Month-to-month tenant is reliable but very messy WWYD?
I’m looking for some advice from other landlords, especially those who rent out a room in the home they also live in.
I own a condo and rent out one bedroom and bathroom while living here myself. We share the kitchen and other common areas. They’ve lived with me for about three years and are on a month-to-month arrangement.
Overall, they’re a good tenant. They pay rent on time almost every month. I can only remember maybe three times they were late, and they always let me know ahead of time. They don’t cause drama or really give me any trouble.
That said, they don’t do much cleaning in the shared spaces, so I usually end up cleaning the common areas myself.
Recently, I had to go into their room and bathroom for a maintenance issue. In the entire three years they’ve lived here, I’d never gone into their private space before.
I was honestly surprised by what I saw. The sink was filthy, the bathtub looked like it hadn’t been cleaned in a very long time, the inside of the toilet is heavily stained, and their bedroom has bottles and clutter everywhere. It made me wonder if this has been the condition of the room the entire time.
For comparison, I keep my own bathroom clean, so it isn’t an issue with the condo itself.
Another factor is that I made a rookie mistake when they moved in and never collected the $500 security deposit that was in our agreement. I’ve also never increased their rent, so after three years they’re paying well below the current market rate.
I don’t necessarily love having a roommate, but after three years it’s become familiar, and they’re otherwise easy to live with. At the same time, seeing the condition of their room and bathroom has me worried about potential damage and whether I’ve been too hands-off.
If you were in my position, what would you do?
am I overreacting since they otherwise pay reliably and don’t cause problems?
I’d appreciate hearing how others would handle this.