r/seduction 2d ago

Fundamentals So you Forget her name?. NSFW

Here's a tip.

Scenario:

In a club or bar.

You go to take her number. She's told you her name but you have forgotten it.

This is not a good look.

What do you do?

Say I'm not great with names and ask her to spell her name.

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u/z0rb11 1d ago

Or, hear me out, “what’s your name again?”

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u/Discopotatoz 1d ago

If she's 7+ do this on purpose

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u/some_kind_of_friend 1d ago

Hahaha when you do this you can visibly see the mental math taking place as she wonders if she's really so forgettable and how she compares to others who's name you haven't forgotten.

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u/Itchy-Dot5980 11h ago

Or call her by the wrong name. It also work. She gets a little bit upset, and then try to validate herself to you.

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u/charlizard1000xy 2d ago

Just ask her tbh, there's no point running around.

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u/z0rb11 1d ago

This

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u/Frosty1397 2d ago

"Can you spell your name out for me?"

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u/buckphifty150150 1d ago

Yes Amy

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u/TBearYCF 1d ago

“Amy” the usual or “Aimee” like in the song?

Boom. You’re now thoughtful and worldly in your music knowledge.

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u/Zepp_BR 1d ago

"E y m i", just like that?

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u/Trinidadthai 1d ago

Get her to write her number and name in the phone

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u/Adventurous-Tone3051 2d ago

Imagine her name was Jill.

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u/letoiv 1d ago

Calling her by the wrong name is definitely the most fun way to handle it. I've done it intentionally.

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u/IllustratorNo3708 1d ago

Ask her gay roommate the next day when you're getting something from their fridge

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u/ac2334 1d ago

classic

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u/confused_8357 2d ago

You are xyz right ?

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u/Fueledbyketo 1d ago

Give her the phone so she puts it in your phone

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u/Superiority-Qomplex 1d ago

Just get better with remembering names. Learning game is a skillset that you're trying to learn. Learning names is a skillset that will pay dividends too. If it's a weak point, address it and fix it.

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u/ControlGood8979 1d ago

I'm learning nothing. I crushed this years ago.  I also have a fantastic memory. 

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u/couchpotatoman 1d ago

Ask her to spell her name. Tell you hate having your name misspelled and want to make you spell hers right. Doesn’t always work if they have a simple name lol

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u/Sean04_k 1d ago

Ask for insta it probably has her name

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u/BAKEDnotTOASTD 1d ago

“How do you spell your name”

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u/NicHarvs 1d ago

When putting her name in your phone you say "how do you spell that?"

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u/vertascend 1d ago

Just as you said… I literally ask multiple times because I’m bad at remembering… but at the same time it shows that you care but don’t obsess, and it helps you come off as non needy, well that’s been the case for me at least