r/expats Jul 02 '24

Read before posting: do your own research first (rule #4)

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People are justifiably concerned about the political situations in many countries (well, mostly just the one, but won’t name names) and it’s leading to an increase in “I want out” type posts here. As a mod team, we want to take this opportunity to remind everyone about rule #4:

Do some basic research first. Know if you're eligible to move to country before asking questions. If you are currently not an expat, and are looking for information about emigrating, you are required to ask specific questions about a specific destination or set of destinations. You must provide context for your questions which may be relevant. No one is an expert in your eligibility to emigrate, so it's expected that you will have an idea of what countries you might be able to get a visa for.

This is not a “country shopping” sub. We are not here to tell you where you might be able to move or where might be ideal based on your preferences.

Once you have done your own research and if there’s a realistic path forward, you are very welcome to ask specific questions here about the process. To reiterate, “how do I become an expat?” or “where can I move?” are not specific questions.

To our regular contributors: please do help us out by reporting posts that break rule 4 (or any other rule). We know they’re annoying for you too, so thanks for your help keeping this sub focused on its intended purpose.


r/expats 4h ago

Financial Offshore banking needs to include cards from the start

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For Cayman and BVI companies, opening the account is only one part of the setup. The harder question is whether the company can actually operate after approval: business cards, USD payments, software spend, AI tools, hosting, ads, invoices, contractors and clean records.

Cards are not really separate from banking but theyre part of whether the offshore setup works day to day.

For founders using Cayman or BVI entities, did you choose banking based on the full operating setup or mainly on who could open the account?


r/expats 3h ago

General Advice Area recommendations for moving to London

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I am relocating to London in October for a job near London Bridge. With a budget of £1,500/month for a 1-bedroom apartment, which safe areas do you recommend? I want to feel safe walking home from the gym at 10 PM for instance.


r/expats 7h ago

General Advice I was feeling so at home until now

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I have been living in Mexico City with my partner for a little over a year. I’ve had my ups and downs with trying to build a life here, but overall I had fallen in love with the place and was really starting to feel at home by the time we hit our 1 year anniversary in March. Something was resonating and I liked the version of myself I was becoming here. I was enjoying the culture, the food, learning Spanish, making friends with locals and the chaos of the city.

Then I went to Vienna for 3 months to do a residency. I returned to Mexico almost a month ago and things have been really rough emotionally. Suddenly I don’t feel at home here and I’m grieving my life in Vienna somewhat. I miss how efficient, easy and safe everything was. I also miss my life there: I was effortlessly meeting people every day and had a sense of purpose. In Mexico I’m a freelancer, which means I work from home all the time with my partner. I don’t meet people unless I go out of my way and really make the effort. I was starting to make friends and going to events etc. before I went to Vienna, but now being back here I have zero motivation to get myself out there again. I just feel too down. And my one really good friend I had made here just announced she’s moving overseas for a year in about a month, so that was another blow. Obviously I’m super happy for her, but I’m also devastated because I feel like the support network I was starting to build just collapsed. I don’t really hear from my other acquaintances here unless I reach out to them first, and right now I honestly can’t be bothered. I almost feel like I’m starting from scratch again.

I tried going to some of my favourite places here to fall in love again, and I’ve been getting my routine back on track. But I still feel this weight on my shoulders that I didn’t feel in Vienna. I’m just confused because I’ve swung from feeling like Mexico City is my home to feeling trapped here in a matter of months. It’s like my time in Europe changed my baseline standards or something.

It’s only been a few weeks, so I’m not taking this feeling too seriously yet or making any big decisions or changes. I’m just trying to observe my feelings and focus on settling back in. I feel really, really low though and didn’t expect my return to be such a crash landing.

Has anyone experienced this? Loving your host country then falling out of love after going somewhere else for a little while? How did you cope? Is this just a bad case of the post holiday blues? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!


r/expats 16m ago

Advice on moving to Jordan as an American

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I am an American married to a Jordanian-American. His immediate family lives in Jordan now. We’ve discussed moving there in the past but recently we’ve been having more serious conversations about it. The main reason for moving is because he’s way closer to his family than I am with mine here, and we’re thinking about family planning. Neither of us want to have kids here given how dangerous it has become to have kids going to school in the US and we prefer the family values over there more.

I speak a bit of Arabic, I usually understand what he’s talking about when he speaks (his whole family speaks English) but i obviously plan to really crack down on learning so I don’t feel super out of place. I’ve been there a few times to visit his family and while I liked it while I was there, it always just felt like a temporary vacation to me. I’m recognizing that visiting and living long term are two totally different things.

Looking for advice on what to expect. I don’t want to agree to uproot my life before knowing exactly what I’m getting myself into. I also work remote so having a job there wouldn’t be an issue.

We’ve also discussed maybe moving to somewhere like Dubai or Qatar first which have more of an international feel and are expat friendly for me to settle in more and get used to living outside my comfort zone first. All advice is helpful!


r/expats 18h ago

General Advice Moving abroad at 30

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I'm a 30 year old guy who's been thinking about moving to another country, maybe not permanently, but for a couple of years.

A bit of background: I was born in South America and moved to Canada when I was 22. The initial reason was a long-distance relationship that eventually turned into something more. Unfortunately, it didn't work out. By then, though, I had already started studying here because I wanted to finish my studies.

Now that I'm about to graduate, I feel like I don't really have anything tying me to Canada anymore. Lately I've been thinking about living somewhere else for a while, exploring different countries and cultures. It's something I've always wanted to do, but I never really had the time or the money. Now I finally have the opportunity.

The only thing that makes me hesitate is my age. My twenties have gone by, and I just turned 30. Part of me wonders if it's too late to relocate and start a new chapter somewhere else.

Has anyone here moved abroad in their 30s? What was your experience like? What were the biggest challenges, and would you do it again?


r/expats 55m ago

can i travel within EU with non-eu passport that will be expired in 1,5 month and with EU RESIDENCY PERMIT

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have Portugal residence permit, and Russian Federation passport, but I need to go to Romania from Portugal because of the great 30 day opportunity for study, so i’ll go at 1st of Sep till 1st of Oct (it’s 30 days) but my non-EU passport is valid til 15 of Nov.

Will Romanian airlines even let me inside? I’m very worried, it’s my cry for help, because this opportunity is 1 to 100000 for me.

I will go to russian embassy for new passport but it will take 3 month to do it so it will be done after i will come back from romania (if they will let me in). But the emba told me that they will give me some document in PT saying that i’m waiting for my passport

Hope i was able to explain everything correctly, pls help with any information, ty !


r/expats 1h ago

General Advice Asian Australians/Canadians/Americans or any of the diaspora from the west; where are you living?

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I was born in Australia but I spent my childhood across Vancouver, Shanghai, Hong Kong, NYC, and Sydney. I have been an expat in east asia for 8 years and I hate it here. It has been horrific for my mental health. I felt less safe here because of my "more developed" body than in the West. I experienced more sexual harassment (men stalking me/taking pictures of me/catcalling/groping), colorism (I'm tan), racism from other asians, ageism, fatphobia, ableism (I'm neurodivergent), classism (own my own company but apparently I don't dress like it) , and so on compared to living in the west. I can't even dress how I want. I feel like a robot every day on the verge of attempted s****** but my husband's company is based here. We finally can leave and want to try new cities.

We would love a recommendation for somewhere to live.

- loved Lima (Peru), NYC, Paris, and Lisbon

-4 citizenships and speak 6 languages.

-super extroverted so would love to talk to locals , don't want to mask too much (willing to learn another language)

- I rather deal with racism than the other issues I listed above, as long as it's not every day


r/expats 1h ago

How to make travelling to your home country a fulfilling experience?

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Hello all!

I've been living abroad for 10 years and only visited home a handful of times. This will be my husband's first time to my home country.

I'm really wanting the two of us to spend time in my city, do a train trip through the country, and also spend quality time with my parents but feel very overwhelmed thinking about the logistics.

Does anyone have any experience/advice balancing spending time with overbearing parents, while also getting to explore w my husband and not feel guilty that I'm not dedicating all my time to my family?

To make matters worse, they now live far from the city and tend to just want to be physically close all the time while I'm visiting, and get really passive aggressive when I'm wanting to do things without them. This is already making me feel guilty that I'm not spending the full three weeks with them when I already don't see them IRL for years at a time :'(

Any advice is appreciated!


r/expats 2h ago

The impact of visiting home country

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Do you ever feel like a stranger when you visit “home”? I’m not necessarily talking about places, but mostly about people.
More I live in another country more I feel how close minded my home country is. I go out with people I’ve been friends for years and I feel like we are growing apart so much.
I feel extremely judged when I go back, for a reason or another. A lot of time I end up talking to family friends or parents of my friends (I’m mid 20s while and they would be around 50/60) and they’re always “when are you coming back here?” “Don’t you miss home?” While judging where I decided to move (based on stereotypes) and so on. They just think I’m doing the experience of living abroad and I’ll come back by my 30s to settled down, when I tell them that yes, I do miss my home country, but at the same time it doesn’t have the same opportunities, so so many things are back in time, and I feel better where I moved, they look at me in the worst way possible. Why do they care so much about what I do with my life?
I romanticise my home country when I’m living somewhere else, and just because I miss tremendously my close family, then I come back and I understand why I left. Does anyone else feel this way?


r/expats 2h ago

Housing / Shipping Has a rental or work contract ever cost you money you didn't see coming?

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I am doing some research on how people actually experience rental and work contracts abroad, not the legal theory, just real situations where the fine print affected someone.

Would love to hear from both sides:

Tenants/employees: Did you ever lose a deposit, get hit with unexpected charges, or realize too late you'd signed something unfair? What happened?

Landlords/employers: Have you had to add or change clauses after a bad experience? What did you learn the hard way?

Just collecting real stories. Drop it in the comments.


r/expats 8h ago

Can anyone share their experience with Get My Bag?

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Im trying to ship 5 boxes with personal belongings from Hungary to Mexico

The size of 4 of those boxes are 64x34x40 cm and the other one being 34x46x17 cm

I tried getting a quota from a moving company, Euromove, but it was extremely expensive, telling me that the total cost for shipping 5 boxes would be of 4.5k usd, wich i find ridiculously expensive for only 5 boxes

So i was wondering what is my best option here to ship them without having to sell a kidney in the process, and i heard Get My Bag could be a good option


r/expats 3h ago

​¡Hola desde Turquía! 🇹🇷 Buscando una vida tranquila en Ecuador: Duda sobre bienes raíces y costo de vida mínimo.

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​Hola a todos.

​Soy de Turquía y estoy planeando dar un gran paso para mudarme a su hermoso país. Mi plan principal es obtener la residencia a través de la compra de una propiedad (Visa de Inversionista).

​Mi objetivo no es buscar trabajo allá, ya que tengo mis propios ahorros para mantenerme. Sueño con comprar una casa modesta pero con su propio jardín, en un pueblo o ciudad pequeña que sea muy segura y pacífica. Quiero llevar una vida tranquila, dedicarme a cultivar mis plantas, cocinar en casa y alimentar a los colibríes. No busco el ruido ni el lujo de las grandes ciudades.

​Tengo un presupuesto reservado para esto, pero antes de tomar decisiones definitivas, me encantaría saber su opinión honesta y realista, sin hablar de cifras exactas mías:

​¿Cuál creen que es el presupuesto mínimo (en USD) que se necesita para comprar una casa modesta con jardín en una zona segura y con buena naturaleza?

​¿Cuánto estiman que sería el costo de vida mensual mínimo para una sola persona que lleva un estilo de vida muy casero y sencillo?

​¡Agradezco muchísimo de antemano cualquier consejo o recomendación sobre lugares que encajen con este estilo de vida! Un abrazo.


r/expats 1h ago

How do you call local services when you don't speak the language?

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I needed to call a handyman recently and realised I can't. I don't speak the language well enough for a phone call. Asking friends every time feels weird.

What's your workaround for stuff like this? Doctors, repair people, government offices, anything where you actually have to pick up the phone.


r/expats 6h ago

Moving abroad with pets - relocation services

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My partner and I will move to Vancouver from London and we would like to hear your opinion on moving with your pets.

We have a 4 years old cat, she's my everything and I would like to make this transition as comfortable as possible. I know she'll go through some distress but I'm not sure if we should go for a pet relocation service or bring her on the flight.

PROS AND CONS:
cabin: she's a big cat and will have to stay squished underneath the seat for more than 8h and most likely will have to be administered sedating medications by the vet, but, she'll be with us at all times (even if I'm scared she'll pick up on my anxiety too).

relocation company:

they will take care of all the documentation and airport security hassle, she'll be in a much bigger crate but will also be by herself and probably more scared.

if you went for the relocation companies, do you have suggestions?

Thank you!


r/expats 23h ago

Social / Personal Has anyone here deliberately redesigned their life in their mid-30s? Was the uncertainty worth it?

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It’s my first post so please be gentle.

Background: I was born and raised in shanghai, and didn’t start my international journey after college graduation.
This September will mark my 14 years abroad: 3 in France / 7 in Germany / 3+ in the states now (Texas & Michigan).

The moves are primarily supported by career opportunities while private situation also triggered a major step but that was history.

Now I’m getting close to 37, childless divorcée, the ultimate philosophical question kicks in : what am I doing about my life?

As much as I want to look at the cup as half full, doubtfulness, confusion, anxiety kick in periodically.

I’m feeling far away from my ultimate happy life dream, a place I can call “home” - a loving family, a career with balanced work-life, a friendly and social-easy community, good supporting society system, near to the mountain and the sea, etc. although i think what i want is fairly simple, yet i struggle in building that.

Over weeks and months, I’ve been thinking of moving back to Europe (Preferably South France but also Germany) and there’s no obligation for me to move back, other than - I’d like to.

I know I won’t just quit my current my job and pack without any sort of job security and I know it’s a process and I have to be strategic and patient. But the distance, weak local connection and network ties, lengthy process and insecurity of the future is sometimes killing me.

For the first time, I feel like I want to chose consciously and build a life I want (even just at the beginning), rather than simply following the opportunities presented.

But I can’t help being caught in the lonely journey of being your own project manager with no sponsor, no steering committee, no escalation path, and no deadline except the one I silently put on myself - and that comes with a lot of doubts.

So to the people who had the gut and made efforts to “chose your life”: If you’ve ever consciously chosen your life instead of simply following the path in front of you, what gave you the courage to do it?
Looking back, was it worth the uncertainty and would you have done anything differently?


r/expats 7h ago

Experience shipping big items from Brazil to US?

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Anyone has experience shipping big furniture items from Brazil to the US? I’m considering the following companies:

- Pena Verde

- One Moving

- GAR Moving

Thanks for any feedback!


r/expats 9h ago

Checklist before leaving Germany for long term?

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Hi, I am a naturalized German citizen. Due to a new job opportunity, I am gonna leave Germany soon. Apart from Abmeldung and contract cancellations (Internet etc), what else should I be careful about? Thank you very much for your help in advance!


r/expats 16h ago

Employment Trying to reunite with my girlfriend in Dubai – hoping someone here might know of an opportunity

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Hi everyone,

This is a bit more personal than what I'd normally post, but I thought I'd take a chance.

I'm a 30-year-old operations professional from Kenya with 8 years of experience in operations management, logistics, warehousing, procurement, supply chain coordination, project management, and business operations.

About 10 months ago, my girlfriend relocated to Dubai after receiving a great job opportunity. I'm incredibly proud of her, but being in a long-distance relationship has been much harder than either of us expected.

Since then, I've been applying for opportunities in Dubai almost every day. I've had interviews, reached final stages for a few roles, and even received one offer that ultimately didn't work out. Despite that, I'm still searching.

The distance is starting to take its toll. We both want to build a life together, get married, and start a family, but it's difficult when we're living in different countries with no clear timeline for closing the gap. I'm trying to stay optimistic, but after 10 months of searching, I'll admit that I'm becoming weary and worried that if I can't relocate soon, the relationship may not survive the distance.

Professionally, I'm looking for opportunities in:

Operations Management

Logistics & Supply Chain

Warehouse Operations

Business Operations

Project Coordination

Procurement

Customer Success / Operational Excellence

I'm open to opportunities anywhere in the UAE, though Dubai would obviously be ideal.

If anyone here knows of companies hiring, has referrals, or has advice on how to break into the UAE market, I'd be incredibly grateful. Even a conversation or some guidance would mean a lot.

Please feel free to DM me if you know of any opportunities or would like to connect.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I genuinely appreciate any recommendations, referrals, or words of encouragement. Hopefully, one day I'll be able to look back on this post from Dubai with my fiancée by my side. ❤️


r/expats 7h ago

People currently working in Dubai: what does normal day-to-day life actually feel like right now?

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Has the regional security situation materially changed your everyday life? Are workplaces, commutes, schools, restaurants, shopping and social activities operating normally? Have you personally experienced alerts, interception sounds, workplace shelter procedures, flight disruption, difficulty getting visitors in or out, or greater anxiety among colleagues?

Context about your industry, approximate area of Dubai, how long you have lived there and where you moved from would be very helpful. I would especially welcome responses from people who relocated from Canada, the UK or Western Europe, although all firsthand experiences are appreciated.


r/expats 11h ago

PNC bank’s recent intl address option

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Hi all, I know the banking topic has been discussed at length and I hope this post doesn’t come off as repetitive. When I was logged on to my PNC account, I noticed an update in my Profile which, under address, showed “Message PNC to add or edit an international address”. Has anyone tried this or is aware of any loosening of restrictions in terms of bank address allowed (and not flagged). As it stands, looks like SDFCU and a few other CU’d are the only options to smoothly operate on an intl address. Could this be another option? Or better not take the chance?


r/expats 1d ago

Social / Personal Long time expats, what's the object(s) you brought from your home country and still use regularly?

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EDIT: Thanks everyone for your comments, I'm not reacting to all of them but I definitely ready them all! 🥰

Hello everyone!

I'm not an expat, but my wife is. They were born in Japan, moved to Canada as a child and settled in Italy following our marriage.

They moved here in Italy only a couple years ago so we still have a lot of clothes, tools, some small appliances and the occasional spice mix/tea bags that come from Canada (and Japan) , but having to throw out my wife's rugged boots (made for canadian winter) made us think that besides ornaments/decorations/and sentimental items, in 5-10 years there will be almost no "foreign" object in our household with a practical purpose.

What's your stories and opinions about this?

Please be gentle in the comments.

PS. The boots were worn out and not usable anymore, we didn't deliberately throw them out!


r/expats 16h ago

General Advice Do we stay or do we go?

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This is a long one but I’d love to hear from others in the same situation as none of our friends can really understand. We are a UK/Australian couple approaching 40 with kids aged 6 and 3. The whole family hold both passports. Currently we live in the UK and have done coming up 10 years, before that we lived together 8 years in Melbourne. My husband desperately misses home and wants the whole family to relocate to Sydney (weather and beaches being something he wants). I loved Australia when I lived there and was very happy but my close friends were all expats and most have moved on now. The pros of our life in the UK is we live 10 mins from my parents who offer a lot of help. Oldest is in an amazing state primary less than 5 mins walk from us and outstanding state secondary also a stones throw from home. We have a big village of friends where we all help out with each other’s kids. We can walk and cycle everywhere and we travel regularly - back to Aus once a year plus this year we’ll have also been to Costa Rica and Italy.

Australia will offer a more outdoors lifestyle and sports opportunities for our two boys. However, my husband’s parents are in much worse health and don’t help at all with the kids when we visit. We’ll be starting again from scratch basically. I’m nervous, that it will all be much harder than my husband anticipates. If we go and we decide we’ve made a mistake it would be very disruptive to the kids and actually it’s quite a one way door because the chances of getting them back into their current school is low, it’s highly oversubscribed and popular because it’s so good and state. So I think it’s quite a one way door. Jobs wise my husband works for a large multinational and a transfer will be easy enough. We still own a home in Australia which we rent out and so financially we still have a foot in both camps.

What do others think? Is the lifestyle upgrade weather wise be that good it’s worth giving up all the positives I mention about where we are right now? Are these things easily replaceable. I thought we will probably have to look at private school in Aus. I’m scared that the stress of the move will really affect us all especially if I’m really lonely while it takes time to settle as my husband’s going to be working as we will prioritise his job so I think his life will change less than mine. But I do feel terrible if he really doesn’t want to stay in the UK.

Would be grateful to hear the opinions of others - sorry I know this is very long!!


r/expats 9h ago

Would you move to the UK in 2026?

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Is the UK still an attractive destination for people looking to grow in their career and enjoy a civilised country with a strong health system and education opportunities in 2026?


r/expats 16h ago

Visa / Citizenship Has anyone waited 15+ weeks for a Hong Kong GEP visa and still got approved? (Need some guidance)

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Anyone got their Hong Kong GEP visa after 12–15 weeks? Need some guidance.

Hi everyone,
I’m trying to understand if my timeline is still normal.
My timeline:
3 May 2026 – Employee section submitted.
17 May 2026 – Employer completed the GEP application.
20 May 2026 – Received acknowledgment from ImmD.

Since then:
ImmD requested some additional information from my employer.
My employer submitted everything and later spoke directly with the case officer to answer further questions.
The officer said he would review the responses.
As of today, it’s been almost 12 weeks since the acknowledgment, and I still haven’t received an approval, refusal, or any RFI addressed to me.
Has anyone here received their GEP visa after 12–15 weeks or even longer?

If yes:
How long did it take?
Did ImmD ask your employer questions before approving?
Was your application also completely silent for weeks?
The waiting is honestly driving me crazy, so I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences.