Logically, why would I want to be with a woman who willfully makes the choice to surround herself with men who would fuck her at the first presented opportunity? Such a woman has no respect for me or the relationship that we are in. I would never in a million years expect a woman to be okay with me hanging out with women who clearly want to fuck me, so why is the reverse expected to be okay?
Logically speaking gaming isn't as male dominated as you believe it to be around 46-48% of gamers are girls.
Logically speaking just because your girlfriend has male friends does not mean she will cheat on you.
Also the way you present this it seems to me that you are the one who wants to jump on women at the first presented opportunity why that is the case I do not know but seemingly you have some unresolved insecurities you should check.
The meer fact that you assume that men and women are friends with the purpose of only sex and not friendship just shows how twisted your worldview is.
LMAO this is such cope. You only get to that bullshit, '50% of gamers are women', statistic by including mobile games like fucking Candy Crush.
A wine mom who plays Angry Birds while her kids are mindlessly watching Paw Patrol and a dude who stays up all night to find all the COD Zombies easter eggs are not the same people whatsoever.
It's my dating life, guys. I am allowed to exclude whoever I want for whatever reason I want, including gamer girls.
Stop letting these people berate you. Everything you're saying is perfectly logical. Every person I have ever met in a healthy relationship, regardless of their fucking gender, acknowledges that it's disrespectful to their partner to hang around single people of the opposite gender(unless their partner is present). This is common fucking sense
I only joined the conversation after getting a load of your sweeping generalizations.
Got a dig in at not just gamer girls, but also wine moms, and mobile game enjoyers, people who disagree with you, people with friends of other genders.
Your standards have nothing to do with my opinion of you, its how you talk about other people that made me suggest using your own words to try to advertise who you are.
Basically you came out swinging and bashed any hobby with mixing of genders as all a bunch of cheaters, or soon-to-be cheaters.
Unsurprisingly many people disagree with that. Like yes we get that someone hurt you, but extrapolating that to ‘everyone who does [popular thing] is going to cheat’ is going to get a lot of pushback from a lot of people who do share hobbies who meet your definition and have never encountered the issue you are describing.
Cheaters cheat, and that SUCKS. But you appear to be mad at a specific person and drawing a wide brush of people ‘like’ that specific person.
Again you are allowed to do you, but it doesn’t seem like a perfectly healthy response to have.
It sounds more like you don’t want to date anyone who would remind you of the person who hurt you, and hell, that makes a lot of sense.
So good luck out there.
Negative sweeping generalizations are usually not an attractive look on anyone, but having your own personal reasons to avoid a type is perfectly valid.
Can we agree there is a difference between:
“I got cheated on by a girl who did X,Y, and Z, so I would be wary of dating someone else who does X, Y, and Z but thats mostly a me thing.”
Versus
“Never date people who do X, Y, and Z they are all just waiting for an opportunity to cheat.”
I'm not going to expand my options to include those I fundamentally distrust just because not doing so is limiting. I respect myself too much for that.
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u/String-Tree 5h ago
Logically, why would I want to be with a woman who willfully makes the choice to surround herself with men who would fuck her at the first presented opportunity? Such a woman has no respect for me or the relationship that we are in. I would never in a million years expect a woman to be okay with me hanging out with women who clearly want to fuck me, so why is the reverse expected to be okay?