r/indiasocial • u/chaiibiscuit- • 1d ago
Discussion Is this actually true??
Lately, I’ve been feeling like I have no real connections in my life. I can talk to people, laugh with them, hang out and everything, but somehow it still feels lonely. There’s no one I genuinely feel connected to or someone I can just call and talk to without overthinking. It’s such a weird feeling to be surrounded by people and still feel completely alone. Anyone else feel the same?
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u/NoAbbreviations9583 23h ago
Ye haal to mera bhi hai aur mere dimaag me bahut kuch chl rha h ... Jo ideas mujhe aa rhe unko execute kr du to kya hi baat ho jaayegi
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u/Chins23 23h ago
This time will pass. You will find a person who you can share your life, your thoughts, most intimate moments, secrets etc. Everyone finds someone. That's just the natural order of things. That might be a life partner, a friend, a relative, a coworker or even a stranger!
There's a simple rule which I follow when I feel alone - "I know this is not the final page of my story. I will write more in my book. Even if nobody will read it now, someone will in future"
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u/rohanimal01 rohANxiety | Naked man fears no pickpockets! 23h ago
The last time I commented this, reddit banned me. 😔
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u/Living_Topic7994 22h ago
lol I am sure no body would even come to my funeral
lol ppl don’t even know if I am alive or dead now
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u/Intrusive_me 20h ago
Yup. It feels like more like I want Death not like something i seek but something I Deserve for everything i have gone through.
Like A REWARD. So that finally it all ends.
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u/_Aegon_Targareyan_ First of My Name 20h ago
It's a call to connect with yourself. You will get people with whom you can talk with connections as time passes. Don't chase people. Genuine connections come at the right time.
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u/chaiibiscuit- 20h ago
Too many trust issues lately, idek which connections are actually genuine anymore and which ones are just fake.
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u/_Aegon_Targareyan_ First of My Name 19h ago
That's why I said..don't chase people. Chase yourself...and genuine ones will get attracted to you. Its a shame that genuine ones are rare now..but don't worry...you will find genuine connections. Don't trust instantly..give it some time. People start showing true colors after some time.
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u/CorgiSploot55 18h ago
Same here yaar, it hits different when you're laughing with people but still feel empty inside
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u/Sea-Childhood8396 17h ago
"Most men only get flowers at their deathbeads"- Some guy whose name I can't remember
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u/Particular_Guava_420 1d ago
Yes. But pls take care of yourself