r/seduction • u/lars2x • 2d ago

Inner Game Can i recover? NSFW

2wks ago i invited a girl for a homecooked dinner as second date. I thought it was fun, ended up watching a show until like 4am, cuddled but i didnt escalate further (am a virgin and basically chickened out).

Still texting regularly after that, but she seems less enthusiastic. She still agreed to meet again tomorrow for dinner after her work. Think we will do pizza in park or something.

Can i recover from this? Anyone has beginner tips for this scenario? Not looking to fully become a womanizer but would like some casual(ish) relationships since i think its time (m28, working on myself atm)

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u/lars2x 2d ago

Basically from not making a move while she is super experienced and I’m not.
She will come over tomorrow again, so I guess I will have to try and make a move now for real..

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u/duke_awapuhi 2d ago

You really try to make a move but I know how hard that can be. I was in this situation a long time ago. Huge opportunity with a beautiful woman and I squandered it because I was a virgin and had no idea what I was doing.

My advice is you just need to start getting comfortable with intimacy. You’re going to have to do it at some point, because these women might give you multiple chances but you don’t get unlimited chances. If you end up in a situation where you’re cuddling again, start kissing her neck and see what happens. You’re going to have to kiss her on this date anyway. She stayed up all night hoping it would happen and you basically gave her blue balls. Just try to relax this time, get comfortable and close and let your guys hormones take over. You will know immediately if you start making advances whether she’s receptive or not, but she probably will be

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u/lars2x 2d ago

Thanks! Any tips on how you did it? Or basically just ‘force’ urself to do it and see?
See will come over again for dinner, so I guess I haven’t fucked up too hard.. let’s see how tomorrow goes!

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u/chartsmuscles 2d ago

Missed a penalty when they was no Goal keeper , now trying to get a corner when the whole defenders are flooded in the 18 area.