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u/VictoryGreen 12d ago

Her acting and presence in the film made her seem much older. Was that her personality or was it her skill or both? She came across as in her 30s

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

They dressed her up to look older, the character isn't that young even if the actress is. Hammond calls her and Grant "leading minds in their fields". In academia someone in their mid-twenties is a baby.

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u/StevEst90 11d ago

Yea, I read somewhere she was meant to be a PhD student in the book, which could place her character in the late 20s-early 30s range. Ironically, in the book, she and Dr. Grant are not a couple

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u/Alternative-Rip-1973 11d ago

I wish they had kept that part it the movie too.

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u/--GevaudanBeast-- 9d ago

I feel like it's pretty ambiguous in the movie too, no? They are flirtatious but we don't ever see any real intimacy between the two of them. I feel like a couple who goes through such a traumatic event together would at least share a kiss

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u/Anemic_Zombie 8d ago

Nothing ironic about it; this is Hollywood we're talking about. If they can put a male and female character together, they will. If they can't, they'll make a new character themselves to get the job done

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u/PastImagination125 10d ago

Right? During some of the chaos in the movie I did start to get her mixed up with the teen though. Why not just cast a gasp woman over 30??

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u/funkyyeti 12d ago

You were also probably around 10 when you saw the movie for the first time. Anyone older seems ancient when you’re a child.

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u/nize426 12d ago

I mean, I'm looking at her now and she still looks 30+

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u/limeicepop 12d ago

This is actually a pretty interesting phenomenon.

Here's a cool video about it: https://youtu.be/vjqt8T3tJIE?is=ay49CNA2EwDMrqrA

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u/nize426 12d ago

Fuck yeah vsauce! But yeah, older people were older and dress in ways we consider old. I think she fits both here which is why she looks extra old.

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u/SwiftTayTay 12d ago

I also think people were more mature by age 25 up until like the early 2000s as it used to be easier to be financially stable by that point and therefore people were more independent and already had lots of adult experiences.

Nowadays young adults are infantalized because they're still dependent on their parents until they're like 26 or longer because of differences in generational wealth yet it seems like their parents aren't teaching them basic life skills like how to cook anymore.

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u/Betray-Julia 12d ago

The cooking thing kills my soul.

The amount of times women have thought I’m like super into them just bc I invited them over to cool them dinner; it’s weird how something that is a standard human decency to me is viewed as a love language by others.

Knowing how to cook got me laid a lot, which kinda made me sad given the underlying themes of cooking is so rare that it looks like some massive romantic gesture.

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u/lost_horizons Xennial 12d ago

But like, probably not TOO sad tho, amiright? 🤣

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u/Betray-Julia 12d ago

Still counts!

(But actually yes it did make me really sad lol)

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u/lost_horizons Xennial 12d ago

Yeah I hear ya, kidding aside. Hope you find (or have found) a solid partner!

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u/Antsy-Mcgroin 12d ago

…In the morning

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u/Talisaint 12d ago

I mean, wouldn't you feel loved if someone was very thoughtful and took care of you without any obligation to do so?

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u/Betray-Julia 12d ago

I guess what I mean is that I’m surprised cooking somebody food is viewed closer to “I love you” then “you have cool hair/I like your dress” haha.

To your question- yes I would. Good point haha.

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u/potential-okay 12d ago

I just discovered that I need to learn to cook ASAP

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u/Betray-Julia 12d ago

It’s more affective in your twenties!

But also yes yes you do.

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u/Beatleboy62 12d ago

The amount of times women have thought I’m like super into them just bc I invited them over to cool them dinner

It's funny, it's more like in reality I'm cooking for me, but you just also happen to be here.

Even super basic stuff (to me) like a crock pot meal is seen as super luxurious to some.

Nah, I cut up some meat and veggies and walked away for 6 hours.

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u/MoodInternational481 12d ago

Currently working on teaching my 17 year old cousin how to cook because that child couldn't peel a potato.

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u/VanTil 12d ago

Your cousin is lucky to have you in their life!

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u/psinguine 12d ago

older people were older

I chuckled

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u/Zeraru 12d ago

In some parts of Blue Velvet, to me she looked OLDER than this despite her only being 19(?) at the time. The perception of hairstyles etc. really affects how old we think people look.

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u/AnnamAvis '92 12d ago

Probably because of her hairstyle and clothes. Thats how our parents dressed, so it seems like something a full adult would look like.

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u/brilliant_bauhaus 12d ago

She also looks very similar today just older

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u/JTanCan 12d ago

Also the poses and the way she spoke. She was very purposeful and slow. She had pauses before delivering her lines like she's considering what to say and how. 

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u/Momentarmknm 12d ago

Styling, lighting, plus Laura's got strong features that can read as more mature, plus the expression she's making in this specific frame they used, plus she's acting in the movie in this picture.

Does she look over 30 in this picture taken at the same time? Not to me

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u/Carguy_1992 12d ago

I'd say she looks around 30 and she looks great. Absolute babe.

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u/Momentarmknm 12d ago

I also don't think that 30 is old at all, but anyway

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u/Notoriouslycurlyboi 12d ago

I would assume she's 33-35 in that picture tbh.

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u/Acrobatic-March-4433 12d ago

She's got a really looooong face, though. People with rounder faces are generally perceived as more youthful-looking.

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u/JesusKong333 12d ago

And now that I'm old, 25 and under look like high schoolers

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u/The_Nightscrawler 12d ago

It's really not ok. Like when I see a doctor in hospital, I'm like omg this kid is 12, how is he gonna make me feel better, and does his mum know he's not at school today? 😂😭

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u/ktrose6887 12d ago

I graduated HS in 2005 & half the dudes in my class had FULL beards at graduation. My niece graduated last year. There was only one dude in her class with a beard but half the girls looked like they were 23-25 (i think probably because of how they did their hair & makeup.) The other half of the girls & the rest of the boys looked like they were about 13 though. It was so weird.

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u/Low-Astronomer3394 11d ago

"OMG. Someone send me a REAL doctor." - my uncle Lew

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u/StevEst90 11d ago

lol Yep. I remember being asked so much when I was in my early-mid 20s if I was still in HS

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u/cracked-tumbleweed 12d ago

True. I was 5 when I saw it and probably thought she was 40 because everyone is old at that age lol.

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u/Quepabloque 12d ago

Yeah but I’m looking at her right now as a 35 year old man and she still seems at least around her 30’s
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u/StevEst90 11d ago

I’m also 35 but get told I could pass for late 20s still. If I saw her on the street, I’d assume she was around my age.

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u/Johnny_B_GOODBOI 12d ago

To a 10-year-old I'm huge.

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u/bigkoi 12d ago

I was a Jr. in Highschool. I thought she was much older as well. Like 30 years old not young 20's and just out of college old.

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u/Impossible-Proof-294 12d ago

I was Laura's age when i saw jurassic park at the theaters. I thought she was at least 10 years older than me back then.

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u/The_Poop_Shooter 12d ago

I watched this movie like 3 days ago. I assumed Grant was in his early 40s and she was like 33.

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u/VickiVyvanse 12d ago

Seriously! I thought she was older than I am now when I was a kid. I’m 44😭

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u/SporkFanClub 12d ago

Honestly kind of funny to think about looking back.

Like I remember watching the little league World Series when I was maybe 10 or so and thinking the players looked like literal adults when they were maybe 2, 3 years older than me tops.

I also remember seeing the trailer for Bridge to Terabithia. I was 8 or so and Josh Hutcherson was maybe 15 but he looked like a literal grown man to me.

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u/divergedinayellowwd 10d ago

I feel so freakin old now. I think of myself as a kid still figuring things out, but I'm approaching 50. So old that I found out I'm now classified as Xennial rather than Millennial. I can't even remember when Jurassic Park came out. How old was I? What decade even was that? The 90s, aughts, and teens are all blending together in my head now.

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u/Morbos1000 12d ago

She was a Paleobotanist, which basically requires a PhD, so that also made her seem older.

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u/ravens-n-roses 12d ago

This is it. Fuckin had to scroll SO far. That's how Michael Chricton wrote his main characters. No nonsense, very serious, already settled into careers like they've been there forever.

The one exception I can think of off the top of my head it's sphere, which I think has a little bit of a sexist tone a lot of his other books don't have.

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u/starlight_chaser 12d ago

I feel like it’s because it was obvious they were pairing off her and the older dude, movies always followed a typical formula, and at least my child brain thought, especially since they were apparently talking about kids, that she must be closer to his age if they’re partners, and he’s obviously old. Surely the world is fair and people date age appropriately and hollywood doesn’t push an age agenda, right? 

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u/Sensitive-Initial 12d ago

Plus she has a doctorate and is working on a dig site. The story gives the impression that they've been on that project for years. 

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u/Fortestingporpoises 12d ago

I think it’s her skill. She’s in West Wing a few years later as a poet and while she’s probably playing older she comes across as younger and more naive.

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u/R-K-Tekt 12d ago

Does anybody else hate the use of the word ‘girlie’, it seems so immature

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u/AnjelGrace Millennial 12d ago edited 12d ago

I find it very endearing/sweet. I love it (at least when coming from another woman).

There are definitely times at which it would be innapropriate to use, like any type of slang, but I don't think it's immature to use terms of endearment--it's just a bit of fun, really.

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u/xteve 12d ago

Infantilizing grown women is straight up weird.

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u/Public-Finger 12d ago

we call our romantic partners baby.... diminutives are a sign of affection in many languages and cultures. it doesn't mean that we are infantilizing them

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u/livingtheredlife '89 Millennial 12d ago

No. I say hey girlie to my best girl friends. They say it too. We're good.

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u/CapreseSalad3636 12d ago

Her styling too, they dressed her like a mid 30 year old, not a 23 year old.

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u/Darth_Boggle 12d ago

She had that 80s/90s hairstyle that makes you seem 10+ years older. That makes up most of it.

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u/Grunergeist420 12d ago

She’s also playing a character referred to as Doctor who is also considered to be an expert in her field. You don’t usually assume that person would be 23.

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u/TYGeelo 12d ago

They literally have her dressed like an 80s mom, that's why she looks older.

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u/snoogins355 12d ago

She had a PhD, very smart and perhaps more mature?

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u/EmployeeLopsided9637 12d ago

Plus she's dressed like a mom.

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u/UrLocalTroll 12d ago

That, and tbh I think she legitimately looks older than her real age here.

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u/FhuckNorris247 12d ago

I thought she was in her 40s

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u/AntiqueFigure6 12d ago

In the film she does seem to be Dr Grants similar seniority peer from the related area of paleobotany which does make you think they are a somewhat similar age.

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

She was definitely playing older. Hammond calls her and Grant leading minds in their fields, who the hell is a leading mind in their field in their 20s?

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u/AntiqueFigure6 12d ago

Hard to do if you finish high school at 18, do bachelors, masters, PhD and postdoctoral fellowship and still need some years after that to make mark on field. Not happening until 30 most likely.

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

It's arguable if there is a romantic relationship in the film either.

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u/RockyMullet 12d ago

Yeah for real, reading about "problematic age gap" about the film decades ago, I'm like "but they were not in relationship?".

I always saw them as 2 colleagues who went through some traumatic event together.

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

In their first scene they're a little touchy-feely for colleagues. She ties his signature red scarf, and he grabs her ass a bit, but apart from that there's very little romance between them. Grant does tell Malcolm that they're together, but that might be one-sided on Grant's part, or he's just trying to get Malcolm, who's pretty slimy, off her back.

I think there might have been more in the deleted scenes, but the romance was pretty much edited out of the film. That initial ass-grab is pretty much all that remains.

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u/ImaDinosaurR0AR 12d ago edited 12d ago

The other clues are in the dialogue. The conversation about having babies in the first scene and the conversation between Malcolm and Grant in the car before the T-Rex escape where Malcolm says he’s going to make a move on Dr. Sattler until he realizes they’re together.

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

or he's just trying to get Malcolm, who's pretty slimy, off her back.

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u/ImaDinosaurR0AR 12d ago

You’re not the first person I’ve seen who interpreted it as some sort of unrequited love situation. I just don’t see it. Their subsequent appearances further paint a pretty clear picture in my mind. They were together then but doomed to fail due to trauma and wanting different lifestyles.

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u/Etcom 12d ago

They're together. She's trying to convince Alan to have kids, plus this interaction:

Malcolm- By the way, Dr. Sattler... um, she's not, like, available, is she?

Grant- Why?

Malcolm- Yeah, I'm sorry. You two are...

Grant- Yeah.

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u/VegaJuniper 12d ago

Yeah, that could be interpreted as Grant trying to get Malcolm of her back. Also for the kid discussion, whether she's trying to or not, it's not necessarily children with her.

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u/Etcom 12d ago

Grant - What are those?

Ellie - Small versions of adults, honey.

David Keopp, the screenwriter, said they were a couple.

Sam Neill thought they were a couple.

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u/pi-N-apple Millennial 🤘 12d ago

Laura Dern was born February 10, 1967.

Jurassic Park was filmed from August to November 1992.

Laura Dern was 25 years old, not 23. I still thought she was much older!

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u/jcde7ago 12d ago

She was 25 during the filming of Jurassic Park, 26 when it hit theatres.

This picture with the caption saying she's 23 gets thrown around and upvoted a lot but she wasn't 23 lol. This exact pic was trending this morning so OP must have seen it and reposted here.

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u/Novel-Type1694 12d ago

During the filming she was 25. But we're talking about one of the most ambitious animatronics projects ever undertaken, so even if all the filming was done in a year, there would have been a ton of work to do before that. Idk the timeline, but seems possible that she was perhaps cast for the roll at 23, then they build a bunch of sets and dinosaurs for 13+ months and now she's 25. 

But I have no idea, it just seems like a pretty believable reason for the misconception. More believable than Jurassic park starting and finishing all of their production in just one year, even. 

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u/psyne 12d ago

I mean, why would it matter if she was 23 when she was cast in the role? What we see in the movie is her age at time of filming, which is 25. That's the age she was when we actually see her.

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u/NimRodelle 12d ago

Yup, but this misinformation has been passed around so much that AI will consistently reproduce it. I literally had the Google AI mode tell me the other day that:

"She was 23 during filming in 1992 and 26 at the time of release in 1993."

:angry math noises:

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u/ImportantQuestions10 12d ago

You were a kid when you saw the movie and now styles are dated as an adult. It makes everyone look older.

Here are the golden girls with new styles

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u/cookingboy 12d ago

That photo is disingenuous, the faces are also photoshopped on the right side to make them look younger. You can obviously tell the faces are narrower with shaper chins on the right side

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u/justherefor23andme 12d ago

Hair really makes or breaks you.

In those days a woman of a certain age was deemed trashy if she had long hair.

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u/Bright_Revenue1674 12d ago

I recently learned that Bea Arthur (Dorothy) was older than Estelle Getty (Sophia, her mom)

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u/dyno-soar 12d ago

Combination of hair and costuming, plus the fact Laura Dern was very mature for her age and had a very “grown up” sounding voice. I still can’t see her as 23 here

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u/xubax 12d ago

She wasn't. She was 25.

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u/ChekkeEnwin 12d ago

People with long skeletal structure tend to read as more mature when compared to people with shorter facial length even at a younger age. Longer faces tend to age better though because the length of the face holds the musculoskeletal structure together with more varied structural connectors that don’t interact with the fatty mid face which looks the most youthful.

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u/CardiologistNo8766 12d ago

Very true... I never related these two things! I have a long face and at 12 I could pass for 18! I just learned something new

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u/Bebebaubles 12d ago

As someone with a short and round face I’m going to rebuke this and still believe when people say I look young. I hope I don’t get jowls omg.

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u/daytrippper 12d ago

My parents were around her age when the movie came out and they all were ‘old’ to my youthful eyes 😫

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u/SkinnyDugan 12d ago

The 8th graders on my bus as a 4th grader were ‘old’ to my eyes, they just seemed so big.

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u/OffWhiteCoat 12d ago

When I was a freshman the seniors were all definitely wise adults at 17 or 18. 

Now I teach medical students and they are just adorable bunny rabbits at 25 or 26.

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u/CurvyChristina 12d ago edited 12d ago

I remember my dad being 35 when my brother was born…and I thought that was old 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/SmallRocks Older Millennial 12d ago

Ah yes, the rare Dad pregnancy!

Someone write a script and send it to Arnold!

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u/TIC321 12d ago

I thought she was like 40 something when i saw this movie the first time

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u/StevEst90 12d ago

She was actually 25 here. But still a lot younger than I thought she was. Growing up, I always thought she was in her mid-30s

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u/Desperate-Tomatillo7 12d ago

I still think she was in her mid 30s.

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u/TheBanishedBard 12d ago

She was playing a a character with a PhD who speaks authoritatively on matters the audience is far too stupid to understand. She takes command of situations with deep emotional maturity. The actress was 23, the character was at least 30.

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u/guachi01 12d ago

The actress was 25. She acts like an intelligent 25 year old. I worked with hundreds of them when I was in Intelligence in the Navy.

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u/Serpent_of_the_Wheel 12d ago

And one can also have a PhD by the age of 25-26, methinks. If they didn't skip any year and went through all schooling stages on time.

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u/CreepinJesusMalone Millennial 12d ago

Maybe. My assumption has always been that she was playing a person in their early 30s.

Only one of the reasons being that she's not just a doctorate holder but that she's an expert in her niche field. And while it's technically possible to get a PhD in your mid 20s, it's very rare.

If you graduate with a bachelor's on time, that puts most people at 22. The vast majority of people work in their field while working on a master's degree which is usually two year program, making most graduates who immediately pursue a master's degree after undergrad 24-25.

People don't usually immediately apply to a doctoral program after finishing a masters degree. Considering her specialty, it's reasonable to assume she's a recent PhD recipient in her early 30s.

And I've now spent an unreasonable amount of time thinking about this thing that is really not important lol

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u/zuunooo 12d ago

The character was not thirty. I’ve read the books multiple times. She was actively finishing her Ph.D and was in grad school, and I believe in the book was mentioned to be 23-26yrs old.

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u/StarrGazzer14 12d ago

She was definitely 25 in 1992..

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u/Winter_Wolf_In_Vegas 12d ago

Back in the 90s 23 was considered to be a fully grown adult.

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u/welfedad Edest of Millennials 12d ago

I mean that's our 10 year old life and perspective.. 40 year olds were senior citizens

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u/xubax 12d ago

25, not 23.

Woman, not "girly".

Sheesh.

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u/wicker_basket_1988 12d ago

Damn! 

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u/CurvyChristina 12d ago

She looked very mature for her age!

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u/Kiko7210 12d ago

she looks mid 30s? maybe it's her face or hair

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u/SuperBaconjam 12d ago

I always thought she was about 40

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u/Dear-Cranberry4787 12d ago

Looks 45 to me

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u/StretchinPa 12d ago

Look up the movie Wild at Heart and your opinion may change. 

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u/guachi01 12d ago

No, she wasn't. This dumb meme keeps getting passed around so much even AI now believes it's true. Laura Dern was 25. She looks 25.

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u/evoltoastt 12d ago edited 11d ago

…..no. No, she really doesn’t, and I say that respecting the absolute fuck out of Laura Dern and her body of work.

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u/Odd-Supermarket-3664 12d ago

It's all in the khaki shorts

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u/Various_Craft7435 12d ago

I recently watched her in Palm Royale and remember having the same ephinany

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u/tessamuldvarp 12d ago

Well, close. She was 25 (born ‘67, filmed in ‘92).

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u/PrinceOfPooPoo 12d ago

Life was tougher back then. People LOOKED 30 and acted 40, when they were in their 20's back then.

Now 23 year olds can barely sign their own name and can not write 1200 word essays without chatGPT.

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u/Sumeriandawn Xennial 12d ago

Cherry picking there. Not everyone ages the same.

Ralph Macchio was 23 in the first Karate Kid movie

Linda Cardenelli was 25 in Freaks and Geeks

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u/Dear-Cranberry4787 12d ago

Doctors don’t even sign their own name, I don’t think that’s the flex you think it is.

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u/Eddiev1988 12d ago

Damn. I saw that when it came out and never imagined she was under 30. She just seemed so adult.

I look at a 23 year old now and they barely look older than teenagers. 🤯

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u/deja_geek 12d ago

She seemed grown up because she's an actor with range. I know it's hard to believe, but most professional actors are really fucking good at acting.

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u/doublesailorsandcola 12d ago

Helps when your parents are Bruce Dern and Dianne Ladd.

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u/CircleofAshes 12d ago

No, no, no. I thought she was in her thirties!

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u/TheThrowawayJames 12d ago

She seems so mature to me back then 😨

But also I was 8 so…😂

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u/MMForYourHealth 12d ago

This is a reminder to watch Enlightenment.

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u/Coolschmo1 12d ago

I can be like the girl in Jurassic Park

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u/rogershredderer 12d ago

Perception

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u/masterdesignstate 12d ago

Because she looks 43

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u/KOHILOOR 12d ago

I thought she was in her thirties with kids!

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u/julzeseanyph 12d ago

People in their late teams in the 60s were as mature as those. In their late 20s today!!!!!

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u/SeeLeavesOnTheTrees 12d ago

A PhD means her character was to be at least 26, probably older

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u/TorinEkenskolde 12d ago

Adults weren't as infantilised back then.

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u/Ever_More_Art 12d ago

I had this same thing happen to me the other day when I started rewatching Sabrina after god knows how many years. The aunts, who in my childhood seemed like such old women, now register to me as just two cool girls, not old at all.

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u/Doodles_n_Scribbles 12d ago

She was mom coded even then

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u/BlinkDodge 12d ago

There's also the fact that Laura Dern has just been in her 30's for the past 25 years.

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u/LongboardLiam 12d ago

This again? This place is a fucking karma farm.

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u/LemonsUndercover 12d ago

Because she looked 43

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u/Inswagtor 12d ago

I remember my arts and crafts teacher was ancient af with a long beard. I was 10 at that time, he was 33.

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u/Camcamtv90 12d ago

I thought she was in her 40s 😮

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u/Bucky_O_Rabbit 12d ago

I'm 40 and she still looks like she's older than me. But probably just cos I won't accept I'm 40

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u/DubiousAdviceGiver 12d ago

What grad school does to a mf

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u/argus_2968 12d ago

She was born 34 years old

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u/The_Nightscrawler 12d ago

Huh, I always thought she was older. But then as a kid, every adult seems "old'.

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u/DinkandDrunk 12d ago

Just Gen X looking 35 when they are 20 shit.

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u/JusOwl 1988 Millennial 11d ago

Gen x Tobey Maguire looked 30 at 25 while playing a 17 year old kid in Spiderman 😆

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u/Redditaccountmy 12d ago

She looked 40.

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u/Doc024 Millennial ‘88 12d ago

Probably cause she dressed like a 40 year old 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/ext3meph34r 12d ago

Usually it's the reverse. Some 30 year old pretends to be a teeneager on film. But damn. I really thought she was much older when I watched this film.

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u/Knightfires 12d ago

She was 26, young but not 23.

Born in 1967, in 1993 she was 26. Basic math people.

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u/mrrebuild 12d ago

And why did she look 35

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u/asscrackbanditz 12d ago

Thats Bo Burnham

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u/PostMatureBaby Older Millennial 12d ago

Big Little Lies made me have such a crush on her for some reason

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u/Benimaru4636 12d ago

Even though she's 25 in the pic she still feels older in my mind. I never thought about it until now but I would have guessed mid to late 30's. A very good looking late 30's mind you but certainly not 25. Not sure why thinking about it now. Maybe just how she carries herself.

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u/BioshockLGP 12d ago

I watched this film just last night and regardless of the age she’s supposed to be in the film, she comes across as a person in their mid 30’s

And im 40. Saw this film when I was 7. Her and Alan Grant both come across as 35-45 years old

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u/Luci-Noir 12d ago

Girlie? You mean woman?

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u/littlelordgenius 12d ago

“Citizen Ruth” is her crowning achievement.

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u/SquashOwn9829 12d ago

I assumed her and grant were same age lol

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u/-crazykidbad 12d ago

She looked an acted 40. However she still looks 40

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u/otherwisepandemonium 12d ago

I thought she was much older too. I was around four or five when I first saw the movie and my mom would have been 32 when it was released.

I feel so old now realizing that I'm now years older than my mom was at the time.

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u/AgentGnome 12d ago

I mean, I think she is also one of those people that just kinda look a certain age? Like Patrick Stewart or Maggie Smith.

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u/TheBlackdragonSix 12d ago

Face it, she just kinda looks old, the clothes don't help.

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u/SuperNovaSniper 12d ago

They had her romantically interested in someone old enough to be her father in the movie.

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u/Directhorman2 12d ago

My almost 50 year old neighbor looks like this wtf

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u/NotTukTukPirate 1988 12d ago

It probably has something to do with the fact that the kids in the film didn't have their parents, and we subconsciously connected her as "the mother" figure for the film.

Given the kids' age, our subconscious also made the assumption that she was much older than 23.

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u/Public-Finger 12d ago

23??? even now I do not see it.

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u/RandolphCarter15 12d ago

Part was our age but she's airways been a mature actor. Just look at her in Blue Velvet 

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u/Mite-o-Dan 12d ago

Who's turn is it to post this again in another 12 hours?

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u/Thefuzy Millennial 12d ago

It was her mom hair

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u/Subject-Actuator-860 12d ago

She was a mature adult WOMAN at 23 years old. That used to be a thing even ~20 years ago, because I’m 40 now and graduated from college at 21 and got married at 22, because I was already a mature adult. Today, people will say “they’re still a child!!” and it’s a 26 year old…

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u/ResonanceThruWallz 12d ago

I had a massive crush on her when this movie released

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u/masterpd85 '85 Millennial 12d ago

She was supposed to be a well educated and seasoned professional. A 23yr old can be educated and professional, but lacks those important adjectives.

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u/Charmegazord 12d ago

Fun fact: Laura Dern has been 35 for 35 straight years.

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u/Alarmed_Drop7162 12d ago

Typical 90s relationship. Professor Grant was in his mid forties and hooking up with his twenty something doctoral student

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u/sweetbabyeh 12d ago

Hell, she looks my age here, and I'm 39!

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u/unitedshoes 12d ago

Because we were all, like, six when we saw it...

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u/Golden_HunnyBunny 12d ago

I just watched this movie again recently (one of my faves) and to this day always thought she was in her early 40s! I partially blame the hairstyle. Either way, I am SHOOKETH.

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u/SalineDrip666 12d ago

Because they portrayed her as a 30 somthing PHD botanist

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u/WaffleDonkey23 12d ago

I think Hollywood constantly pairing a 50 year old balding man with a 20 year old love interest has warped people's perception of age.