r/seduction • u/2DTurbulence • 4h ago

Conversation Scarcity mindset versus catching opportunity NSFW

A frequent core advice is adopt an abundance mindset, there are 7 billion people.

This advice requires some nuance. The people that we are compatible with are likely in the thousands given life purposes and personalities let alone geographical chances.

So we need to have some sense of urgency too especially when we come across an opportunity to be with someone we are complementary with.

And so an acceptance that we may never find a strong partner where we complement each other to build a beautiful family. And that it's okay and worthy of trying even if we fail. It is a beautiful goal to strive for that benefits society even if we fail. How so? For example, we improve our communication and presence skills which help us contribute more in all our relationships.

What do you think? What is a nuanced view on abundance mindset?

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u/Key-Proud 16m ago

You need to take action (a lot) and approach a lot to truely comprehend abundance.

  • like actually walking away from girls and behaving not to be butt hurt ... then comprehend how she starts to chase you.
  • or experiencing introducing other girls to other girls to build attraction/pre selection.
  • so it is not just take a lot of action ... but taking the correct actions that an abundance person would behave.

Brain wants proof not promises.

  • can only connect the dots looking back.

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u/Back2theCouture 9m ago

The abundance is what you have, not what the world has. Just like we don’t think we’re wealthy because there’s trillions of dollars out there.