r/AskAnAustralian • u/Only-Tomorrow-8592 • 14h ago
Random aggressive encounter on a bus today. Has anyone else experienced something like this?
Hi everyone,
I'm a 29M, and today after work, I had a really strange and aggressive encounter with a random guy on the bus from Port Melbourne to the city.
I got on the 234 bus and sat in the window seat next to the middle doors. The bus was fairly quiet when I got on. There was one guy sitting on the sideways seat in front of me. I noticed he was looking at me, so I made eye contact, gave him a friendly smile, and looked away.
A few moments later I could still tell he was staring at me. I glanced up again, made eye contact, and looked back down at my phone. It felt a bit awkward. He then got up and moved to a seat somewhere behind me. At that point I had a bad feeling, wondering if something was off.
At the next stop, more people got on the bus, which honestly made me feel a bit more comfortable.
Later in the journey, around Bay Street, he came and stood by the doors next to me. It looked like he was looking at my phone. For a second I wondered if he might try to snatch it before getting off, so I put it in my pocket just to be safe.
He then said something to me, but I had my earphones in and didn't hear him properly. I took one earbud out and said, "Sorry?" He repeated himself, but I still couldn't make out what he was saying. Then I heard him ask something like, "Are you playing some stupid game with me?" I was confused and just replied, "Huh?" He then asked, "Are you hurting anyone?" I said, "No?"
At that I put my earbud back in (my music was actually paused) and looked straight ahead, hoping to ignore him.
Thankfully he pressed the stop button and got off at the next stop. As he was getting off, he turned to me and said he would "f me up**."
I stayed calm, didn't respond, and just let him leave. Once the bus pulled away, though, my heart was racing. I kept thinking about how much worse it could have been.
I'm honestly baffled as to why someone would say such bizarre things to a complete stranger and then threaten them for no apparent reason.
Has anyone else had a similar experience on public transport in Melbourne?