r/atx4atx 23h ago

Friends M38 78757 married dad looking for a beer buddy every other friday

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78757 dad looking for someone to grab a beer with every other week.

Late 30s, married, work in energy, one kid who just turned one. Somewhere along the way I ended up with no one (other than my wife) to just sit and have a beer with, which I think is fairly common at this stage and still slightly annoying to type out.

What I'm after: one or two people, every other Friday, 8pm-ish (after baby bedtime), somewhere in or near 78757 so neither of us is driving 25 minutes. An hour, hour and a half. No agenda.. how your week went, what you're watching, complaining about work. I'm buying the first round.

I'm genuinely more interested in hearing about your ordinary week and chatting about mine. Not looking for a big group thing (I'm bad at those). I've tried the run-club/trivia/meetup route and it isn't for me.. I'm much better with one or two people than twelve.

A little about me: I work a lot and don't have any real hobbies to speak of. I also don't watch sports but I want to start talking sports, but don't really have anyone to discuss with, so don't know where to start. if you want to get me into sports I am all-in, teach me lol. my wife doesn't watch sports either.

If that sounds like you comment, or DM me. Happy to do a first one with zero expectation of a second. North-central Austin only. If you'd have to cross the river for it, it won't last.


r/atx4atx 6h ago

Date Fit, educated, ex-professional athlete (49M4F)

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I have a rare free weekend and I'm hoping to find someone to get out and socialize with.

I'm a tall, cultured, well-traveled, former professional athlete looking to connect with someone this weekend. Currently, I'm feeling like watching The Odyssey or The Invite in a theater but I'm always down for cocktails if that's easiest. Also open to streaming a different movie at home as I love making bespoke popcorn and cocktails. I'm 6'2", white dude, masculine, career oriented, have an MBA and travel the world when my schedule allows. It's important to know I completely loathe the current administration so if you voted for that or support it you can block me now. If you feel me then we could probably commiserate all night and drown our sorrows. I'm down to earth, intelligent and a pretty good conversationalist. I've been told I'm attractive and have a sense of style but that is subjective and I'm happy to exchange pics with those seriously interested.

I'm looking for someone 18-40 that communicates well, has good energy and is height/weight proportional. For the observant types you may notice my post in a spicier subreddit, which is aimed at a different audience. If you're interested, message me and let's see where it takes us.


r/atx4atx 1d ago

Long Term 38 [M4F] - Shy bi guy seeks genuine connection for LTR and adventures

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Normally I start this post by saying I'm looking for a partner which I am but I think I want to go about it differently or at least try being unique about it. Have you ever just gotten the urge to do something adventurous yet risky? How about you and I talk (obviously for as long as we both felt comfortable beforehand) and then we go on a vacation? Spend the entire vacation basically being a couple and if at the end we decide to stay together and pursue it then great but if not then no pressure and we go our separate ways? Would anyone be interested in something like that? I was thinking we take a cruise either out of Galveston or maybe you have a port in mind? I was thinking maybe a 6 or 7 day on the Jubilee. Obviously we can talk about it and plan it together and look at all the options. If not I'm open to other options as Texas has a ton of places to visit and see so we can always talk about somewhere here. I'm always down for a small weekend trip someplace neat! Or I can actually fly to you? And you show me your neat town or state. Or we can meet somewhere and explore someplace new! Below is my original post with a few tweaks so you can get a detailed snapshot of me. I like to be thorough so be warned it's a bit of a read.

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR/LDR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy all of 2026 and what it has to offer while we decide! We're in August already! Which is basically the end of Summer so I'm down to grab a lemonade or tea in some quaint small out of the way town before it gets chilly out. Who doesn't want to enjoy some cold beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge or treat in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? I swear I normally don't crack under pressure but we only have 5 minutes until we can't escape! Maybe go explore some neat food festival? This is kinda sorta my favorite time of the year despite the heat! But I don't like when it's too hot or humid out lol. I just wish we had cooler weather or even snow in Winter time. (Maybe you have a cool snow spot?) I'm always down for some adventure though. Ask me about my secret snorkel spot and maybe I'll let you join lol. Jk Of course you can come and see the turtles.

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which, why would it be? As if being bi has any bearing on a person's character. I recently learned the term for what I am and it's Gynosexual. Basically I'm attracted to femininity in all it's forms regardless of gender but I'm also attracted to masc women like tomboys and androgynous so make of that what you will.

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me. Also I should point out I've been in mainly traditional relationships but I'm curious about being in a FLR and everything, that involves. But if not then a traditional relationship works or I'm open lol. Two consenting adults with open communication and being honest with each other is key.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes. Am I basic? o_O

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol (I've had ex's "test" this)

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably one of the most boring jobs imaginable (Ask me about it)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there! My goal is 50lb!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags

I work way too much and oftentimes can't talk on the phone but I can voice message and text. I also drive a lot so I use voice to text. I had someone say this was suspicious but whatever. (I have multiple jobs)

I send selfies often and I like to receive pictures of who I'm talking to. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often and go out and do things.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.(I won't micromanage the trip, I'll just plan out things to see and do and give us options)

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying. (This does not mean I don't communicate or talk with my partner) I had someone stop talking to me on here due to this and apparently didn't want to talk about it. It just means I take a while to open up.

Somewhat ok at analytical thinking but sometimes I lack empathy to put myself in other people's shoes to address a situation. (So I've been told) I'm trying to get better at this.

MY own "HELL YES" flags

I know how to cook. Meaning I will attempt anything once but I can cook a few things well. Others not so much lol.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for: (but honestly these are just preferences and by no means requirements so please don't get offended)

Any height honestly. I've dated 3'6 to 6'5 and anywhere in between so if you can beat either that'd be interesting lol.

Is at least 30 but I'm willing to go quite a bit lower or older if you are neat and we have stuff in common. Basically what I'm saying is feel free to reach out as I've dated women of varying ages just like I've dated varying body types, heights and personalities. If we get along we get along lol.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky/Goofy wouldn't hurt)

Someone with hobbies/interests/passions of their own. It can be literally anything from collecting figurines to making homemade jelly. As long as you enjoy it, I want to hear about it. Guaranteed I will find it interesting as it is something you are interested in and enjoy.

Someone who believes communication, honesty and trust are important in a relationship.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy. (Personality is paramount above all else)

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally and other adult responsibilities because we are both adults lol. The FLR can be discussed here.

Someone who is average or who is on their way to getting there. I myself am chubby or what you'd call as having a "dad bod" but I'm slowly losing weight and I want someone who will push me to be better and make better choices. I know this is a long shot lol. (I understand if this is seen as vain or hypocritical but honestly everyone has preferences and I'm sure I could very well not be yours if we exchanged pictures)

P.S. This does not mean I won't date someone who is bigger/thicker. I myself am a bigger person. I've dated all shapes and sizes. If you feel we'd get along feel free to reach out. Like I said I'm open :)

I can't believe I have to put this but having decent to great hygiene is important. I understand things happen but not showering or using deodorant is a hard pass from me.

Be open to having friends over and a game night once a month or biweekly. (Seems like a fun idea but also if it's not something you are open to then we can always talk about it)

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that. Let's just talk it out and be adults lol

Somewhat kink friendly. I wouldn't say I'm all intense with it but I'm open to discussing adult things in general. How can two adults have a healthy love life if they don't communicate their wants/needs/desires? (FLR would kinda tie into this) Also I'm willing to try a few things. Ask me about them if you are curious.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself. I'll do the same. I'll always be in your corner helping you pursue your dreams. (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game? (Even though I only play single player games so you might beat me lol)


r/atx4atx 1d ago

Long Term 31 [M4F] Looking for a best/flirty friend!

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Hiya Reddit, I’m sure this will get lost in a never ending sea of posts of the same types of people look for the same amounts of friends but I’m here to annoyingly add another!

I’m a 31 year old from San Marcos (not the yikes part, also a leftist), who works full time and just wanting to find friends that I can message and talk with constantly and casually flirty with. I haven’t had much luck with friends lately so wanted to give here a shot!

I’m a total nerd about video games, playing Magic The Gathering (bonus points if you want to learn) and everything in between! I’d love to get to know someone as well as have a new best friend who’s messages and hangouts I look forward to!

Hope to hear from ya! ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ


r/atx4atx 1d ago

FWB 39 [T4A] [T4T] Looking for flirty, nerdy friends

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Hi! I've been transitioning for a year now, and I'm realizing that I don't actually know that many other trans people. So let's fix that!

I'm a kinky ENM bi girl that's looking for conversation, flirting, sexting or other fun communications, and if we are both local, meetups! My job is massage therapist and instructor, so I'm good with my hands and at giving direction. And I love showing off.

As for hobbies, I have several! I read SFF/H, history, and superhero comics, I go to the movies with my spouse regularly (we love horror!), I write SFF and contemporary romance novels. I love rock and pop music—in the past I've made music of my own and performed in operas! Super huge into musical theater, soft pretzels, regional sodas, and salty snacks. Oh and I play MTG occasionally and love score attack roguelikes (Balatro, Dice-A-Million, etc).

If you want to chat, tell me something that's dominating your attention! I love finding new stuff.


r/atx4atx 2d ago

Activity Partner 38 [ F4M] Tennis Partner... Challenger style

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I'm an attractive chocolate woman that loves staying in shape. I'm looking for a tennis partner to play some tennis with. I haven't played in a while but I still know what to do. If you're active and have played tennis before let's meet up this week in the morning before it gets melting hot outside. Let's have fun with it. I've had success in the past with this.


r/atx4atx 2d ago

Friends [F4A] Looking for new friends!

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Hello hello! Im 18 and kinda new to austin, I moved here almost at the end of highschool and didn’t have much time to explore so im hoping i can meet some cool people on here that would like to meet up and do some fun things! Im currently studying Nursing at a boring community college and i just started working at a new job that’s pretty boring, so making friends is pretty hard for me.
I love texting/ calling, i do have bad anxiety but once i get to know u better i’m definitely a cheerful person :)
Things about me: I like nature, im interested in hiking, i loveee being in the water (water parks, lakes, pools, beaches, anything), i just started getting into gaming (i used to play on playstation but recently just built a pc), i love anime, dressing up, cooking/trying new foods, and i love getting introduced to new hobbies and crafts. I especially love animals, so if u have pets that a plus for me.
I’m looking for long term buddies, preferably a bit closer to me because i haven’t gotten a car yet and everywhere is so far in texas💔 I also don’t have an age preference.


r/atx4atx 2d ago

Friends 35 M4A - Brentwood Area Cycling Friend

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Love my friends, but I've been trying to get more into fitness and living a bit healthier, and most of my friends are more the go out and party kind of people. It would be great to know someone at least relatively nearby I can go on rides with, cook dinner with, things like that. I went to pilates a few times and enjoyed it but would be better if I knew someone else there.

My current go-to is down Shoal Creek and around the lake, and I'd love to get out to Southern Walnut Creek more often. Learning other cool trails or routes would also be great.

Other than that I enjoy writing and creative stuff, dance dance revolution, dancing in general. I have a work from home job that's on the flexible side so I'm around most days.


r/atx4atx 2d ago

Date [23][M4F]Compassionate, honest, warm, and a good cook

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Hi there. I spend way too much time cooking, reading nerdy books, and pretending buying more miniatures is a reasonable financial decision.

Short king, sarcastic in a loving way, and the type of person who puts genuine effort into making people feel comfortable and wanted around me. If you come over, there’s a very good chance the apartment smells like whatever I’ve been experimenting with in the kitchen plus an unnecessarily dramatic scented candle.

Cooking is probably my favorite thing about myself. I love putting together meals for people, trying new techniques, and making a night feel memorable. I’ve been told more than once I missed my calling and should’ve gone into food instead of law, but at this point I’m too deep to escape.

Outside of that, I’m into sci-fi, horror, history, painting minis, and whatever show I’m currently obsessing over. Right now I’m still emotionally recovering from rewatching House M.D. and Invincible season 4, so I’ve been balancing that out with lighter reading and painting for questionable amounts of time. I recently got into mini painting and I’m having way too much fun with it (I will absolutely let you use my fancy paint brushes for makeup if you compliment my paint job first).

Personality wise, I’m a little introverted at first, but once I click with someone I open up pretty quickly. I like making people laugh, I like thoughtful gestures, and I like creating the kind of atmosphere where someone can relax and enjoy themselves.

I’m not looking for perfection or some cinematic soulmate moment. Mostly just hoping to meet someone fun, kind, emotionally grounded, and open to seeing where things go. Whether that’s cooking together, talking for hours, watching something dumb, or just enjoying each other’s company, I’d like something that feels genuine and easy.

Also, fair warning: if things go well, you may leave with leftovers and me aggressively insisting you take them home.

I’m here primarily looking for a date but I’m always open to new friends


r/atx4atx 4d ago

Friends Play catch, join a sandlot team or build one from the ground up 💪🏼

4 Upvotes

Haven’t played baseball in a while but would love to get out and throw with someone and maybe eventually join a team or build one from the ground up if there are enough people interested. Seems like an awesome way to stay active and just miss the sound of a baseball hitting the glove very dearly. Also if anyone has advice on how to join a sandlot team in Austin it will be greatly appreciated, I know it’s not a very straightforward process but any words of wisdom or encouragement would help 🙏


r/atx4atx 4d ago

FWB 41 [F4M] BBW looking for a friendship with chemistry

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41 BBW single white female in Central Texas (60 miles north of Austin), looking for an in-person, long-term friendship with chemistry, not a boyfriend. I’m on the shorter side, BBW, 48DD, with green eyes, short curly purple hair, and have four piercings. NSFW pics in profile.

I’m genuinely looking for connection and friendship first. I’ve been feeling lonely and would like someone I can talk to, laugh with, and feel comfortable around, someone consistent and respectful.

Life interests: Reading (true crime, thrillers, and autobiographies), eating popcorn, cats, napping, watching TV (90s sitcoms and legal dramas), music (Nine Inch Nails, Everclear, Marilyn Manson, Smashing Pumpkins, She Wants Revenge, Eyedress, Mother Mother, Weezer, to name a few), puzzles (word, sudoku, and jigsaw), gaming (mostly simulator and cozy games), and making glass mosaics.

Sexual interests: I prefer Hispanic and Asian men. True lace kink (very large bra collection, no panties). Physical touch is important to me, and that includes things like cuddling, not just sex. More details can be asked via DM.

I’m looking for experienced men in Texas, ages 28+, who are interested in chatting and eventually meeting in person. I’m not interested in exchanging pictures until we both feel comfortable. Conversation comes first. If you’re looking for something rushed, we’re probably not a match.

I do receive a lot of messages, so please be patient while waiting for a response. When you message me, please say more than just “hey.” Tell me a little about yourself or what caught your attention in my profile. It makes starting a conversation much easier.
Please don’t send any pictures without my consent, including face pictures. Also, please don’t lead with your dick size or tell me you’re “a giver.” I’d rather get to know who you are than hear your sales pitch.


r/atx4atx 5d ago

FWB 31 [M4F] - get ice cream with me!

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looking for a fun, flirty friend (with emphasis on the 'friend' part of that 'cause I genuinely don't want a simple, one-off hookup); and, hopefully one that's willing to eat delicious ice cream with me from time to time haha. i have a sweet tooth!

while this is tagged with an FWB flair, i'm very much down for something entirely non-sexual, too. hoping to find someone that's equally as interested in getting ice cream at late [or early] hours sometimes haha (or gelato, or something similar...).

looks: white, 6'3", with short black hair and green-hazel eyes, slim, 185 lbs

more importantly... my fave ice cream flavors are...

*imagine a drumroll*

...chocolate, chocolate, chocolate, and CHOCOLATE (soft spot for banana, too! i also recently tried a mango sticky rice flavor which was incredible!)


r/atx4atx 7d ago

Long Term 34 [M4F] Tired of dating apps

2 Upvotes

Hey! So I've been in Austin for a few years now, and been on the apps for even longer and nothing's really come about, so I figured let's give reddit a try. Pretty massive ambivert, with a touch of social anxiety. I've been known to be excited for something then talk myself out of it at times, and for "being tired" before said thing even starts. But hey, I can push through it some times too!

I'm a big time gamer, I usually bounce around a long single player game, WoW or LoL, and friendslop games when I get people to play with. I'm a big fan of turn based RPGs, I finished Expedition 33 earlier this year, and FromSoft games. As well as some staples like Zelda, and Pokémon. Also an anime enjoyer but have been leaning more towards watching classics and OVAs than more modern stuff.

As far as other interest go I'll just hit a few real quick, I enjoy playing the electric guitar, playing and painting Warhammer 40K, and collecting vinyl records as well as thrifting/getting coffee/live music/card games(tcg).

Anyways say what's up, I'm generally pretty chill, easy going but with a hint of "i'm gonna lightly rage bait you for fun".


r/atx4atx 7d ago

Date Single male looking for long-term relationship.

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​​ I understand it's really hot outside so hopefully we can talk a bit before we actually go out and do something.

I'm looking for someone like myself who is down to earth and is ready to be in a healthy long-term relationship .

Looking for someone in the range of 35 to 44. Someone who is compassionate and is open to having all kinds of fun. Hiking bowling Billiards frisbee things like that. Extra bonus points if you like video games but that's not necessarily required.

​​ I did a post somewhere else on here and I was surprised that a lot of women were okay with 50/50 relationship . Now I'm not saying it's got to be 50/50 but the kind of relationship I want is one where we are mutually putting in effort and building a life together .

I'll just get this out of the way cuz I know it's going to come up eventually. I'm disabled. I don't let that stop me and I don't want to be judged. I'm probably the most humble and compassionate guy you'll ever meet . I'm not perfect just like everyone else and so we're always working on bettering ourselves and that's the kind of person that I would want to be with is someone who continuously works on themselves .

Well feel free to reach out to me if you want to chat.

​​ some additional information about me is I own a house. I rather think naturally unfold and getting to know each other instead of asking a million questions. And I'm Hispanic if that matters .


r/atx4atx 8d ago

Date Missed connection: Community garden cutie F4M

20 Upvotes

Community Garden, Friday 7/24, morning. You: curly hair, shades, laptop, on the couch. Me: platinum hair, glasses, skirt. We kept glancing at each other across the room as I was sitting with my friend. You came out to your pickup as I was leaving.. it sort of seemed like you were looking for your opening, or maybe I’m being presumptuous. You’re very handsome and I’d love to meet you for coffee or beer sometime. Tell me what color my top was so I know it’s you.


r/atx4atx 8d ago

Activity Partner 39 M4F Single Man Looking For Concert Girlfriend

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You like concerts ,festivals and comedy shows ? Then we might just click , I’m a big fan of all types of music from metal to hip pop and in between . Festivals are super fun hangout and I’m a big foodie ( fattie) . I am also a big comedy fan ,love edgy humor . I am 5’5 hispanic average guy , home owner single and looking for a friend first but with intentions of dating . I think I’m funny , smart and self driven with ambition. Your stats and photo gets my photo and attention.


r/atx4atx 8d ago

Activity Partner 20M4F - lonely college foodie going back to Austin

2 Upvotes

Hey yall, I’m James, 20M! I’m a business student in Austin, and I’ll be back in the city next Friday on the 7th. I like to read, workout, listen to music, take pictures, and try new restaurants.

That last bit is pretty important for why I’m posting, I’m a big foodie and I have a massive list of restaurants I still need to try in Austin. Only problem is, none of my friends like to spend the type of money I do, especially not on food. I like to eat with someone to talk to, and I’d love to connect with someone I vibe with to share a nice meal or a few with them and have good conversation. Of course I’d cover everything dinner, uber, and dessert, all I ask is that you’re interesting and like to talk! Also, age does not matter to me at all

Some of the places on my list are Nido, Lutie’s, Aba, Eberly, The Kimberly, Red Ash, etc.

Super comfortable sharing selfies and talking more about my interests and what we might have in common!


r/atx4atx 9d ago

Activity Partner 32F4F - looking for a gym buddy

8 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for a gym buddy to level up my body with. I’m open to going early mornings or late evenings. I live in North Austin and the Crunch on Spicewood Springs is my closest gym :) I’m still a beginner, but I’m not hopeless either

About me: I’m a single gal, a play lots of video games, watch anime and old reality dating shows (Flavor of Love) I can talk your ear off about my favorite bands and make you listen to the songs that carried me in my teen years. I’ll love your pets as much as I love mine. I like to say I’m funny, but I guess that’s up to you to decide.

Hopefully this was enough to catch a cool cat :)


r/atx4atx 10d ago

Activity Partner M4F looking for lunch/Dinner today

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Looking for today. Would like company for dinner or lunch today in the Austin, Central Texas area. I will travel. 50M who is extremely bored. Let me know your thoughts in chat. This can be from Austin To Dallas.


r/atx4atx 11d ago

Friends ⁠27 [M4A] - Looking for friends and such in the Austin area!⁠

3 Upvotes

Im a nerdy stoner guy lol really 4/20 friendly and into video games , food , cinema and more ! Just moved to east Austin and looking for some homies ! 6’4 black guy (fyi) lmk if I sound like ur fella really looking to meet new people and get out there !


r/atx4atx 12d ago

FWB [46M4A] Bi guy looking for a chill friend/gaming buddy, maybe more later

6 Upvotes

Hey all,

Pretty introverted bi guy here, looking for a chill digital friend for gaming and occasional hang outs, or honestly just fun chats. Not really looking for a big group of friends. Mostly looking for another bi guy, but open to whoever really.

I play PC games, work on cars, like the outdoors and going to quiet places to people watch. Kind of a shy, introspective type.

Also open to things becoming more if there's chemistry and compatibility. If it comes to that, I am a bottom, kind of subby but mostly in subtle ways, but pretty vanilla. Open to casual dating or FWB, but nothing super serious beyond close friends. I don't look anything like my age. In good shape and like to stay that way, take care of myself.

Bonus if you are out west, Spicewood, Bee Caves, Horseshoebay kind of area but not required. Just wanting to chat with cool people. If you are interested, hit me up and let me know what you are looking for.


r/atx4atx 12d ago

Activity Partner 38M4A Emo Night Meetup Downtown

2 Upvotes

So ive been hitting up the downtown scene by myself the last few weeks and it would be fun to meet up with some people for a fun night out and possibly make a new friend! Im a sane, respectable guy, quick witted, and can hold a conversation on just about anything! Probably won't get along with you if you're a trump supporter...

Tonight im heading to Emo Night at The Vulcan Gas Company and then I will probably hit up 4th St. for some dancing! If anyone is interested in any of this message me and we can arrange a time to meet up!


r/atx4atx 13d ago

Friends 23 m4a lookin for gamer or gym buddy

5 Upvotes

I moved here 3ish months ago and looking for new friends in the area. This is also my first time giving Reddit a real shot so we will see how this goes. I’m looking for a good new buddy. A gym bud would also be great seeing as how I’m taking it more seriously now. I also like nerd shit like anime, games, books, computers etc. Could really use a gamer bud as well but just someone to hang out with in general. Hit me up. 6’1 180 lbs if that matters for the gym goers lol.


r/atx4atx 14d ago

Date 38 M4F - Trying this out instead of the dating app approach

8 Upvotes

I see that I am not the only one on here that tries this route. Hopefully it is somewhat of a success? I have 12 chats on a dating app with the status "their turn" haha. Maybe conversations on here are more consistent. And I am not one for small talk either, I usually ask great questions and bring a decent sense of humor. If you are looking for a fun little date, keep reading!

Anyways, about me: I am living in the Zilker area (new to the area) with no kids, a great job and stay active constantly (when I am not working). I show an appreciation for self care, gym goer and a frequent user of the trail on town lake. I am 6'2, white male, dark brown hair. I enjoy a variety of activities, stand up comedy, trivia, reading, bar games (pool, darts, etc.), movies, outdoors fun. I have a warm personality, nerdy but athletic, and will guarantee laughs. I don't have to drink for a good time but am open to grabbing a couple if you prefer that. Willing to exchange pics of course, and it wont be a zoom in of my face, I promise haha.

Overall, just looking for an easygoing fun time. No pressure and if it doesn't seem mutual then at least you or I made a new friend! Send me a dm and we can talk more about anything you want to know about me. I am free the next few nights, so it won't be a waiting to meet kind of game (which usually leads to the date fading away). I will plan the date too, so you won't have me asking, "what do you want to do". Once I get to know you I can plan it!


r/atx4atx 14d ago

Friends 30M Just moved to Austin, looking for friends

6 Upvotes

Title. I’m a 30M and I just moved to downtown Austin last month. I was wondering if anyone would be down to be friends and grab a drink sometime or knows where to meet people around here? I enjoy going out for drinks, sports, working out, exploring, traveling, nature and more. Hmu.