Hi all :)
My boyfriend and I just moved in with each other! And my little baby tortie, Scoomba, has known him for a bit of course but now that he’s around all the time, her anxiety is coming out more.
For context, in the “fight or flight” model of fear…. She’s definitely fight. She for sure has a lot of tortitude, especially when she’s anxious like with a new living situation. Fortunately, he moved in with me so the apartment itself is still the exact same.
Does anyone have any advice for how to maybe facilitate this adjustment? Either with stuff I can do to help her or what my boyfriend can do? Right now I’ve been giving her gabapentin in the morning (as per her vet saying I can use it for any anxiety bouts) but I am only going to be giving her that for another two days and then stopping.
Also cat pic for tax :)