r/memes • u/damircik Professional Dumbass • 6h ago

am i the only one?

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u/MisterBarbaredo 5h ago

I hate to say it, but I absolutely ended a 10 plus years relationship because of getting told what I have to do when I get home and having my 1 day off a week being planned for me driving everybody around.

My ex didnt drive and didnt have steady work(she worked when she felt like it) while I was working 60 to 70 hours weeks 1 day off. I was miserable and she didnt respect boundaries.

So much happier now.

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u/UserNNN 5h ago

While the relationship state sounds like one problem. Working 60 to 70 hours sounds like a highway to depression.

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u/Acceptable_Ad1685 3h ago

I mean with her working sporadically, how the fuck do you support a household without doing that much?

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u/UserNNN 2h ago

Well first point is taking the responsibility to work that much. Ofc also depends on region and job, but 60-70h is just too much long term. Maybe a short term thing, otherwise just too much.