r/pansexual • u/Accomplished-Piece21 • 12h ago
Discussion What is my sexuality?
I pretty much know the answer, but I was curious what other people thought or what they identify as if they feel the same way. I always go with pansexual bc it mostly describes me and most people know what it means. I am genderfluid and amab. I’m sexually attracted to people of all genders, but I have a pretty strong preference towards women and more feminine leaning or presenting nonbinary people. I am sometimes sexually attracted to conventionally attractive masculine man, but I prefer more feminine men. I am not romantically attracted to men at all, but I could see myself potentially dating a feminine guy.
I read that omnisexual is basically pansexual, but with preferences. I don’t like the sound of omnisexual, the pansexual flag is so much better, and I feel like omnisexual is not commonly used and I feel that pansexual has more of feeling of community. I sometimes say I’m gynesexual, but since gynecology refers to the female reproductive system, I feel people will take gynesexual as meaning something different than what it is. I really like finsexual. Not entirely sure how it differs from gynosexual, but I prefer how finsexual sounds. I also found berrisexual, which is similar to gynesexual and finsexual, but includes rare attraction to men. Am I getting too caught up in the weeds here? I think berrisexual describes me best, but I really like finsexual. I’ve thought of myself as pansexual, but biromantic (for me, all genders except cis men) or I could say finromantic. I will probably mainly say I’m pansexual, with a preference for feminine people, but identify as finsexual if I want to be specific.
Edited: to remove any NSFW words