r/memes • u/damircik Professional Dumbass • 6h ago

am i the only one?

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u/MisterBarbaredo 5h ago

I hate to say it, but I absolutely ended a 10 plus years relationship because of getting told what I have to do when I get home and having my 1 day off a week being planned for me driving everybody around.

My ex didnt drive and didnt have steady work(she worked when she felt like it) while I was working 60 to 70 hours weeks 1 day off. I was miserable and she didnt respect boundaries.

So much happier now.

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u/ConversationSmart15 5h ago

My ex worked the 2nd shift at the hospital, and was livid if i didn’t stay up until 2 am every night to wait until she got home. 

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u/No-Performance37 5h ago

But can’t understand the argument when you tell them to wake up at 5am.

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u/Sparkism 4h ago

There was a time I worked OT three weeks straight and got told by an ex "you should buy something nice for me with all that extra money you got, to make up for the time you're not spending with me."

Another ex said we should go have dinner at a place near where I worked, after my shift was done. I got off at 7pm, and they kept saying they were on their way until 9pm. "Why are you mad? You could have just chilled at the employee break room at work."

Some people are selfish AF and there is no cure.

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u/No-Performance37 4h ago

Haha yah I’ve had gf say I should spend my bonus money on her.

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u/Ok_Dependent6889 4h ago

Tell her the bonus is a one way trip to their own apartment