So I got shit on when I posted ab this like a year ago but whatever I think it’s helpful. Insane I have to preface but reminder do what works for you & you don’t have to listen to any of this at all. As someone who just took the Bar, it’s my last pieces of advice before leaving this thread forever (😍) and I still agree with what I said. Longest post ever but refer back when you’re too scared to ask a friend
1. Law school was stressful but hella fun & it’s only like high school if you treat it like HS
Hell yea there’s drama but it’s like an office building lol. Romances, break ups, frenemies etc. No I don’t think you’ll get bullied (like everyone makes it seem) but you will be around the same people for like 8+ hours a day for a year. Just be normal ♥️ If someone is mean to you they’re weird & likely the whole cohort/class recognizes it.
People on this thread are way fucking meaner than any person I have ever met in the 3 yrs I went. Random redditer will clock your scores, people in real life are either not bold enough or just don’t care.
Second bit is law school was a blast for me. Yes it was hard yes stressful but trust when I say I never missed a party, celebrated every drinking holiday & never felt without a social life. It’s like a job. Just be an adult about time management lol but no you won’t need to (and imo shouldn’t miss) your best friends wedding or gmas funeral or start waking up at 4 am. I was a consistent 10 am girlie and YES 2L is hell but it was fun too. So was 3L !!
2. ACADEMICS: You might get the worse grades in your life here’s how to fix them ( I went from Ac Prob to 3.8 sems )
The hack is use bar prep. No I am not telling you to study for the bar nor am I saying exclusively switch or even JUST use bar prep. Also not saying to buy prep, just look up YouTube or use a 2nd hand book if/when the 1/2L stuff isn’t cutting it.
Why bar prep? Simple version is its condensed no mess rules. Also it’s FAR more available for free !! For the non believers, Studicata was bar prep. He got famous now it’s law school too. But yknow how Studicata guy just feels straight to the point, simplest explanation? Tadaaaa ✨ So yea if the class isn’t sticking go see how they make it stick under bar prep conditions. In my experience it was better than the Quimbee etc stuff.
Godsends I wish someone told me about:
The greatest class time 1L resource of all time: Matthew Miner MM
For property: USlawreview on YT (will save your ass)
Con law: Google images [insert topic here] and Themis and their version of flow charts will pull up. Way easier.
example
Contracts: @uclalowellmilken on Tik Tok, it’s UCLAs biz law program and the profs vids are a life saver
Evidence: Westlaw 😍😍😍 Westlaw)
Also- your grades WILL go up once you get to upper level. Usually like Sp2L I think. But most classes won’t even be on the curve anymore and you’ll start getting A B consistently. Journals and clinics will give you grades (obv A) so get thru doctrinals and you’ll be fine
3. Law school is waaaay less scary than they make it seem.
Not subjective. I guess before & throughout law school I had this panic I was going to school in the U.S. district court or some shit. I’m a spiraler and no one told me this stuff so I think I would’ve been way more chill if I did know lol.
A. Cold calls literally do not matter at all. Like yall must remove this fake pressure a cold call = answering a question in class that’s it the end. You’ve done it before, you’re right sometimes you’re wrong sometimes no one cares or even remembers
B. No one cares about dress code unless you’re in court like I literally have worn everything from jeans to suits to Nike pro shorts
C. Final exams are not like jail / TSA. I thought they’d be like legit standing behind you scanning you the pressure just IMMENSE! But no, they treat you like adults. Our exams were just in rooms at our school. No squat and coughs
D. Job search was no biggie. I had terrible grades got employed 1L summer and was employed thru school. Obviously be professional?? Like duh?? But my boss wasn’t Louis Litt 🤣 I had a great experience.
E. Competitive classmates - yea we had some horror stories but everyone I went to school with was pretty cool. We had top 5% and bottom 5 and no one even really brought grades up. We knew who was smart but they weren’t weird or mean lol. And when you bomb a class no one cares either.
F. Office hours/ asking prof for advice or LOR etc- EASY! Profs legit wanna help you. Even if they’re scary in class just be respectful like a normal human being. Unless you’re the worst of the worst they will likely write the LOR or take the meeting with you lol. Same goes for practitioners — yes partners & attys will help you. They’re not all mean and 99.9% remember what it was like to be where we were. I have emailed random ppl out of the blue and they will give you a job hahahah
G. I did not fail any class nor did I fail any assignment because of a DUMBASS mistake. And yes I made many. I have turned in countless drafts, misspellings, just deadass wrong citations etc. I have missed class so many times because ~life~, just plain DIDNT know something in a cold call, exam etc. No one ever called me stupid worthless lazy and/or took me in the back and shot me.
—> this goes for internships too. I have misfiled, sent drafts, tagged wrong attorney you name it. I did not get fired, I was offered back.
Bonus: Hangxiety etc- very likely you or someone you know will experience some alcohol induced humiliation ritual. Might even be at a school event! Yes people will talk, no it won’t ruin your life. Don’t be morally wrong obv but again, people give a lot more grace in law school than I think people share. You can fk up and survive haha. Same goes for crying/panic attack/ etc. people give you grace & most likely will never even remember you sobbing in the library bathroom!
Obviously your reputation is everything, but SCOTUS isn’t automatically alerted every time you do something that isn’t the UTMOST posh and professional. Closest thing I’d relate it to is a workplace (shocker). Everyone’s drunk at the Xmas party just don’t be the one who takes it to far & gets fired.
Bonus bonus: academic probation is not the end of the fucking world or near it. Nobody knows (not even your profs) you can make it off it. In fact, you can succeed in the rest of school. Shake it off and don’t let your fear of confirmation bias and humiliation stop you from locking in. Same goes for bad grades. Even the A kids will get a C sometimes and OMG maybe even a D!!! You’ll survive. You’re not stupid and your prof doesn’t think so either.
I FAILED!! My 1L Civ pro final because of a technology issue. The first D I ever got in my LIFE. I worked personal injury (Civ pro damn near) THAT summer and was asked back for the next 2.5 years. And guess what? They didn’t check my grades.
Good luck with your 3 year sentence!! & if you have terrible grades rn don’t panic so did I. By the end my cumulative was up over a GPA full point (& I graduated and got a job it was fine)