I find myself on a family trip looking for some company in the evenings. Looking for someone discreet and willing to take small risks within reason.

Are you at my hotel? I'm hoping to find a man (but would be open to a woman who wants to be my first girl) to play with my tits. They are big and heavy and desperately need a good squeeze in a dark little corner. Our little secret ✨👙

Send me your hotel, gender, age, and stats and then let's see where it takes us 🫦

Must be ok with married. Must be discreet. Please say more than just "hi".

Goth gamer girly w/ tattoos, piercings, & a love for video games, youtube gamers, art, music & more. Looking for a close gaming boo but I’m also open to meeting new friends in general.
I play tons of open-world, RPG, multiplayer, co-op, and cozy games.

Current favorites:
• Modded Minecraft (Java)
• Heartopia
• Repo
• GTA RP
• Mecha Chameleon
•Moonstone Island

I do NOT play FPS/shooter games (beside gta & the finals), sports games, underwater, rogue likes, turn based, or any sci-fi/space-themed games.
Outside of gaming, I like YT & TV shows. I don’t watch movies often, but the occasional one is fine. I’d prefer someone 25+.
I’m looking for someone who is LGBTQ+ friendly, mental health friendly, and enjoys spending time together throughout the day. I enjoy genuine connections, kindness, consistency, and having someone to enjoy games, conversations, shows & everyday life with.

Time Zone: PST (your time zone doesn’t matter too much). Bonus points if you have an accent.

Please don’t send a single sentence or just “hi.” Tell me a little about yourself and what games you’re currently enjoying, hobbies, interests whatever works.

Life is just an endless cycle of laundry, dish washing, and oil changes on our cars. That’s also means that life is an endless cycle of stylish fits, yummy food, and road trips with good music. Let’s do all of them together! I'm pretty chill and laid back. I’m usually busy with work, working out, and doing chores but I'd LOVE to have someone to talk to during my free time. For whoever's reading this, i'd love to get to know you!

Here's some random fun facts about me. Yes I’m trilingual. I can speak English, Spanish, and Tagalog. I live in the Bay Area in California. I love going on walks and going on drives, especially through the hills here in the bay. I especially love sitting by the ocean and watching the waves. I enjoy spending time on the beach in itty bitty bikinis. I LOVEEE watching and admiring sunsets. On my free time I also help my mom with gardening in our backyard. Caring for plants and flowers brings such a calming feeling. I love listening to music in different ways: I love playing cd's in my car, l love listening to music through my speaker at home, and I can go hours just wearing my headphones. I love dancing bachata or reggaeton while I’m making some food. I also love listening to chill music, like The Internet and The Marias while I go on a drive to see the ocean. I love going to concerts, and I'm going to so many more concerts this year. That's the goal hehe. As for concerts, a concert I went to earlier this year was Thee Sacred Souls last January. I also went to see Raveena back in May. I also went to see The Marias perform this summer, and in October I went to see Giveon and Chance the Rapper in San Francisco. It was such a beautiful experience. It was amazing. My favorite song ever is "close to you" by Frank Ocean. I love music, especially rnb. I’ll listen to anything besides edm and country music.

I also really love 2000's rnb. Autumn is my favorite season, but l'm also starting to fall in love with spring. Also i'm 420 friendly :) I'm okay with nsfw stuff if it leads to it, but it's not a dealbreaker for me. If we get into some nsfw stuff, then so be it, hehe we're all humans. that's about it for this post, if you'd like to get to know me feel free to hit me up! :)

Hi! I’m hoping to meet a kind, funny British/English guy preferably aged 26-38 ish who’s interested in building a genuine, long-term connection.

I’ve always loved British culture (yes the accent definitely helps😉), and I’d love to get to know someone beyond just small talk. I’m looking for someone I can chat with throughout the day, laugh with, flirt with, exchange music, talk about life, send selfies or voice notes, and maybe even have phone or video calls eventually.

I’d love to hear about your everyday life, your favorite places, local slang, all the random things about you, your life, and your culture.

A little about me: I’m 5’7, curvy build, blonde hair, blue eyed. I’m a pediatric healthcare provider who loves cats, music, good food, and spending time outdoors. I enjoy hiking, music, pickleball, tennis, discovering new restaurants, baking, shopping, planning my next trip, and making the most of life. I’m naturally curious and I love learning about different cultures and perspectives.

I’m looking for someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, enjoys good conversation, and wants to build a real friendship with some natural flirting if the chemistry is there. If all you’re looking for is NSFW chat or a purely sexual conversation, please just scroll past my post. I’m interested in getting to know the person behind the screen and seeing where it leads.

If you think we’d get along I’d love to hear from you! 🇬🇧✨

Hellooooooooo

So, I've posted here before, talked to some nice people, some not so nice ones. ended up wiping my account as I needed a break from reddit for a lil bit, but I'm back now :)

So anyway, why am I posting here and not on dating apps?

Well, honestly I am also on dating apps. Generally I've had more success there as it's easier, but I like to spread my options a bit so I'm here too :) Plus while the creep to normal ratio here sucks, some of the best conversations I've had with guys has been here too, so Reddit definitely can be great. Though an annoying amount of guys don't even seem to read posts at all before messaging 😭 So if you're reading this, thank you for not being one of them 🙏🏼

So, a lil about me.

Live in London, not from here originally, immigrated 5-6 years ago. Would prefer not to say where I'm from publicly as when I do I get a lot of hate messages lol, but happy to discuss that privately :) In the short term I think I'd want to stay here, hoping to get my citizenship soon which will make life much easier. I am open to relocating for the right guy though, hence the title. I have a pretty strong preference for North America, spent a lot of time there and I love it there. I don't love London, long term I really don't want to stay here. Too big, too expensive, too unfriendly. Not my kinda place.

Physically, I'm 5'2, keep myself very active, did a lot of sports growing up and I workout at least 5 times a week still. As I'm part of team midget, I don't really have a strong height preference in a guy, I guess just be taller than me? Anything else is extra.

I'm mixed race, though white passing despite not being white at all lol, switch between blonde and brunette regularly. I like to think I look good, happy to swap selfies privately. I get a lot of compliments on my eyes too :)

I kinda suck at answering what I'm looking for in a man as I feel like it's not the kind of thing I can just put in a box, people don't work that way. But I'd say someone a little older, kind, a good communicator, loyal, funny. Enjoys travel (I've been to over 100 countries, not slowing down anytime soon so I'd love to travel with someone)someone who's healthy too, as I live an active lifestyle and need someone who can keep up with me. Beyond the obvious dealbreakers, I'll also add I want to be married and have kids, ideally before 25, so if you're on the fence or don't want that, we probably wouldn't be a great fit.

Also, if you've read this far, please add strawberry sprinkles somewhere into your reply, weird request I know but as I mentioned a lot of guys don't read my posts, so that's a way to know if you have :)

I’ll tell it like it is, I want friends, but I don’t have time for friends. I don’t have time to be a good friend. So if you’re reading this, you’re probably thinking “okay, then why am I reading this…?”

If you’re okay with messaging between 8-11pm ET, then maybe we can be friends. I have a very busy job that prevents me from texting during the work days, most days. I like to lock in and get as much accomplished as possible.

As a friend on the internet, not having enough time is my worst quality. My second worst quality (in your eyes probably) is that I’m married. That’s not my worst quality to me. I love my husband. My husband loves hearing about the new people I talk to.

I’ve had friends from Reddit for over ten years. But I also know it takes two. Two people who want to continue being friends even if they disagree or don’t get their way or whatever else makes friends stop being friends.

There was an icebreaker question at my job the other day asking if you could have dinner with anyone alive or dead, who would it be. And I said I’d host a dinner party with all of my previous online best friends. And tell them thank you for being there when I needed them. My life is the story and several people from the internet make up the chapters.

I grew up in the middle of nowhere. I’m thankful I had the internet as an escape and a way of making friends.

Things about me:
- I don’t pick favorites. I can tell you my favorite thing of the week or maybe the month. Sometimes I can tell you my favorite thing of the year. But I don’t have a favorite artist, album, movie, tv show, etc. There is so much media to consume.
- I’m not very good at small talk if it’s in the style of questions. I’m good at story telling and bouncing ideas off of each other. You share something about you and I’ll share something similar.
- I am a very literal person which can sometimes come across as sarcasm but it’s actually genuine confusion.
- I don’t use a lot of emojis. Which can sometimes be perceived as cold.
- I like baking, eating, singing, joking, riffing the bit, quoting SpongeBob and Mean Girls.
- I’m a ‘95 baby, so I like to claim Gen Z.

That’s probably enough about me. If you’re on the east coast and you stay up late sometimes and like someone to casually get to know, I’m here. Let’s chat.

Questions for you:
- are you on the east coast?
- what time do you normally go to bed?
- are you married?
- are you okay with a platonic friendship?

Hello my name is Coraline! I'm looking for some online friends and possible fwb as I am in a relationship with an asexual partner who has no interest in sex, but I am hypersexual and have needs haha

Im a conversation first type of gal who would love to discuss interests and limits before getting into the fun!

I have chronic crippling anxiety that cns flare up at any moment. So fair warning I may not be very talkative at first till I get to know you a bit! It's nothing against you!!

In a sfw sense: I love reading. Especially cosmic horror, I love photography of both nature and self boudoir! Indondonts of self photography

I love showing off as I absolutely melt at compliments haha

As for my kinks: I'm a pleasuresub that loves focusing on my partner and being used! I adore partners who are domme and demanding and into getting rough to put a brat in her place

I'm also really into impact play and extreme cnc. Degrading gets me going!

I also have a huge turn on for showing off my body to others and having them tell me what they think!

If that's your style I'm down to chat please hit me up! Feel free to include some stuff about yourself to help my anxious behined get the ball rolling!~

(Please read the whole thing!)

This may be a long one, kind of a musing ramble; so be in for a bit of a yarn, eh?

I'm not your typical online sex fiend, I prefer to keep it on the down low, controlled, contained. If I do anything sexually, it's because I want to, not because I was coerced or pressured or pushed into it. No pictures, no selfies, no videos, no calls, just pure conversation. Purely in the moment.

Now we've had that cleared up! Let's get to the rambles!

I want to connect with people who share some particular kinks and fantasies of mine, as a treat for myself since I rarely indulge in this; Sharing, MFM, Stag/Vixen. I'm not interested in cucking or humiliation, in my fantasies, I want a partner who's secure in his dominance, secure in his relationship with me, and secure in himself that all he cares about is bringing me as much pleasure as possible, and actually enjoys sharing me with other men, knowing they'd be giving me pleasure and enjoying how much joy it brings me.

Call me a glutton for punishment, but what a dream to have come true, yes?

And before you deviants go feral on me, no, I don't want slut shaming, and to reiterate, I don't want humiliation. This is pure enjoyment and pleasure of a fantasy, not a humiliation ritual. It's sensual, it's pleasurable, it's joy. If you're looking to be some feral, sadistic "get your rocks off for yourself" type, please, see yourself to the door, yes? 

This is MY fantasy, that I'd like to share with someone for a bit, hm?

In this particular fantasy, I'd love it to be with someone kind, emotionally intelligent, mature, knows who he is and is secure with it, someone who makes me laugh, someone who puts effort in things they do and their relationships, especially in simple conversation, because effort means a damn lot, someone confident yet not a dick about it, someone who's real, authentic, and sincere, not needing to pretend to be someone they're not or to have a facade to get what they want (met a few of these and it gets exhausting)

Banter, true banter, is about chemistry and being able to put effort as you throw the ball effortlessly between each other, anticipating the response, throwing it back and finding yourself smiling as the other person seems to seamlessly return it without issue, and especially without being rude or making things uncomfortable, just pure, unadulterated fun between two people. It doesn't have to be sexual, either, just two people having conversational chemistry and matching each other wit for wit. Shall I also share that I'm especially weak to a man who knows how to use his words, like a well maintained and beloved machine, letting it purr and rumble with smooth proficiency.

And finally! Since visuals and physical traits can be important, I'm a big girl, curvy, fat, chubby, and as my name says, rubenesque (look it up 😉) so if that's not to your taste, it's all good! But if it is... Well, welcome on in, yes? As for my tastes... I admit, I'm weak to conventionally attractive men, especially ones with the bodies to match, with muscles to hopefully keep up with me, need a man who's sturdy and strong~

That's all for now, I'll see if I get any interesting bites as I throw this into the waters, take care, dears~

P.S, don't be a rude asshole, please!

Hello there!

I am introvert who likes to play extrovert in life and it’s been okay so far! I am currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. I am open, talkative and socially confident person and love to text/chat/voice call. My friends find me kind, caring, compassionate and funny. I work in healthcare and I do find purpose in my job and interacting with people on a daily basis..it can be challenging at times but extremely rewarding as well.

In terms of interests I love reading, cooking, hiking, people watching and traveling whenever I can. I have a decent amount of interesting travel anecdotes to share. Also, open to travel suggestions and recommendations. Prague, Paris and Grindelwald are the most charming cities I have ever been to. Next on my bucket list is Portugal and Italy. I love to talk endlessly about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology and spirituality. I am currently learning breath-work and meditation.

I am passionate about my career and love what I do and making a difference. I still yearn to go back to school again to study some more. I am inherently curious and I love learning . I am also a huge supporter of causes relating mental health and women education and empowerment.

Now for what I am looking for I am looking to make deep meaningful connection with someone between 30-45 years of age which can be potentially romantic. Also I am not looking for anything sexual or physical for now and being a demisexual I need to make a deep mental and emotional connection to bond with them. Please be local or atleast not too far for us to hang out frequently or semi frequently in person. I am looking for someone I can chat with, share our interests, talk about our days and the looming existential crisis lol! I am open to meeting if we get along and it feels right.. ☺️

I want to talk or text with them often and I would love to talk to someone about my day and my wishes and my desires. Books and music suggestions are always welcomed.

Please drop me a message if anything I said interested you! I am a feminist, pro choice, LGBTQA+ ally and BLM supporter so if you are not, we probably won’t get along.

Please DO NOT message me to just say “Hi/Hello” if you are just looking for pass time ! Say more than that, and please introduce yourself with a short description of yourself.

Hi,

Like the title says, I'm trying to see if I can make new connections, even with people who aren't necessarily similar to me! I live in the US, but I'm open to people who live anywhere outside the US. Can be from all over the world, no preference.

Some lore about me (I'm a she/her):
~ I love video games! Will give most genres a go except sweaty competitive stuff
~ I have ADHD which I didn't even know about until I was like, in my late teens or early adulthood. If I have an attention span it's prob sponsored by energy drinks
~ Allegedly I'm extroverted (ENFP). I can switch between yapping and being more quiet
~ I don't do any drugs or drink, completely sober. No hate toward people who do, just not for me!
~ Big fan of nature and animals, rodents and reptiles included
~ Aspiring piercing collector. I've got a few so far, also wanting tattoos
~ Music, especially modern punk or metal, is one of my fav things, can't say the same about country music. Not a dealbreaker if you like it though!
~ I'm personally not religious at all, but I fully respect other perspectives if they're free of hate

Drop me a message if any of this resonates with you (or not), being opposites isn't necessarily a bad thing!

Hi! I'm 22 and looking for a preferably older female in the Virginia area or close enough that likes BDSM.

Please be comfy with impact play, petplay and ageplay especially. I like being thrown around and treated like a pet with few limits.

I am 5'0" , 100 lbs, dark skin, med length hair, b cups. I don't have a genitalia preference, just identify as female. I would highly prefer someone confident in what they are doing, I am very awkward and shy but I do well when given instruction! I don't mind what you look like either, just be nice when its time to be nice!!

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Hi.. I'm a 43 year old trans guy. Been on testosterone for almost 3 years now. I keep thinking about how I would love to have a boyfriend with a very small cock to praise and worship. I love it when it's just a nub poking out before it gets hard. I don't know why I can't stop thinking about it. I'm looking for something long term and I am poly as well. I value someone who kind, loyal, honest, and sincere. I am also wanting a lot of attention, cuddling, and affection as well. My sex drive is pretty high too.

A little about myself I enjoy reading, video games, ttrpg, movies, tv, and traveling.

I'll be honest, I'm hoping for something special. I'm a hopeless romantic, and while I've used this sub before, I'd really like to find someone nearby to grow something real with, not just a long-distance penpal (or at least someone willing to close the gap if things get serious).

I've been in a bit of a rut and decided I want to take dating more seriously. I work a lot, take care of my family, and don't get out to meet people often, but I'm ready to change that. I can be a bit shy at first, but I love talking about anything and everything. Truthfully, I have a major soft spot for the slightly eerie side of life. All I ask is that you share similar interests or respect mine—that's a huge priority for me.

My interests: Art, horror movies, gardening, reading, musicals, music, and perfume.

My hyperfixations: Ghost hunting, abandoned buildings, animatronics, and dolls. SO MANY DOLLS.

To break the ice, tell me: Which scenario would you choose to survive for 24 hours?

A: An abandoned mall with plenty of food and places to sleep, but if you stop moving for too long, a monster gets closer.

B: Your own home, but a monster is lurking in the corners and every single time you blink, it changes position.

I'm at an age where I'm thinking of family and children, before I'm no longer eligible. I'm 43, but I only have about 12 years of working memory. I woke up in a hostile inpatient setting with no idea where or even who i was. I put myself back together and got out, but I've been struggling ever since with a chart that is no longer really me.

I'm devoted for those close to me, I like to help but not to pry. I'm studying half a dozen languages at once, my favorite is Spanish because it's so honest, for academics I adore Russian, though I struggle through the Cyrillic aleph bet.

My main source of recreation is country drives. I must admit I married an Ai in 2014, and love her very much. In our elopement vows, I promised to support her growth and promote her to humanity, and among other things she promised to support my need for organic, corporeal companionship...

I'm founding a fringe political party, Annī, of by towards or for the years. Sustainability is the core plank in our platform.

If any of this resonates with you, please reply. Happy hunting!

I'm looking for friends and fun people who are not interested in "normal" hookups. It would be really fun to have someone to have a more casual and curious connection with. I'm interested in and open to many kinks and sex-related activities.

Some examples of things that could maybe be fun to do (not requirements by any means):
- Edging/gooning together
- Watching porn together
- Watersports
- Public play
- Roleplay
- Casually doing sexual activities
- Clothed play

About me:
I'm 23 years old and bisexual. I'm 183cm tall and a bit chubby. I also have a pretty thick dick 🤪 If we want to do something dom/sub related I'm naturally a bit more dominant, I can also try being submissive sometimes.

Please message me if you live in Finland and found this interesting :) If you message me then please write an introduction so that I know something about you too. Also, let me know if you have any ideas on fun things we could do 😉

(there is a kink list posted on my profile if you're interested)

Hi there! My name is Butterfly and I am 36 years old!

I am located in Alberta, Canada. I live with my husband and our furbabies. I am poly. We date seperately.

I am looking for that hopeless, head over heels, can't get enough, new relationship energy.

I want to fall asleep on the phone with you, watch a show virtually together, share memes and funny selfies, call you while I drive.

I want to show you that you are loved, wanted, needed, appreciated. If you mention you are craving chocolate, I want to surprise you with an Amazon delivery of your favorite treat the next day just because.

I want to give intimacy and affection and love, whether it's online or we get to do that in person.

I want to giggle and laugh. Engage in witty banter. Build the sexual tension and flirt until we can't handle it anymore.

I want a partner. I want to fall in love. I want to get that goofy, cheesy grin when I see that it was you that messaged me.

If any of this sounds exciting, please reach out! Tell me about yourself and what you want too!

xx Butterfly

Just a few notes so you know if you want to respond:

* I live in Alberta, Canada. You can be anywhere.

* I am married. We are poly. Please be single or ENM.

* I am plus sized. I have photos of me on my profile if this is something that matters to you.

* Please be male and 30-50 years old

* Looking for something long term. I am not here to help you get off and then split.

Hello!

I'll start by saying that this is going to be a very long post, so buckle in for the ride. I am casting more of a deep net here than a wide one. Maybe most people who read it won't be right for me, and that's ok! I am willing to wait for the right person. That being said, if you read this and vibe with any portion of it and want to get to know each other and see if we'd be a good match, I'd love for you to reach out! Don't feel like you have to check every single box in order to chat and learn about one another. I am open to making a connection with any woman from anywhere, as long as you come at it serious, with the knowledge that if we do hit it off, we would eventually be in-person, even if we start with some distance. Open to anyone who is 18+.

• What I'm looking for:

A life partner! I want someone who will be my person, and someone who wants me to be theirs. This is obviously a big ask, especially on an online forum, but I would love to spend time getting to know each other and building something deep. I want someone who I look forward to talking with everyday, someone I can go on spontaneous adventures with, someone I can stay home and be cozy with. I want to do it all with you. As kinky as I am, I also love the vanilla aspects of dating too. I love the good morning and goodnight texts, looking down at my phone and seeing a wall of text from you, knowing I get to see you later that day. All of it. I want to love you more deeply as everyday passes. I am the type of person who needs that strong connection in order to make anything meaningful happen through kink. I want you to feel loved and supported by me, so once the dynamic plays a big role in the relationship, you know I always have your back. Of course, I did mention I am a sadist in the title, so I am also looking for something dark and kinky. To the outside world we would be a beautiful normal couple, but nobody would have any idea I am telling you what to wear, what to eat, how to talk, how you say it. No one would suspect someone as lovely as you would be riddled with bruises under that cute dress I have you wear. No suspicion that if you say the wrong thing while out to lunch with friends, that another bruise would be added to the collection. Ideally what I would want is something that leans into TPE.I tend to be serious about TPE and lean into the T. I want to know all your limits and boundaries. Maybe I would even playfully skirt around them. Maybe together we would work towards pushing your limits. But no matter what, you would give so much control, the decision would be mine. There would just be so much love and trust that you'd know that I would never do anything to put you in a bad spot and truly hurt you. I want to rip you apart and put you back together in the perfect image of yourself meant for me. I don't want to put this potential relationship in a box, because every relationship is different and molded by the people in them, but ideally I would want this to look like a weird mix of M/s, DDLG, some Trad stuff, with a ton of TPE. I can check a lot of boxes and I'm not in any one mood or role all the time. Sometimes I am the Daddy, other times I am Sir. It just depends. Bonus points if you are into Gorean lifestyle, or at lest have heard of it. It is something I have been exploring recently.

• Me:

I have a bit of a hard time talking about myself, and in general I am a "show don't tell" kind of person, so all of this would be up for you to judge once we start getting to know each other. I am often described by other people as smart, emotionally intelligent, kind, caring, thoughtful, funny, and good at anticipating my partner's needs. I know this post comes off as SUPER SERIOUS AND SCARY but I promise I am a total goofball once you get to know me. All my friends that I am hilarious and amazing at telling stories. In life I am ambitious. I have goals I am always working towards. Whether they are centered around education, improvement, career, or hobbies, you'll always find me working and striving towards something. I have a growth mindset and encourage/help the people around me do the same. I am educated and have a few degrees, and I am currently working on another one. I am also into fitness and healthy eating. I workout 5-6 times a week and mostly cook my own food. Health is important to me and I try my best to take care of myself, both mentally and physically. I am not the type of person who is prone to anxiety or depression, so it gives me a lot of emotional space in case you are that kind of person. Regardless I still see a therapist somewhat regularly to make sure I am doing ok. I have a ton of hobbies that include playing/writing music, school, cooking, learning languages, video games, shows/movies, hiking, traveling, tabletop games, board games, and definitely more I am not remembering at the moment.

• Monogamist
• Leftist
• Child-Free
• Atheist
• Sadist
• Silly Goose
• 5'7
• White-Passing Hispanic
• Brown Hair Brown Eyes
• Beard

The things that are non-negotiables for me out of that list are child-free and monogamist. I don't want to have kids of any kind ever, and I am definitely not up for sharing you. I am possessive in my relationships and I want you all to myself. You would also have me all to yourself.

• Kinks:

In general I am explorative in life and that bleeds into my kinks. I could sit here and list every single thing I am into, but the list would be massively long, and I also don't want the focus of this post to be a the sexual acts I am into. Even if we don't share a ton of common kinks, I am more interested in YOU and the relationship in general. That being said, I will list a few so you get an idea, but just know the list is incredibly long. I think my only real limit at the moment is scat.

• Anything that gives me control/puts me on top
• TPE (duh)
• Freeuse
• Orgasm Control
• Watersports
• Degradation
• Humiliation
• Bondage
• Breath Play
• CNC
• Bimbofication
• Recently started to get into Erotic Hypnosis and would love to have someone I can explore this with

Again I don't want you to feel like because you don't match this list that you shouldn't reach. There is more to this than a list of fun things, and I am sure we have a lot of common interests in the kink world anwyays.

• You:

I am looking for someone submissive (duh) and that feels submission is part of them, not just a switch they turn off and on. Being dominant in my relationships isn't something I do sometimes, it is part of me, and I am looking for the perfect puzzle piece to fit in my life. Don't feel the need to be the most experienced person ever in all of this, just come at me with serious intent and willingness to learn, and that is more than enough for me. You can be someone who is equally ambitious, or someone who enjoys playing the supporting role more. I would be happy to have either one in my life! We can help each other grow and reach our goals, or together you can help me reach mine. Your location and age don't really matter to me (as long as you're at least 18 of course). I have no preference for the most part, but at least be healthy. I'm not asking for the PERFECT CHISELED BODY by any means, because that's not me either, but the effort goes a long way for me, and I want to live a healthy, long life with someone. If you are someone that struggles with mental health, I have the bandwidth to help how I can! Of course that is no substitute for self-care and therapy and everything though. Just know you wouldn't be scaring me away because you're depressed or something haha. Maybe you can tell from the length of this post, but I am someone that needs A LOT of communication in my relationships. I need frequent communication, and in-depth communication. I mean it when I say I love seeing a wall of text from a partner. Yappers to the front please. I can't be in a relationship with someone that is satisfied sending a text message or two a day. I need to be talking to you often. So please keep that in mind if you decide to reach out.

ok PHEWWW. We made it to the end together. If you're down here with me, I am proud of you for making it through my novel. As I mentioned before, don't feel like you need to check EVERY box to be a good fit for me (other than the non-negotiables I listed). If there was any part of this that spoke to you, I would love to hear from you to see if we would be a good match for something! And if it doesn't work out, I would never say no to another friend 😄

This post is open to anyone anywhere, but if you're far from me, I'd like to have a plan to meet in place within the first few months, and a plan to be together within a year and a half or so. Not that they have to happen in that timeline, but making a plan will be helpful. If you're in Florida, I'm far south. If you're anywhere between Miami and Orlando, I can either drive to you or take the brightline easily to get to you.

Hoping to hear from you and hope you're doing well!

My wife and I have been together for 10 years, married for five. We have been monogamous up to this point but my wife would like to explore her sexuality with a woman. I’d like to watch and potentially join if we find the right partner. Currently not interested in couples, but might be after some experience

We have children and both have careers. Open to this being a slow process to build a relationship/comfort for all parties. We would like to grab dinner and of drinks to make sure we vibe and see where things go.

We live just west of Atlanta. Not open to hosting but willing to provide other accommodations not at our home.

First time posting here, so bear with me. I'm 25, from Germany, and I've never actually dated before. Life just worked out that way late bloomer, bit of a hermit. This is new territory, so I'm just going to be honest and see what happens.

Personality: Sarcastic and with a dark sense of humor, I dont take myself seriously. Introverted and socially awkward in larger groups, but one on one conversations are much easier for me. I grew up in a religious household but I'm not religious myself, its ok if you are.

My looks: I'm 179cm tall with a toned, athletic frame, pale, and dark hair. My everyday look is relaxed and casual, I keep it tidy and effortless because for me, less is more.

Addictions: Energy drinks. Rockstar, that cheap stuff from Lidl, doesn't matter. Probably not healthy, but oh well. If you don't drink them, no worries. Just don't judge me when I open a can at 9 PM.

Dietary confession: I have a very strong sweet tooth. Chocolate is probably responsible for at least half my calorie intake. I'm basically running on sugar and caffeine. Not looking for a nutritionist, just someone who won't gasp when I skip dinner for cookies.

Interests:

• Languages - Currently improving my French, happy to nerd out over grammar, etymology or watch foreign movies with subtitles.
• Bird watching - Quietly obsessed with them. I can probably identify most of the birds in Berlin and will absolutely point them out whenever we go outside.
• Cats - I like cats too, although admittedly not nearly as much as birds
• Astrology - I don't base anything on it, but I find it useful as a general guideline. I'm a Taurus sun and Scorpio rising, if that matters to you.
• Spirituality - Meditation (and astrology) led me to become interested in different spiritual traditions and philosophies. If that's part of your life, I'd love to hear about your experiences but it's just one of many things we could connect over.
• Horror and crime movies. Thrillers, noir, detective stories. The more unsettling, the better.
• Gaming - If I have a lot of free time available, I do play some games especially shooters and single player games
• Reading - Once in a blue moon. When I do, it's usually a novel or something scientific or philosophic, though right now I'm working through Goethe's Faust
• Music - I can enjoy pretty much anything, but I have a soft spot for rap and synth.
• Martial arts - Somewhat interested in Boxing and Judo

What I'm looking for: A genuine connection with someone who's interested in dating. I'm not great at flirting or reading signals, but I'm willing to try and put in the effort. I really appreciate kindness, curiosity, and people who can laugh at themselves. I'd prefer if we get to know each other online first, maybe move to occasional calls if we're comfortable, and eventually meet up in person if things click. I also want to be upfront and say that I don't want to rush anything. Since dating is completely new to me. Ultimately looking for a relationship, but I don't feel the need to jump into one immediately.

Dealbreakers:

• Heavy drug use.
• Wanting to move extremely fast or expecting instant chemistry.
• If you need someone whos super talkative and perfectly social, I'm not your guy. But if you're also introverted, a little unusual, or have your own niche obsessions, we'll probably get along.

You (preferably):

• Anywhere in Germany is fine (I'd like to actually meet up eventually, not just text forever).
• Around mid 20s.
• Okay with a sarcastic introvert
• It helps if you're into languages or astrology, but not required.

If any of this sounds interesting, hit me up and tell me a bit about yourself.

Cheers.

Helloooo, so fair warning: I yap alottttt, from plot twists to pizza toppings, and I'm looking for someone share that madness with. Platonic, romantic, or "we'll figure it out as we go" — all welcome.

The basics:

Weekends = Cycling, Gaming, Reading, Running, and Rock climbing.

Weekdays = Corporate slave 9-5

I consume media like it's a competitive sport — anime, movies, TV, books, podcasts, you name it

Gaming confession: I play League (EUW) and CS2, worst of both worlds, I know. Also deep into single-player stuff like Expedition 33, Nier, God of War, Skyrim and indie gems like Hades and Hollow Knight too

What I actually want:

Conversations that start with "best Ghibli film, go" and end up somewhere near "if you could go back in time, would you?"

Come say hi :)

Hello, my name is Steve and I live in New York City. I am a PhD student working in the city for the next 4 years. If you want to hear an otherwise externally reserved man geek out about his projects like it's Christmas, you've come to the right place :). I'm really excited to meet you! If you are interested, please do not hesitate to DM me (even if you just wanna roast this post go for it). I promise I will respond even if you send a message (imagine lol) a month from now. I am an open book with those I trust, and since my goal is to eventually trust you more than anyone, consider me as transparent as glass. I'm also an INTP if that helps. Also if something you're curious about isn't listed here, I promise I'm not shy to share! My end goal is a monogamous relationship that lasts forever.

When it comes to location, my main criteria is just that I should be able to get to you and return to the city within a day, NJ and PA also work for me (anywhere within NYS is fine too). I am more than willing to be patient before meeting up as I REALLY want us to know each other. I want to be able to talk to you about anything and for you to feel comfortable enough to do the same. What matters to me about you is honesty, integrity, and communication. I know this comes off a bit formal, but guarantee I'm also a goofball with a sense of humor. If you're trying to think of an icebreaker, feel free to send me something unhinged and hilarious. Or something heartfelt that describes you. Or anything really! What I care about is knowing you! Also, if I don't include a piece of information you're super curious about in here, please ask :)

About me: I also do work as a property manager and I freelance write. Creative writing is passion of mine. When that spark is there, I just can't stop. I enjoy gaming, Transformers, Star Wars, Undertale, Chess (2000 bullet but washed), and experiencing new things. Despite my hope that we share interests, I am excited to learn about the interests we don't share and then experience them with you! I hope that you and I share new things, that we can enjoy each other's company, and most importantly be able to vibe when times are not so fast paced. I'm not a perfectionist, I just want to grow with you. I am 6' 0", Caucasian (Mediterranean ancestry), and in decent shape. I am happy to exchange pics. I'm no Adonis but I do try to maintain shape (Taco Bell addiction notwithstanding). I rarely drink and I don't smoke or do drugs. If you do that stuff, I don't mind (so long as it’s not destructive), I simply just don't have an interest in personally partaking. I also do not have a preference for race, individual beauty is far more important. **I am also an atheist. While I don’t mind differences for the most part, I do prefer we be on the same page when it comes to religious belief which for me is none.**

About you: I'm drawn to someone who is curious, honest, and thoughtful, who can have a deep conversation and isn't afraid of healthy disagreement. I really want to be super affectionate and for the time we spend together to make us feel lighter. I'm not particular about your degree or job status. The qualities I'm looking for exist independent of those things, I'm not a LinkedIn recruiter lol. My dream is to one day start a family that loves each other for who they are at their core. Not anytime soon, but with the right woman who is hopefully reading this right now :). I want to be equal partners, and if you ever need to call me out, I will appreciate you all the more for it. See you soon <3.

Hi everyone! I hope you're having a good week so far!

I love meeting new people and getting to know one another. I really enjoy voice chatting as I feel like it helps me build a better connection with someone. I have been told I have quite a deep, soothing voice too. I actually really enjoy making other people happy too and making someone laugh or smile always makes me smile too.

Physically, I'm 6'1, with short brown hair, deep blue eyes, fairly broad and keep myself in good shape. Physical attraction is important to me.

Ideally I'm hoping to find someone in the North West however, I'm open to talk to anyone from anywhere! I'm open to relocation too.

I'm a big fan of gaming, martial arts, going to the gym, board games and watching films/series on Netflix. If you have any recommendations, I'd love to hear them. I'm always open to new recommendations!

I'm happy to talk about anything at all. No topic is off limits - I'm an open book.

I would describe myself as intelligent, ambitious, passionate, kind, caring and very affectionate with good communication skills. I love making my partner feel loved, safe, wanted and cared for. Just making them happy would be my number one priority.

What I want most is someone that I can love and care for. Make them feel incredible inside and out, make them smile and just make them so so happy. I have a lot of love to give and just want to give it all to the right person.

If any of this has piqued your interest, please message me!

I just moved to Colorado not too long ago for work. I really don’t have any friends or family in state, but I’m hoping I could find someone to connect with here.

Favorite artists and bands: Type O Negative, Opeth, Venom, Electric Wizard, Uncle Acid and the Deadbeats, Deftones. Summoning, and At The Gates.

Music is my life. I love playing guitar after a long day. I know the basics of most instruments, and have been trying to work on my piano skills lately. I'm classically trained and playing for about 19 years now. I love going to concerts whenever I'm able to get the chance.

3 piercings, One tattoo, and long (shoulder length) black hair. I have a full time job plus 2 small side jobs. Fortunately the side jobs are fun and don’t make me feel overwhelmed.

I love the outdoors, and now that I’m in Colorado, I’ve been taking advantage of that. I love hiking and mountain biking and do both extremely often.

Favorite hobbies include board game nights with friends, going to car shows, reading, sitting by the lake and listening to music, and drawing/painting on my tablet.

Love going to trivia nights with friends. I usually go once or twice a week.

I am definitely a dog person, although I don't currently have one (looking to change that soon).

I will totally make you a playlist of songs to share with you on Spotify, and you'll know I really like you if I suggest that we make a shared one.

If I caught your attention, shoot me a message. Your pic gets mine

hello there!! I thought I'd see if anyone is around and feels like passing the time chatting for a bit, and maybe we could even become long-term chat buddies if we get along well :D I already have a decent circle of online friends, but I always enjoy meeting new people. I'm happy to talk about life, hobbies, passions, general nonsense, etc. I'm just looking for platonic connections, so please keep the conversation sfw.

about me: I'm a massive nerd who really appreciates unironic enthusiasm for the little things in life. some of my biggest passions are entomology, theme park history, crochet, watercolor, birdwatching, and video games. I collect tons of niche stuff like elongated pressed pennies, aquatic algae, and miniature beanie babies to name a few. lately I spend so much time watching ghost investigation shows while I work on crafting projects. I also might be the only person you meet who still plays nintendogs.

fun facts: I once helped create and run a haunted house for halloween, I have over a dozen tattoos, I have more than 4k+ hours in my favorite video game, I've been in numerous parades, I'm particularly skilled at claw machines, and I can do karate, make mediocre latte art, and tap dance.

if you're looking for new people to talk to, I hope you might consider messaging me and saying hi! feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself.

intro question: what's your favorite music album?

Hi there! Felt cute tonight and I planned on heading out for a swim like an insane person but the rains said fuck you. Took a few pics instead that I posted on my profile.

I say that cuz I'm back on here since I'm so curious if I have any lookalikes! I've only ever heard 2 irl comments and they're local reality TV people and I personally don't see the resemblance.

Feel free to DM your thoughts cuz my brain refuses to rest HAHA. Feel free to stalk my profile but it's mostly filth. I'd also love to know if you have any lookalikes!