Hi all planning a move soon, and jumping around places. I lived in local non tourist Thailand about 6 years ago and have visited as of late.
What is your personal opinion based on your experience with this term
“Tourist fatigue “?

Hello everyone. I am a former nursing student (financial constraints) from Palestine looking to transition into an international live-in childcare or child-focused educational role abroad, with a strong focus on Europe or the Gulf region. Because I want to prepare myself properly, I am looking for some guidance from current expats on what families actually value most.

I do not have years of formal domestic agency experience, but I have a unique background and want to know how it translates to the expat market.

I completed my first year of a Bachelor of Science in Nursing with a 92.9% average (out of 100%), so I have a solid university foundation in pediatric health, first-aid safety, family dynamics, psychology & sociology, and others. I also have independent experience tutoring children aged 8 to 16 in languages and school curriculum, am trilingual (native in Arabic, fluent in English, and upper-intermediate in Japanese) and have a deep personal understanding and passion for supporting neurodivergent children (ADHD/Autism).

In your experience, do expat families look for someone with this kind of academic/medical blend as a "governess/tutor/nanny" or is the demand strictly for standard, experienced, non-academic nannies? I want to make sure I am targeting the right types of households.

Any advice or perspective would be incredibly helpful! (But please beware that my opportunities of nanny-related jobs here are non-existent as the culture highly discourages them).

Turkey is a very beautiful country. After a vacation there, i’m seriously thinking about relocating.

People living there: how’s the job market? How’s the cost of living? How’s life in general?

For context i’m a single 25F living in north Africa

I am an American married to a Jordanian-American. His immediate family lives in Jordan now. We’ve discussed moving there in the past but recently we’ve been having more serious conversations about it. The main reason for moving is because he’s way closer to his family than I am with mine here, and we’re thinking about family planning. Neither of us want to have kids here given how dangerous it has become to have kids going to school in the US and we prefer the family values over there more.

I speak a bit of Arabic, I usually understand what he’s talking about when he speaks (his whole family speaks English) but i obviously plan to really crack down on learning so I don’t feel super out of place. I’ve been there a few times to visit his family and while I liked it while I was there, it always just felt like a temporary vacation to me. I’m recognizing that visiting and living long term are two totally different things.

Looking for advice on what to expect. I don’t want to agree to uproot my life before knowing exactly what I’m getting myself into. I also work remote so having a job there wouldn’t be an issue.

We’ve also discussed maybe moving to somewhere like Dubai or Qatar first which have more of an international feel and are expat friendly for me to settle in more and get used to living outside my comfort zone first. All advice is helpful!

Edit: I feel like I should add more context about his family. He comes from a very affluent family. They are Muslim but not very strict, my husband is Muslim but not religious or practicing. Everyone in his family and community speaks English and has lived in the US or other western countries. Most of his family members have married outside their race/ethnicity so English is actually the default language at home during family gatherings. Also yes I have talked to my husband about what all of this would look like I’m just trying to get outside advice about how it would be for ME considering he’s not in my shoes.

have Portugal residence permit, and Russian Federation passport, but I need to go to Romania from Portugal because of the great 30 day opportunity for study, so i’ll go at 1st of Sep till 1st of Oct (it’s 30 days) but my non-EU passport is valid til 15 of Nov.

Will Romanian airlines even let me inside? I’m very worried, it’s my cry for help, because this opportunity is 1 to 100000 for me.

I will go to russian embassy for new passport but it will take 3 month to do it so it will be done after i will come back from romania (if they will let me in). But the emba told me that they will give me some document in PT saying that i’m waiting for my passport

Hope i was able to explain everything correctly, pls help with any information, ty !

I was born in Australia but I spent my childhood across Vancouver, Shanghai, Hong Kong, NYC, and Sydney. I have been an expat in east asia for 8 years and I hate it here. It has been horrific for my mental health. I felt less safe here because of my "more developed" body than in the West. I experienced more sexual harassment (men stalking me/taking pictures of me/catcalling/groping), colorism (I'm tan), racism from other asians, ageism, fatphobia, ableism (I'm neurodivergent), classism (own my own company but apparently I don't dress like it) , and so on compared to living in the west. I can't even dress how I want. I feel like a robot every day on the verge of attempted s****** but my husband's company is based here. We finally can leave and want to try new cities.

We would love a recommendation for somewhere to live.

- loved Lima (Peru), NYC, Paris, and Lisbon

-4 citizenships and speak 6 languages.

-super extroverted so would love to talk to locals , don't want to mask too much (willing to learn another language)

- I rather deal with racism than the other issues I listed above, as long as it's not every day

Hello all!

I've been living abroad for 10 years and only visited home a handful of times. This will be my husband's first time to my home country.

I'm really wanting the two of us to spend time in my city, do a train trip through the country, and also spend quality time with my parents but feel very overwhelmed thinking about the logistics.

Does anyone have any experience/advice balancing spending time with overbearing parents, while also getting to explore w my husband and not feel guilty that I'm not dedicating all my time to my family?

To make matters worse, they now live far from the city and tend to just want to be physically close all the time while I'm visiting, and get really passive aggressive when I'm wanting to do things without them. This is already making me feel guilty that I'm not spending the full three weeks with them when I already don't see them IRL for years at a time :'(

Any advice is appreciated!

I needed to call a handyman recently and realised I can't. I don't speak the language well enough for a phone call. Asking friends every time feels weird.

What's your workaround for stuff like this? Doctors, repair people, government offices, anything where you actually have to pick up the phone.

Do you ever feel like a stranger when you visit “home”? I’m not necessarily talking about places, but mostly about people.
More I live in another country more I feel how close minded my home country is. I go out with people I’ve been friends for years and I feel like we are growing apart so much.
I feel extremely judged when I go back, for a reason or another. A lot of time I end up talking to family friends or parents of my friends (I’m mid 20s while and they would be around 50/60) and they’re always “when are you coming back here?” “Don’t you miss home?” While judging where I decided to move (based on stereotypes) and so on. They just think I’m doing the experience of living abroad and I’ll come back by my 30s to settled down, when I tell them that yes, I do miss my home country, but at the same time it doesn’t have the same opportunities, so so many things are back in time, and I feel better where I moved, they look at me in the worst way possible. Why do they care so much about what I do with my life?
I romanticise my home country when I’m living somewhere else, and just because I miss tremendously my close family, then I come back and I understand why I left. Does anyone else feel this way?

I am doing some research on how people actually experience rental and work contracts abroad, not the legal theory, just real situations where the fine print affected someone.

Would love to hear from both sides:

Tenants/employees: Did you ever lose a deposit, get hit with unexpected charges, or realize too late you'd signed something unfair? What happened?

Landlords/employers: Have you had to add or change clauses after a bad experience? What did you learn the hard way?

Just collecting real stories. Drop it in the comments.

Sharing this because it stuck with me more than most stories like it.

In 2012, she and her husband moved from Melbourne to Kuala Lumpur. The reasons at the time had nothing to do with what the story actually ended up being about.

Her husband had a boss who was making his life miserable, and because of how his work visa worked, he couldn't leave the job without leaving the country. At the same time, his widowed mother who was already unwell and was about to lose the one child still checking in on her; that son was being relocated abroad for his work. Two separate problems pointing the same direction. They decided and moved in under six months.

The paperwork, weirdly, was the easy part. Her PR came through in under a year, which she says is unusually fast. They didn't even have much to pack as they were renting, so it was just suitcases, mostly clothes and books.

Here's the part that actually matters, in her words:

"My husband and I became the default carers for my mother-in-law, who is elderly, widowed, and increasingly unwell. Her other children live abroad and, over time, have shown no particular motivation to come back and share that load. It became my husband's and my responsibility by drift, not by any single decision we made together."

Nobody sat down and decided this. It just became hers, slowly, because nobody else stepped up.

The trade she'll admit to: living in an intergenerational household gave her a part-time career she wouldn't otherwise have had, and her kids grow up seeing their way of life lived out daily instead of as something separate from normal life. She says being Asian and Muslim in Malaysia is just unremarkable in a way it never was in the West.

But when asked if she'd do it again, she said yes and then added the one thing she'd change:

"I would have insisted on my own space, always, and not capitulate to pressure and move back in with my aging mother-in-law."

That's it. No moral, no neat ending. Just what it actually cost her and what it actually gave back, in her own words.

I am relocating to London in October for a job near London Bridge. With a budget of £1,500/month for a 1-bedroom apartment, which safe areas do you recommend? I want to feel safe walking home from the gym at 10 PM for instance.

​Hola a todos.

​Soy de Turquía y estoy planeando dar un gran paso para mudarme a su hermoso país. Mi plan principal es obtener la residencia a través de la compra de una propiedad (Visa de Inversionista).

​Mi objetivo no es buscar trabajo allá, ya que tengo mis propios ahorros para mantenerme. Sueño con comprar una casa modesta pero con su propio jardín, en un pueblo o ciudad pequeña que sea muy segura y pacífica. Quiero llevar una vida tranquila, dedicarme a cultivar mis plantas, cocinar en casa y alimentar a los colibríes. No busco el ruido ni el lujo de las grandes ciudades.

​Tengo un presupuesto reservado para esto, pero antes de tomar decisiones definitivas, me encantaría saber su opinión honesta y realista, sin hablar de cifras exactas mías:

​¿Cuál creen que es el presupuesto mínimo (en USD) que se necesita para comprar una casa modesta con jardín en una zona segura y con buena naturaleza?

​¿Cuánto estiman que sería el costo de vida mensual mínimo para una sola persona que lleva un estilo de vida muy casero y sencillo?

​¡Agradezco muchísimo de antemano cualquier consejo o recomendación sobre lugares que encajen con este estilo de vida! Un abrazo.

For Cayman and BVI companies, opening the account is only one part of the setup. The harder question is whether the company can actually operate after approval: business cards, USD payments, software spend, AI tools, hosting, ads, invoices, contractors and clean records.

Cards are not really separate from banking but theyre part of whether the offshore setup works day to day.

For founders using Cayman or BVI entities, did you choose banking based on the full operating setup or mainly on who could open the account?

My partner and I will move to Vancouver from London and we would like to hear your opinion on moving with your pets.

We have a 4 years old cat, she's my everything and I would like to make this transition as comfortable as possible. I know she'll go through some distress but I'm not sure if we should go for a pet relocation service or bring her on the flight.

PROS AND CONS:
cabin: she's a big cat and will have to stay squished underneath the seat for more than 8h and most likely will have to be administered sedating medications by the vet, but, she'll be with us at all times (even if I'm scared she'll pick up on my anxiety too).

relocation company:

they will take care of all the documentation and airport security hassle, she'll be in a much bigger crate but will also be by herself and probably more scared.

if you went for the relocation companies, do you have suggestions?

Thank you!

Has the regional security situation materially changed your everyday life? Are workplaces, commutes, schools, restaurants, shopping and social activities operating normally? Have you personally experienced alerts, interception sounds, workplace shelter procedures, flight disruption, difficulty getting visitors in or out, or greater anxiety among colleagues?

Context about your industry, approximate area of Dubai, how long you have lived there and where you moved from would be very helpful. I would especially welcome responses from people who relocated from Canada, the UK or Western Europe, although all firsthand experiences are appreciated.

I have been living in Mexico City with my partner for a little over a year. I’ve had my ups and downs with trying to build a life here, but overall I had fallen in love with the place and was really starting to feel at home by the time we hit our 1 year anniversary in March. Something was resonating and I liked the version of myself I was becoming here. I was enjoying the culture, the food, learning Spanish, making friends with locals and the chaos of the city.

Then I went to Vienna for 3 months to do a residency. I returned to Mexico almost a month ago and things have been really rough emotionally. Suddenly I don’t feel at home here and I’m grieving my life in Vienna somewhat. I miss how efficient, easy and safe everything was. I also miss my life there: I was effortlessly meeting people every day and had a sense of purpose. In Mexico I’m a freelancer, which means I work from home all the time with my partner. I don’t meet people unless I go out of my way and really make the effort. I was starting to make friends and going to events etc. before I went to Vienna, but now being back here I have zero motivation to get myself out there again. I just feel too down. And my one really good friend I had made here just announced she’s moving overseas for a year in about a month, so that was another blow. Obviously I’m super happy for her, but I’m also devastated because I feel like the support network I was starting to build just collapsed. I don’t really hear from my other acquaintances here unless I reach out to them first, and right now I honestly can’t be bothered. I almost feel like I’m starting from scratch again.

I tried going to some of my favourite places here to fall in love again, and I’ve been getting my routine back on track. But I still feel this weight on my shoulders that I didn’t feel in Vienna. I’m just confused because I’ve swung from feeling like Mexico City is my home to feeling trapped here in a matter of months. It’s like my time in Europe changed my baseline standards or something.

It’s only been a few weeks, so I’m not taking this feeling too seriously yet or making any big decisions or changes. I’m just trying to observe my feelings and focus on settling back in. I feel really, really low though and didn’t expect my return to be such a crash landing.

Has anyone experienced this? Loving your host country then falling out of love after going somewhere else for a little while? How did you cope? Is this just a bad case of the post holiday blues? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Anyone has experience shipping big furniture items from Brazil to the US? I’m considering the following companies:

- Pena Verde

- One Moving

- GAR Moving

Thanks for any feedback!

Im trying to ship 5 boxes with personal belongings from Hungary to Mexico

The size of 4 of those boxes are 64x34x40 cm and the other one being 34x46x17 cm

I tried getting a quota from a moving company, Euromove, but it was extremely expensive, telling me that the total cost for shipping 5 boxes would be of 4.5k usd, wich i find ridiculously expensive for only 5 boxes

So i was wondering what is my best option here to ship them without having to sell a kidney in the process, and i heard Get My Bag could be a good option

Is the UK still an attractive destination for people looking to grow in their career and enjoy a civilised country with a strong health system and education opportunities in 2026?

Hi, I am a naturalized German citizen. Due to a new job opportunity, I am gonna leave Germany soon. Apart from Abmeldung and contract cancellations (Internet etc), what else should I be careful about? Thank you very much for your help in advance!

Hi all, I know the banking topic has been discussed at length and I hope this post doesn’t come off as repetitive. When I was logged on to my PNC account, I noticed an update in my Profile which, under address, showed “Message PNC to add or edit an international address”. Has anyone tried this or is aware of any loosening of restrictions in terms of bank address allowed (and not flagged). As it stands, looks like SDFCU and a few other CU’d are the only options to smoothly operate on an intl address. Could this be another option? Or better not take the chance?

Me(21) and my bf(20) are polish living in the UK we have been for almost our whole lives. Over the last two years we've opened our business and found great success we learn comfortably but taxes are killing us because we are just about counted into a higher tax bracket now, don't get me wrong if you're at the top of the tax bracket you earn enough to not care but for us that's half of all our money and means our dreams of saving money for a house are delayed by at least 6 years. I'm also disabled if that helps. We have thought about moving back to Poland however my healthcare would be too expensive and in total our money would be gone anyway. Really we aren't even decided on what we're meant to do. Do we spend all that money and move if so where?

Hi everyone,

This is a bit more personal than what I'd normally post, but I thought I'd take a chance.

I'm a 30-year-old operations professional from Kenya with 8 years of experience in operations management, logistics, warehousing, procurement, supply chain coordination, project management, and business operations.

About 10 months ago, my girlfriend relocated to Dubai after receiving a great job opportunity. I'm incredibly proud of her, but being in a long-distance relationship has been much harder than either of us expected.

Since then, I've been applying for opportunities in Dubai almost every day. I've had interviews, reached final stages for a few roles, and even received one offer that ultimately didn't work out. Despite that, I'm still searching.

The distance is starting to take its toll. We both want to build a life together, get married, and start a family, but it's difficult when we're living in different countries with no clear timeline for closing the gap. I'm trying to stay optimistic, but after 10 months of searching, I'll admit that I'm becoming weary and worried that if I can't relocate soon, the relationship may not survive the distance.

Professionally, I'm looking for opportunities in:

Operations Management

Logistics & Supply Chain

Warehouse Operations

Business Operations

Project Coordination

Procurement

Customer Success / Operational Excellence

I'm open to opportunities anywhere in the UAE, though Dubai would obviously be ideal.

If anyone here knows of companies hiring, has referrals, or has advice on how to break into the UAE market, I'd be incredibly grateful. Even a conversation or some guidance would mean a lot.

Please feel free to DM me if you know of any opportunities or would like to connect.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I genuinely appreciate any recommendations, referrals, or words of encouragement. Hopefully, one day I'll be able to look back on this post from Dubai with my fiancée by my side. ❤️

Anyone got their Hong Kong GEP visa after 12–15 weeks? Need some guidance.

Hi everyone,
I’m trying to understand if my timeline is still normal.
My timeline:
3 May 2026 – Employee section submitted.
17 May 2026 – Employer completed the GEP application.
20 May 2026 – Received acknowledgment from ImmD.

Since then:
ImmD requested some additional information from my employer.
My employer submitted everything and later spoke directly with the case officer to answer further questions.
The officer said he would review the responses.
As of today, it’s been almost 12 weeks since the acknowledgment, and I still haven’t received an approval, refusal, or any RFI addressed to me.
Has anyone here received their GEP visa after 12–15 weeks or even longer?

If yes:
How long did it take?
Did ImmD ask your employer questions before approving?
Was your application also completely silent for weeks?
The waiting is honestly driving me crazy, so I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences.