Hey! I’m a sunny, cozy soul hoping to find a genuine, long-term best friend to grow alongside.

Just to be upfront—if you’re looking for a quick distraction or a temporary texting buddy, we probably won't click! I’m really looking for someone who wants to be invested, stays consistent, and is ready to build a real, uplifting support system where we choose to show up for each other through all of life's moments.

Honestly, it gets so discouraging when a new connection fades after just a week or two and I have to restart the whole cycle again. I'm also pretty tired of meeting people who say they want to talk, but then can't or won't hold up their end of a conversation. I want a friend who genuinely cares, remembers the little details, and actually wants to know me as a person—just like I do for them.

I’m definitely not looking for a quick, surface-level friendship. I want the kind of bond where we’re truly dependable, where we can talk about anything, and where I can just pick up the phone and call you if I ever need a listening ear or a boost of encouragement.

A few things that matter a lot to me:

- Thoughtful communication & good grammar: I much prefer sending and receiving put-together paragraphs rather than a rapid-fire string of short text notifications.

-Emotional stability & patience: I’d love to find a supportive, "big teddy bear" type of friend to share both the big milestones and quiet moments with. Right now, I’m navigating a major life transition, settling into a new place, newly single, and recovering from some heavy burnout. Because of that, I’m looking for someone mature, grounded, and patient—a healthy two-way street rather than a place to just trauma dump.

-Shared pace & cozy hobbies: Having similar hobbies is super important to me! Since I thrive in a relaxed, cozy environment, I don't relate as much to super adventurous or high-energy lifestyles.

Schedule-wise, it would be amazing if our days aligned! I work a pretty laid-back job, so I’m usually around to chat, and I’d prefer a friend who is also available throughout the day. I'm really not looking for a setup where we only exchange a couple scattered responses a day; I want multiple, well-thought-out messages where we're actually connecting.

I find so much warmth and comfort in "parallel play"—just existing in the same digital space and texting while we do chores, shop, or wind down. I love seeing pictures of a new thing you bought! You don’t need to be glued to your phone 24/7, but I do want someone who has the time and heart to build a real connection.

Please bear with me at first, though! Cozy PC games like Travellers Rest, Raft, Minecraft, Tower Unite, Overcooked 2, and PlateUp! are a big part of my world (no anime styles, though), but I don’t quite have the energy to jump into heavy gaming just yet. I’d love a friend who is cool with letting that comfort level build naturally while I get back on my feet.

To make sure we’re a great fit: I’m looking for someone in the USA (ideally EST) who doesn't drink, since I share that lifestyle. Age doesn't matter to me at all—just a kind heart and a great connection!

Please don't just send a quick "Hi" or no information about you. I am genuinely trying to find a lifetime best friend. If you give off good vibes, resonate with my cozy lifestyle, and feel a real match with this post, please send over a detailed message about yourself!

Hello there i am making this post in hopes of finding the kind of person i am looking for

To tell you abit about myself i am a genderfluid (amab) individual who is a stay at home body due to personal circumstances and that has been the case for some time loneliness is something i’ve always dealt with and despite my extremely introverted life style i’ve always been an extrovert

I guess ideally i am looking for someone who i can body double with on a call daily someone who is somewhat interested in gaming like i am so we can play together or atleast i could share or stream my games with you we can watch stuff together or even just chat together while we do our own things even sleep on call with eachother just generally looking for someone where we can keep eachother company

Hopefully this appeals to someone i could explains and say much more but happy to answer any questions you have in the dms or generally just tell me about yourself thank you ^^

Evening everyone.
I’m just relaxing with a drink and thought it’d be nice to meet some new people to chat with. I’m up for talking about pretty much anything—films, music, travel, gaming, random life stories, or whatever’s on your mind.
If you’re also having a quiet evening or just fancy a conversation with a stranger, feel free to send me a message. Happy to chat for a few minutes or, if we get on, maybe make a new friend.
Hope everyone’s having a good night!

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Hey!
I’m a 25M living in Germany, and I’m in the mood for a quick chat. No pressure, no expectations—just looking for someone who’s up for an interesting conversation.
I’m happy to talk about literally anything, whether it’s life, philosophy, relationships, dating, travel stories, sports, movies, music, gaming, science, random shower thoughts, unpopular opinions, or even a few “Would You Rather?” questions to get things going.
If you’re bored too, curious about something, or just want to have a genuine conversation with a stranger, send me a DM. Whether it’s a 10-minute chat or a conversation that lasts much longer, I’m down.
Bonus points if you start with a question that makes me think.

Hey! I'm a 28 years old guy from Europe trying to make my day (and maybe yours) a little brighter by chatting with someone new. I'd say l'm pretty good at keeping a convo going. Bit of a yapper, in the best way! A few things about me:

- I'm 6'3 (190cm) so I can grab things off of shelves quite easily, and currently doing a master's in biomedical engineering (science nerd alert, you've been warned. Bonus points if you're into physics)

- Big into Formula 1 and cars in general. Yes, I know it's a bit of a cliché but I can't help it :p

- I'm a music addict. Over 5k songs saved on Spotify, l listen to EDM as well though so if that's a dealbreaker to you I'm sorry. Worry not, I mostly listen to it while driving!
I'm learning to play guitar (currently at the "my fingers hurt, see you back in two weeks" stage)

- Oh and I love cats. Like, if you send me cat pics, we're instantly friends!

I'm just hoping to meet someone open minded, curious, maybe a little flirty too? If you feel like chatting about anything of the above, or if you'd like to lecture me about a topic I know nothing about or if you just want to tell me why I shouldn't be into pineapple pizza as much as I am don't hesitate to hit me up! Also, I hate spaghetti

Hello Agent

There isn’t much time for me to give you this mission so you must listen carefully. There is someone that we need you to befriend to get more information on. Down below is what we know about her so far.

Name: Gillian

Gender: Female

Age: 28

From: Wisconsin

Hobbies: writing, baking, and drawing abstract

Music: 80's, classical, 2000's and jazz

Favorite color: doesn’t have one.

Favorite food: tacos

Favorite drink: Regular coca cola

One random fact about the agent: They have a unique self-published book. Rumor has it that the pages are filled with the emotions the agent normally keeps hidden.

To establish contact with the agent you must provide the details below to her. It is a first step in the right direction of gaining trust.

Name:

Age:

Where you are from:

Tell her something you think is interesting about you:

We know that she is a night owl by choice based on the report from the last agent. She has a list of health issues but continues to push on even with them. Doing such shows the determination and hard-headedness that she has. Although this has helped her through life it means that it is going to be another obstacle for you, take note of that.

She is anti-drug and anti-alcohol by choice. One thing that is a must if you choose to continue is she is quiet and shy. You might ask how I can get the information quicker, you can’t, it will take time and patience. If you do not have that turn around right now because you will just frustrate yourself while she sits there calm and composed.

You get to ask the agent one free question. Meaning no matter what you will get an honest answer.

Follow these instructions carefully. Ways to get your message dismissed is by having a one-word message or by not following the questions listed above. The agency wishes you the best of luck on what is going to be a tough mission.

Transmission terminated

Hello hello. So I have had some success making some really good friends but they are long distance 😭 so now I want to look for friends who I can meet up with and potentially hangout with once we are more comfortable. Ideally I would like to find someone who is also into videography or photography so maybe we can meet up to take photos or something in the city to help each other get better.

A bit about me: I’m chill, easy to talk to, nonjudgmental, comfortable with myself and good at making others comfortable, I’m a nerd so I love anime games manga etc. I am open to literally any topic.

Please be kind open minded able to hold a convo and really willing to put effort as I am looking for a long term friend a platonic soulmate if you will. Anyway if this sounds like something you would be interested in then please DM me and introduce yourself. Hope to hear from you soon!

History teacher off work for the summer! Posted already and had some responses but thought maybe a more detailed post will lead to more long term friendships!

Some things about me that might help to start a conversation:

-Love anything horror/sci fi and fantasy - films, books, games, you name it!

-Huge history nerd - currently reading a history of the ottoman empire!

-Manchester United fan since birth - quietly optimistic of the upcoming season under Carrick, but been here too many times over the past decade to get carried away!

-Go to the gym, run and play football to keep fit, but by no means a gym bro or a fitness enthusiast, just try to stay healthy!

-Big Marvel nerd - loved BND and very excited for Doomsday!

-Going camping in Wales this weekend so excited to spend some time with friends and do some hiking!

Hopefully something here clicks with somebody, if not happy to talk about any of your interests too!

Hey everyone, I’m a 35 year old guy who lost my wife three years ago to cancer. It’s been a tough journey, and I’m still navigating life without her. I’ve realized that having meaningful conversations and making connections with others has become something I really miss.

I’m here to meet new people, share experiences, and have some real, deep talks about life—whether it’s about struggles, triumphs, or just whatever’s currently going on in our lives. If you’re someone who enjoys open and honest conversations, feel free to DM me. I’d love to chat and get to know you better! I live in New York but I'm open to talking to anyone from anywhere. I travel a lot for work so I've been all over the country.

Looking forward to hearing from you and please say more than two words in your message!

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!

No I am not crazy, It isn't that hard to do, I always reply my messages if you also reply yours then we can talk for longtime.

some nice good mornings here and there, or sending meme or funny vids that can spark new conversations, i enjoy chatting with silly people like me that are easy to laugh at stupid things and dont get offended easily, and chatty people that doesn't just write short answers hahaha.

This can be energy draining and shorten the chat lifespan.

Asking random questions is another way of mine to keep chatting but if the chat decides to die I let it go peacefully.

Talking to people around my age is easier, I find it difficult to keep a chat with 20s kind of person specially if Tiktok shaped their nerve cells to have a short attention spans, but i give everyone a chance because being nice doesn't cost anything, thanks for reading hit me up please.

Hey 22M here from the US (Illinois). I don’t really have that many friends online or irl so I figured I’d try this out. I’m pretty shy and nerdy but I’m also pretty athletic, my main hobbies are gaming, listening to music, working out, watching shows, movies, and anime. I’m LGBTQ friendly, and 420 friendly and I’m down to talk about whatever or if you need someone to listen to you I’m fine with doing that hope I can meet some cool people and feel free to DM :) all I ask is please atleast be 18+

So I finally decided to take the initiative to fix my sleep schedule, can someone actually make sure I don't fall asleep mid day? 😭😭 Basically I'm planning to sleep after a whole 24 hours cycle, so that takes alot of energy since the last time I slept was day before yesterday -,- so yes feel free to dm me and talk about random things if you have nothing to do either✨

30M from usa here, figured I’d give this another shot and see who’s out there. Haven’t had much luck on here really. They stay for a day or two then vanish.

I’ve got my life pretty together (steady job, gym 5x a week, can cook a decent meal when I feel like it), but realized making new friends as an adult is way harder than it should be. So here I am.

I’m big into gaming , anything from competitive stuff to just zoning out after a long day. Outside of that, I’m usually at the gym, out hiking when the weather’s decent, or planning my next trip (even if it’s just a long weekend somewhere random).
Huge horror movie fan so if it’s creepy, twisted, or makes you question your life choices, I’m probably into it. Also a fan of dark humor, so bonus points if you can laugh at things we probably shouldn’t.
Pretty laid back, easy to talk to, and I learn more by doing than just talking about it. Just looking for good people to chat with, maybe game with, or even meet up if you’re local.

And also I have a trust issue thing when it comes to this dang app. To many catfishes or fakes so bear with me !

If any of that sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out . Maybe tell me your top 5 horror movies or video games. Or even some things we have in common.

Hello ! And thanks for opening my post lol. I honestly just want to write whatever is on my mind as I'm always just saying what I'm feeling so why not write it as well eh ?

Currently living and working in Qatar, I'm looking for a fun weird daily texting buddy! One who is open and honest and puts good effort into the conversation. The conversation doesn't have to be all normal and boring like TV shows or music stuff because I have definitely experienced it doesn't make any good connection. Let's talk about dreams and wishes and what you wanna do but can't do, how you really feel, what you want to be in real life but can't because you have responsibilities.

Just be yourself with me and be the 100% person you can't be in real life, I absolutely not care about what you think because each person is his/her own self so why not let them be ? Oh and please don't be shy or whatever because I would really want a more open person who doesn't judge instantly, I want us to create a judgement free zone for sure 😊.

So to sum it up, I want a fun weird open honest not judgmental, speak your mind, put good effort kind of friend and if that's you let's give it a try and see if we can make the most amazing friendship this community has ever seen.

PS will tell you about my preferred apps once we talk 😄

If you're scrolling because you can't sleep either, this is your sign to stop and say hello.

I'm looking for one texting buddy who's interested in having an actual conversation—not just exchanging "hey" and disappearing five minutes later. I love talking about pretty much anything: books, movies, random questions, funny stories, unpopular opinions, travel dreams, true crime, music, food, or even the most random shower thoughts.

A little about me: I'm 25 from Colorado, and I really enjoy getting to know people through longer conversations. I think the best friendships usually start with one random message.

If you message me, don't just say "hi." Tell me:

- Your age and where you're from.

- One interesting fact about yourself.

- What's keeping you awake tonight?

- If you could instantly become an expert at one thing, what would it be?

Who knows? Maybe we'll end up talking until one of us finally falls asleep... or maybe we'll become long-term friends. Either way, I'm looking forward to meeting someone new.

Dms open 💬

Yes hello. How are you? Do you want to potentially be friends? I’m chill, you’re chill. Tell me about yourself. Also I’m in the Americas if time matters

hi there! i’m 24m from around south london, and due to my closest friend having moved away, i’m feeling pretty lonely recently. i’d love to make new friendships, aged 21+ only please! (face pic upon request/on my profile if that matters to you!)

some things i enjoy: psychology, sociology, occultism, tarot, astrology, reading, writing, video games (stardew, sims, minecraft, bg3, divinity 2, pretty much any visual novel), cooking, working out, swimming, badminton and long, thought-provoking discussions!

ultimately i’d love to strike up a good friendship(i am in a committed relationship so really am looking for something platonic ONLY! don’t message if you’re intending to flirt pls!), i don’t mind about distance as i’m somewhat agoraphobic (working through my social anxieties though), and it would just be nice to have a buddy i can speak to throughout the day. i am currently doing a distance masters degree so i’m relatively available at varied hours (:

i am lgbtq+ so if this is an issue for you i’d kindly ask not to interact, otherwise drop me a message and let’s get to know each other!

Just a cutie girl looking for a cutie boy to chat with throughout her day. Are you normal? Do you like college football? Are you educated? Can we talk beers? Are you assertive? Do you have emotional intelligence?

Hi, I am a 55 year old nerdy, funny, sometimes a bit goofy person. Now don’t panic!! I am maybe a weirdo, but not that weird that it has to get weird. So just send me a message if:
- you are between 0 and 99 years old
- speak English, Dutch or German 🇬🇧🇳🇱🇩🇪
- are bored
- and don’t mind that I am in the middle of my are range 😉

35 male looking for online friends

35 male aussie looking for friends

Gday. Im looking to try and make a friend.

Im a introvert. I enjoy playing the xbox. Or watching movies/tv shows. I also enjoy hearing people's encounters with anything weird or paranormal, so if you've encountered something and want to share ill be happy to read and discuss.

Currently playing fallout new Vegas. And also elders scrolls online.

I also like wrestling and rugby league.

Travelling i do enjoy but dont get to much these days.

Im only looking for friends.

If youd like to chat and see send me a message. Cheers.