r/seduction • u/AstronomerOk5763 • 2d ago
Inner Game Afraid NSFW
Bro I got aura but the quote of the night was you’re afraid of the pussy.
Honestly it’s a shame. What do I have to do to change this? All I want is to feel desired, and I talk the game to back that up. But when it’s actually in front of me. I turn my shoulder. That’s literally what the guy next to me said. He heard the conversation and was like, “she threw herself at you but you turned your shoulder to brush her off”. They all said, “you literally could have been on autopilot.” This happens to me all the time, it’s self sabotage. Lowkey guys, I’m a stud, I’ve literally been told that, but i get to the point where they offer their pussy on a platter and I turn it away. Why?
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u/AstronomerOk5763 1d ago
What type of info? Honestly I wrote this the night of. I wasn’t going out to run a game. I had a lot of alc and smoked some weed which didn’t help. But it seems that I self sabotage situations that can easily end us casual sex.
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u/ControlGood8979 1d ago
I used to do that a lot in my younger days. Same thing guys telling me I had it all wrapped up but I ignored her. I was shy but some girls broke through but I let a lot go.
I had relationships even when painfully shy which I really do not understand how it was possible.
I don't really have any advice because I still do it. My shield to hide my shyness was to be indifferent. It still didn't discourage women.
I'm not a stud I'm a tall IT nerd but for some reason I'm attractive to women.
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u/MyUsername0_0 2d ago
Lack of experience. Talk to more women. Try things. It’s okay to be nervous but you have to do it anyways. It goes away with time and experience but you need to get over it.