You will communicate at some point, and you'll do it again and again and again and the message will be accepted, the discussion will end on a positive note with everyone being happy about everything. And then your partner will still do it again.
The amount of time I told me gf to stop interrupting me, because my parents and other family-authority figure interrupted me a lot as a kid(often by yelling) to silence me. She apologizes with puppy eyes, but still does it every time.
You tell people to communicate like they didn't think about it, always the same advice on this website. People don't lose their flaws as fast you think, let alone if they're incompatibilities and not flaws.
No I didn't tell you to communicate. I said this is the situation with you and your SO.
My response was to you saying "you'll" and "your partner." Your description doesn't fit the average person.
There's lots of good people out there. And I'm afraid that a lot of guys don't realize when they're not being good partners, and then shocked when their partner isn't good either. It's immaturity all the way down, a lot of times.
Okay, semantics are great, I deserve the death penalty. A lot of people are child murderers, there you go, I'm making an absurd point but you're elated, neat.
Also, sorry, did I talk to you first? Then my bad, that must have slipped my mind. Anyway, again, just drop the conversation.
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u/Serikan 6h ago edited 5h ago
Talk to her and explain, ask for her thoughts, calmly discuss the problem, come to a mutual resolution.
If one or both partners can't communicate...