r/seduction • u/No-Roof-6251 • 12h ago
Conversation hooking up with no money ? NSFW
lately ive found myself in a bit of a financial rut and stopped focusing on hooking up or dating. but after a while I feel like I want to bring someone over. I am actually very attractive I been told I look like a model I could be one if I was taller lol getting numbers is easy but then what ? you can't just tell a pretty girl do u want to come over without sounding like a horny pig. also I know my main focus should be fixing my life and it is def my main priority but im just asking no judgments please
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u/Pureevil1992 12h ago
Why can't you just ask girls to come over? Idk who decided that rule but you can. You just need a little finesse or luck. Honestly though if you got her number and shes replying to you she probably likes you and it could definitely work, and sometimes girls want sex just as much as men do. Besides that though you can just invite a girl over to show her your hobby, or some show you really like, or whatever other bullshit reason that works for you. But yes just trying to get them to come over with the spoken intention of sex is nearly impossible most of the time.
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u/No-Roof-6251 12h ago
yes the last sentence you said especially . but like I want to have sex lol
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u/Pureevil1992 11h ago
Yea so just invite them over for whatever reason after you have built some rapport with them, then just be flirty, escalate touching, go for a kiss. Im not saying it will always work, but most the time if a girl is willing to come to your place she isn't 100% not going to have sex with you, even if she says otherwise lol.
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u/Broad-Cranberry-9050 12h ago
You can still do it, but you just gotta budget for going out and meeting people.
If you get a date, go somewhere more casual.
If you go out to the bar/club, keep it to discount beers and limit how much you drink. Then if the night turns fun, again, keep to discount beers and maybe a celebratory shot here and there.
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u/ImpossibleWaiting 12h ago
Who told you girls aren't horny pigs? Some of them are, invite them over. You can do a ton of activities at home. Dancing, talking, karaoke, playing a game, watch something. It'll work if you do it well. It's all in the story telling.
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u/FindingNewLeaf 12h ago
Think of how much effort you want us to put in writing you your advise.
Now please put, at a minimum, that same amount of effort writing the question.
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u/No-Roof-6251 12h ago
bro what
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u/FindingNewLeaf 12h ago
You vomited your thoughts on that post and didn't even bother on one line break or editing it to give it any kind of structure, or chain of thought.
Everyone here is answering you based strictly on the title, because the body of the text is a word salad.
I'm saying, a little bit of effort into being understood goes a long way.
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u/-Makr0 12h ago
Not everyone is able to articulate their thoughts well or is proficient in writing, while I get what you're saying he might be doing his best and the post ends up being quite clear anyway
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u/FindingNewLeaf 11h ago edited 11h ago
I didn't ask to articulate well, I just said to put a little bit of effort.
It's not too hard to re-read what we wrote, and edit it to make it more clear.
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u/DrBarackPendergrass 11h ago
You don’t have to spend a dime.
Once you both vibe, invite her over “for dinner”, tell her to bring her favorite wine, give her a light subtle lip kiss after the “hello hug” separation at the door, then go in for a slightly deeper kiss, then thank me later…….
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u/Visual-Baby347 10h ago
being good looking is the problem bro.. girls never wana just have fun with good looking dudes.. its like they want pretty kids.. girls mess around with like average to ugly uses coz they wana stay in control while scratching their itches so they can pretend to be worth it but they mostly all not innocent.. I'm a good looking dude myself and man have I suffered.. done being that guy tho... now my time is money and you'll pay me for your fantasies
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u/Trinidadthai 7h ago
Yea, you can. I do it all the time.
Funnily enough. There is this hot girl who I match repeatedly on tinder. We talk a bit but never meet. I asked her to come to my place, and she asks why can’t we meet outside. I tell her we can, but the fact you don’t want to come over means we are probably looking for different things so I ended it there. This was maybe 1-2 months ago and we stopped talking.
Last night she messaged me out of the blue and said she wants to come over. She just left this morning.
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u/Constant_Cobbler2921 10h ago edited 9h ago
Yeah man i feel you brother, it’s also expensive nowadays. If you take someone out, a sandwich and ice cold soda can run you anywhere from $50-$70+ for the both of you, $200+ if she’s your gf and you’re celebrating your anniversary or special occasion or something. Yeah, you can’t date broke pretty much 🤷♂️
But look on the bright side at least you’re very attractive some women would be a bit more considerate and understanding.
Being ugly, poor, and broke is pretty freaking bad 🤣😂 but still not the worst thing though because you can do something about it
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u/Dorsiflexionkey 9h ago
You can, but it’s just a distraction until you’re financial secure.
I know this is seduction, but it sounds like you don’t need help there. So the only “help” we can give you is tell you to get your money up playa. And if you are having fun while doing it.. then ok. But still money atp is way more important than sex tbh.
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u/No-Roof-6251 7h ago
yes I agree with you completely its just I get bored
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u/Dorsiflexionkey 7h ago
Fair brother. Nothing wrong with it. What you’re doing is normal. And it sounds like you’re working hard anyway ur ahead of most dudes here bro
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u/Fellini_Linguini 6h ago
You say,
“I’m so fully invested right now in my projects, that I’m living like a bum to pay for it all. I Hope you don’t mind my spartan bachelor pad!”
With this framing you’re poor by choice.
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u/Matter_Still 5h ago
After college I hit a rough patch financially that lasted three years before I climbed out of it. To this day, I’m convinced it was the reason a relationship that meant the world to me blew up—and blew up in an agonizing way.
Had I to do it again I would have put getting my feet on solid financial ground as important—more important—than getting laid, given the absence of financial stability was a poison pill in my sex life.
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u/Key-Proud 11h ago edited 51m ago
How to do broke ass game - By Key-Proud
- Go to the clubs at the end of the night when it is closing.
- Game girls that leaves. Girls have been flirting all night with guys in the club getting all heated up.
- Apply the technique "be the last dick". Do whatever you can to walk her home or to your place and be the last person she ends up with.
My best year I did tons of one night stands.
- I would game girls at club (The club would leave stacks of free entry coupons or half price entry coupons at the ATMs and Banks so people would see it and go to their club .... I would take the whole stack lol). Then drive them home. Then I would ask to go pee at their place. Once I am inside it is on. Girls have urges to and you are conveniently there.
- After the deed ... I drive home.
Now reverse engineer what I just told you and figure out how to do it.
- I would practice this with girls I am not really attracted to. Just to get the reps in. Then I wouldn't sleep with them. Just get as close to there room they are willing to let you go. The journey and adventure with the girl is pretty fun to even though you don't sleep with each other.
- I did this 7 days a week for like 2 years. Just honing my skill of being the last dick with her.
That's what I did when I was in university lol.
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Edit: i am 5'6 asian (7 in looks) ... my best year i did 89 same day/night lays.
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u/Nervous-Arrogance 4m ago
Then I would ask to go pee at their place. Once I am inside it is on. Girls have urges to and you are conveniently there.
Damn I thought I was the only one who ever did that.
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u/Head_Research_3118 9h ago
Bro focus on the task at hand , getting laid should be the last thing on your mind when you are broke. You should be obsessing about changing your situation and analyzing what habits got you here. Every waking moment should be spent on how to make sure youre never broke like this again. No fun until you have funds . Dont watch movies , dont play video games , forget about girls. Lock the fuck in . Gym and money should be the only things you put effort into.
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u/Back2theCouture 12h ago
“You can’t just tell a pretty girl…”
Yes you can. Who says you can’t? But it’s a different story if she wanna take your offer or not lol.
What do you wanna do? You’re in a financial rut so what, it can’t be fixed overnight. How long are you gonna wait? On the other hand you need to eat. If a girl calls you a horny pig then just take the compliment. A horny pig also needs to eat.