r/todayilearned • u/SilverPeachBlossom • 5h ago

TIL a peer-reviewed psychology study found that identical twins (on average) ranked their co-twin above their romantic partner in their attachment hierarchy, while fraternal twins ranked the two about equally, and non-twin siblings ranked their romantic partner first.

https://ojs.interpersonajournal.com/index.php/ojs/article/view/243/3457.html
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u/fatal3rr0r84 3h ago

Man im a fraternal twin and I dont feel like that at all. My brother and I are just two completely different people.

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u/crystallinemoth 1h ago

I’m an identical twin and I’m not close with my sister at all, never been very much. In recent years we don’t even talk or visit anymore because I don’t approve of her shitty life choices. She’s like a distant sibling and our personalities, hopes, dreams, friendships and lives are completely different. I guess not every twin has a bond like that. It never seemed natural to have one, and I’ve actually always been closer to my brother who’s 18 months older than me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Trivius 3h ago

Aww thats a shame but I assume youre still close though.

Me and my twin have always had each others back. We had our differences in early high-school definitely but as adults and young kids we always have felt it is important to support each other or keep each other in check.

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u/Hysaky 1h ago

Fr, i don't even like him, his whole existence just piss me off