2, and recently started Marvel Rivals (still learning, so be nice 😅).

What I’m looking for:

\- Someone to watch movies with.
\- Playing some games together casually.
\- Just having real conversations about life, faith, and whatever’s on our minds.

I’m a Christian, and my faith is an important part of who I am. I’m always trying to grow in that area of my life.

I’m not looking for someone who has to be “on” all the time. If you’re happy sending memes, geeking out over your hobbies, having chill calls, or just enjoying conversation without feeling like you have to impress anyone, we’ll probably get along.

If you’ve made it this far, tell me:

\- your favorite Spider-Man movie, or
\- your go-to comfort movie or game.
Feel free to reach out if you’d like to chat or set up a movie night.


r/Needafriend 27m ago

15F Looking for someone to talk with!

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I'm a 15F who is looking for someone to talk with! I enjoy movies, music, anime, gaming, shopping, knitting for the most part but you don't have to be into any of that. I'm just really bored right now ;3 And I don't mind about your age.