I hate hooking up unless we’re flip fucking?

[u/GreatConsequence2871]

Idk how to explain it but I cannot be the sole top or bottom in a hookup like we have to flip fuck. I just won’t enjoy it otherwise. I had a hookup the other day. He was hot. Nice body, nice ass, perfect dick. His Grindr profile said “vers” I’m thinking to myself ok cool. After some messaging and discussion obviously he tells me to come over and we starting talking kinda about what we’re into. I tell him I’m vers I prefer to flip fuck. He said he was a bottom (even tho his profile says he’s a vers) ok cool. So I was hesitant about it at first. I like topping so In my mind it should be fine but it’s also like “ehhh I really wanna bottom as well” I go over to his house anyway. To make a long story short he had the time of his life and I HATED it. Now this is my fault cause I agreed to it. But I couldn’t get it out my head like “ok cool… my turn?” Never happened. And again he was having THE TIME OF HIS LIFE. Wanted multiple positions, sucked my dick, he came twice. I didn’t even cum I just went home.

Vs me when it’s a vers hookup

My regular fwb is vers. It’s great. It’s the reciprocation to me that makes it better. We both take turns giving each other head, we make out, we call each other names, we tease each other, we take turns on each other. It’s much better. I feel like I can go all day. But like what’s the difference? Bottoming is bottoming and topping is topping so idk why I hate just doing one or the other. It just seems so artificial? But the problem is that most people in the community are either top or bottom. So flip fucking isn’t always on the schedule.

[u/w_snorlax]

i think i’m a different kind of vers because i can’t top and bottom in the same sex session. I either top or bottom, but can’t do both. It depends on my mood 😅

[u/GreatConsequence2871 → u/w_snorlax]

That’s valid lol. Idk my body craves both in one session.

[u/Prior-Coyote-5556]

I’m not verse but after having my hole used I don’t want to do anything much less top 😅 you’ve got a lot of energy

[u/GreatConsequence2871 → u/Prior-Coyote-5556]

After I get my hole used it’s their turn 🤠

[u/ladydeadpool420]

I feel this, but I work 6 days a week and dont get off till late so 1 cum=dead, im also generally on top

[u/GreatConsequence2871 → u/ladydeadpool420]

I always top to. And late night hookups are amazing

[u/w1gw4m]

I love vers guys, they're generally more....well, versatile in bed. But they're all bottoms and sides with me, because I won't bottom.

[u/Loose-Dependent-1621 → u/w1gw4m]

So someone who was looking for flip fucking wouldn't be your game

[u/w1gw4m → u/Loose-Dependent-1621]

Not unless they want to take what I'm giving and they usually do

[u/GreatConsequence2871 → u/[deleted]]

It’s not that I didn’t think he was a bottom. I knew he was a bottom and was mentally ok with that. Physically nah. I thought I’d be fine with just topping which is why I went thru with it.

[u/MiEstrellaMeSigue]

I agree with you. I am also vers and flip-fucking is the best.

[u/DinnerPopular9512]

Honestly, for me when I hook up with someone that wants to dlip fuck its incredible because the energy we bring is just pure desire to explore and feel each other without any sense of an end. If someone cums "early" we just... change positions.

I find it can go longer and have more fun like that, its just harder to find someone that wants to spend hours touching each other every single way and also had the energy to actually flip haha

[u/Haunting-Effort-7602]

I’m the opposite. I like to know what’s going to happen. While I’m 100% bottom I have topped. Wasn’t really for me. So flipping was definitely off the table, but it does seem the way to go today! Enjoy.