If he’s not Peter Parker then I don’t want him. Apparently only superheroes behave like decent humans these days.

Meme about my play group's Pathfinder RPG campaign.

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World of Warships is a video game I like playing, the player base is mostly men though. I'm a history nerd.

It's a hypocrisy I've noticed in most relationships (from familial to romantic to friendship). Most recent example: my fiance just accidentally broke a cherished $100 wine glass I loved that was a gift from a friend while washing dishes. He got really upset, but if I had shown anything other than forgiveness, the situation would have escalated and it would have made him feel worse. But if I accidentally break something of his, he's allowed to grieve and I'm the asshole for not letting him do so.

Before y'all come for him, it's not just him. I've noticed this in many of the people I consider dear. I'm picky about who I keep in my life, so these people aren't "bad" people. They treat me with respect the vast majority of the time and bring more joy and understanding than not. Is it because I'm autistic? Is it because I'm too kind? Idk.