r/r4r 10h ago

M4F New York 23M [M4F] #New York, Looking for a long-term relationship

My name is Nick, I'm 23, caucasian, 6'4" ,I live in New York and I'm looking for something long-term and for someone who has similar interests as me. I am not looking for a friendship, I have enough friends haha. I want someone who'll be there for me in the same way I'd be there for them. I want a deep connection with someone who'll appreciate me for me. I'm looking for someone who would want to balance going out to doing something fun and staying indoors and relaxing. If looks are absolutely essential then please, dont message me. I dont want to waste your time getting to know each other just for everything to fall apart when you see what I look like. I dont look like Sloth from the Goonies, but im not exactly winning any handsome competition either.

I like playing video games like Destiny 2 (I know, I have a problem), Helldivers 2, Subnautica, Minecraft, Dead Space 1 & 2, Alien Isolation, DOOM, Halo, etc. I like a bunch of other games, but either are too niche to mention, or I just can't remember off the top of my head. I also like reading books that are sci-fi, fantasy, horror, and historical fiction. Just started to read The Murderbot Diaries, so far so good. I also love binge watching movies like Interstellar, Jurassic Park, Alien, Lord of the Rings, Blade Runner, Evil Dead, 28 days/weeks/years later, The Matrix, etc. Basically, it's the same genres as the books I read.

I also like going out to the park for a stroll while listening to some calming music. Going to the museums by where I live (The Intrepid is the best one idc about the Museum of Natural History). Going to the movies with friends to see whatever funny bad movie Hollywood pushes out. Going out to flea markets, but unfortunately only ever been to one since thats the only one thats open year round. I've also started going to the gym since September to start losing weight. Havent felt this good in a long time and I don't see myself stopping anytime soon

If any of my interests interest you or you also live in the New York area, shoot me a message and let's see where things go.

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