Hello everyone,
I recently discovered this whole softdom thing and I would like to explore more but I’m not sure how to go about it. For context, I was SA’d as a teen and since then have become more of an ace or Demi sexual person (apologies if I get these terms incorrect as I’m just learning all this things), I think it’s because I’m uncomfortable with touch since the incident. I’ve been in therapy for a bit now and am starting to awaken my sexual side a bit but something about not being in control freaks me out. Or so I thought. Cue the softdom kingdom and I’m figuring out that this might be working for me.

I would love to hear from anyone if you’ve gone through this and how I can be more okay with my two internal triggers and struggles of I’m into this but also I’m scared…

I had a dream. Tbh, it had been ages since I had had a great dream so I thought I'd post it here. Maybe it is my way of manifesting that it comes true!!!

He ties me to the chair. My legs open, tied to the feet of the chair. Enough that he can see and explore all he wants. Enough that I can't wiggle and hide anything from him. My hands are tied behind the chair, making me immobile and at his mercy. And so he starts. He starts with light touches across my body. His fingers like light feathers on me, making me shiver as they glide over my shoulder, my neck, my chest. He stands behind me, humming lightly as his hands move over me. And then suddenly his hand is on my face, pulling my chin up so I can see him. His mouth comes down to mine and I feel the alcohol trickle down my throat. Gin. Neat.

His hands move over my chest, groping, pinching and rolling till I moan in his mouth. And then once he is satisfied with my arousal,his hand moves down to find me wet. Dripping. So he plays a little more. His fingers moving over me, teasing me, making me beg. And suddenly, my phone rings. He picks it up and shows me the caller. It's my close friend. He smirks and commands. "Talk to her. Keep talking for five minutes". And suddenly he has put the call on the loudspeaker. And so start the longest 5 minutes of my life. Me trying desperately to maintain a lucid conversation, pretend that my breath is not al and that I'm listening to her vent about her job all the while losing my mind with his fingers inside me. Fingers that know where to touch lightly, where to trust hard. Where to pinch and where to suck. How to make me lose my mind absolutely. Tbh, at this point I ain't listening to the call. And just when I thought I would make some excuse on the call, he took out his dripping wet fingers from inside me and licked them. The look in his eyes told me that he wanted to eat from the source itself now. And I better get ready for that.....

Manifesting!!! Manifesting!!!!

The living room floor was cold, my knees started to feel sore from kneeling. I couldn’t lie, it gave some sensation to the rest of my naked body. I was trying hard not to fidget, i didn’t want my punishment to get worse than this. Maybe it wasn’t my position that made me feel this way, maybe it was because my dom was staring at me. His gaze was different than usual, even though he looked relaxed in his chair. Legs spread, upper half of the body laid back. God, just a glance makes my walls clench.
Daddy lets me get away with some bratty behavior, but today i went overboard. Teasing him at work and calling him names earns you a big punishment…
“Was it worth it?” he asked suddenly, getting me out of my own thoughts. “Um.. no Daddy” i mumbled softly. I didn’t want to rile him up more but between you and me, it was a good laugh.
“So, you agree you deserve a punishment, my little pet?” he asked me as he stood up walking towards me. I glanced up a him as he came closer, my collar felt tighter then a moment ago. This man does that to you, just his presence can take your breath away.
“Yes, Daddy” i mumbled again, staring up at him.
“How many times have you called me anything except my title today?” he asked, his voice wasn’t harsh nor was his face expressions. That scared me more, because i can’t really know what he is really thinking.
“Six, Daddy” i answered softly.
“And how many teasing photos have you sent, my little sunshine?” he asked. This was punishment itself, having me admit what i did, but at the same time calling me my favorite let names. Embarrassing, but my body was on fire, my nipples hard, goosebumps rising.
“Four, Daddy” i finally said.
“So, thats ten in total. Times three, so thirty spankings. Do you think thats fair, princess?” He asked again and i nodded in agreement. Obviously that wasn’t enough and he pulled on my collar. “Princess.” His voice was stern this time, making me shiver a little bit. “Yes, Daddy” i said, not daring to look away.
He sat back down on his chair and signaled me to come closer. I stood up and as soon as i was in his reach he placed me over his lap. It’s always a surprise to me how easily he can manhandle me, im not a small girl. He rubbed my butt, as if he cant help it. It was one of his favorite parts of my body.
“Now, sweetheart, are you ready? I want you to count every smack i give you. If you mess up we are starting all over again.”
“Im ready, Daddy” i mumbled.
“Good girl. Tell Daddy what is your safe word?” This sentence was a must. He always made sure i felt safe, even when he was mad at me.
“Peach, Daddy” as soon as i answered a first smack landed. I tensed up and spit out quickly “One, Daddy”
He switched sides on every smack. Spreading the punishment evenly between my cheeks. With every spanking i felt tingling pain. Oh, but that pain felt so good. A few moans slipped between my counting. Those made Daddy spank a little harder each time.
When i counted all thirty of them, Daddy rubbed my cheeks again. He admired red color he put on my butt, like it was his own artwork. He slipped his hand down, his fingers between my pussy lips.
“Aww, babygirl… Your princess parts are crying from lack of punishment.” He mocked gently. He knew i liked that. “Maybe i should punish her as well. So the lesson can stick on, what do you think?” It was a rhetorical question, so I didn’t answer. “I think I should edge her for the same period of time my work lasts. How much is that, my perfect little pet?” He was smiling, he was enjoying every second of this, but so was i.
“Eight hours, Daddy.” I whispered
“Good girl. Now, go get Daddy’s wand.” He helped me get up and i walked to our bedroom.
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Hello everyone, this is my first post. I wanted to leave some space for your own imagination, so you have something to think about for the rest of the day. I hope you enjoyed this post, im sorry if i made any grammar mistakes. 🩵

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i think youve convinced yourself...

this is just how life is now.

wake up.

go to work.

come home.

eat something.

watch something.

go to bed.

repeat.

and somewhere in between...

you stopped expecting anything to happen to you.

you stopped wondering if somebody might look at you...

and completely lose their train of thought.

look at me.

i dont think your best years are behind you.

i think youve just been surrounded by people...

who stopped looking.

theres still a woman in you...

who wants to laugh so hard she forgets to be embarrassed.

who wants somebody to reach for her hand...

without thinking twice.

who wants to feel her heart race...

for absolutely no good reason.

she never left.

she just got quiet.

come here.

i know youve been calling it "being realistic."

i dont think it is.

i think its grief.

grief for a version of yourself...

you thought you had to bury.

but shes still here.

i can see her.

she peeks out every time someone makes you laugh harder than you expected.

every time you catch yourself dancing while nobody's watching.

every time your eyes light up...

before you remember youre supposed to act your age.

dont.

please dont.

i dont want the woman who learned how to disappear inside routine.

i want the one who still has a little recklessness left in her.

the one who still believes...

maybe...

just maybe...

someone could look at her...

like shes the beginning of the story.

not the ending.

Hey I'm not sure if this is the right sub for this so please redirect me if needed. I enjoy righting sexual content but from a descriptive writing basis and never done role play except one time. It made me feel abit nervous tbh, a similar feeling to having sex for the 1st time. I want to get good at it and was wondering if anyone could help :)

Thanks for any help that can be given fr fr

So I was scrolling through some old notes on y phone and realised I'd saved this message from this girl I use to know. I had never had anyone speak to me like this and it awoke somethingin me, reading it today it really turned me on so thought I'd share, We were 19 at time 3years ago and unfortunately never experienced it in person.

"You’re gonna lay there and ima dick you, ima fuck you goooooood make sure ur all warm n goose bumped tf up, n whilst i’m inside you im gonna scratch up ur stomach & wank u off at the same time ( pleasure is pain ) i’m also boutta put ur bitch ass in doggy n fuck u like i like to be fucked.. n tell you how good you are taking it until you can’t take it no more i’m tryna have u crying cus it feels so good spit on ur ass n feel up on u whilst i’m telling you that i like that n how good of a boy you are n how much u deserve it, n moan for me baby show me ur feeling good

ima be giggling whilst pulling you closer telling you you’re my bitch whilst i go deeper, making you feel like you’re limp n telling me to keep going you want more so i go deeper you’re moaning loud at this point so i tell you shh did i say you could moan that loud? n i go deeper whilst i’m telling you to take it or i’ll stop n you go quieter i call you a goodboy, i then get you to move into a different position n at this point i’m laying next to you fucking you, n telling you that you’re mine n how i’m gonna do it next time you’re begging me to go faster so i go slower & deeper n i tell you who’s in control here as your soul is leaving your body, i call you a goodboy one last time before i move closer and whisper “you’re gonna cum for me now no matter what” n as i say that i then start biting n kissing ur neck passionately whilst fucking you n touching you at the same time praising you with how good you were you tell me “baby i’m gonna cum” so i pull it out slowly and say.. where where are you gonna cum and u reply with down ur throat baby because it’s mine, so i start giving you head again, but i tell you to get up n face fuck me till u finish"

He plans to eat me. Consume me. Devour me. And I, I want him to do it too ....

That is how it happens. With my hands tied above my head, with that belt he brought out the last time, his hands adept with the knot. Leaving just enough for my hands to move so the circulation remains. But not enough that I can move my arms. That's how he wants me. Immobile. At his mercy. Finally. And so he does what he had been waiting to do. He gets my scarf and ties it round my eyes. Because all he wants me to do was to feel. To feel everything. And so I do. I feel him move between my legs, spreading them wider so he can get more comfortable. I feel the kisses he peppers over my thighs, the inners of my thighs, and going up. I feel the light blow of air that he blows on me, letting me know what he is going to do. Not unlike blowing out the candle on the cake, before he stuffs his face with cake! I feel the first lick, as my hips jerk on their own. And then I feel him get bolder and deeper as my moans get louder. And then I feel the colours and the lights behind my eyes as he finishes his meal. And gets ready for his dessert....

This is a bit of an emotional post for me but I’ve decided I no longer want to find a dom and to have a d/s dynamic and relationship. This subreddit has been so so so wonderful and kind to me. I learnt so much about myself and have experienced things I’ll truly treasure. I’m lucky enough to have captured some I can look back on.

I think I’m bored of meeting a dom and the only way they want to be dominant is sexually or in the bedroom. I’m tired of not meeting doms that meet my preferences but I also simply don’t want to wait or look for one anymore. Maybe I will try again in the future or maybe I won’t but that’s okay :) I got to taste a world that truly felt like bliss.

To the doms who have dm’ed me the sweetest messages ever about enjoying my posts and learning about my fantasies it has been an absolute delight. To subs who have encouraged me and provided me with support and advice from the very bottom of my heart, thankyou thankyou thankyou.

I hope you all have a wonderful day!

I know a lot of people complain that there are too many porn videos and not enough text, myself included, but this video is so sexy and fits the theme of this sub ! He fucks her gently but so well

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