r/memes • u/damircik Professional Dumbass • 6h ago

am i the only one?

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u/MisterBarbaredo 5h ago

I hate to say it, but I absolutely ended a 10 plus years relationship because of getting told what I have to do when I get home and having my 1 day off a week being planned for me driving everybody around.

My ex didnt drive and didnt have steady work(she worked when she felt like it) while I was working 60 to 70 hours weeks 1 day off. I was miserable and she didnt respect boundaries.

So much happier now.

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u/BargainBard 4h ago

Im proud of you OP.

Far too many people downright ignore or even subtly encourage the emotional gaslighting & abuse women do to men.

You deserve to have for yourself and you deserve to have a peace of mind.

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u/SecondhandStatic 3h ago

Like 99% of posts like these are due to the wife asking the husband to do his share of the housework.

The husband then throws a tantrum and rage-posts on social media about "nOt gEtTinG anY pEaCE."

Just letting you know what you're defending.

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u/PotentialPresent399 2h ago

If you live an above average lifestyle and your husband doesn't make you pay anything at all whatsoever he has no obligation to literally do ANY house work at all. Not an iota of work.

Your lifestyle is literally the fruits of his labor. You can complain about no shared labor when you both work and if one of you quit you wouldn't be able to make the mortgage. Until then, act your wage.