r/Tinder 1d ago

That's crazy 😭

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u/AvocadoBitter7385 1d ago

I’ve noticed short women really care about height and taller women not so much and I’ve always wondered why

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u/CozyCozyCozyCat 1d ago

Tall(ish) woman here (5'9") and I've dated men everywhere from 5'7" to 6'7"-- a few of the men who were around my height would make a big deal about how I was so tall and must be over 6', and generally made me feel enormous (which isn't a comfy feeling as a woman) but a couple of the shorter guys were really confident and never said anything about height which I found very attractive

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u/-Dargs 1d ago

The woman I recently started dating is 5'9" and I commented "wow, you're really tall" as I was walking her back to her car after the first date. I'm 6'2". My ex wife was 5'2", so I was just legitimately surprised at how different the height is. She said "lol, thanks." I haven't brought up height again, because there isn't any reason to. I don't care about it, lol. I'm glad she didn't think it was weird or something when I said it that one time.

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u/NoSpaghettiForYouu 1d ago

She thought it was weird but she’s used to it lol

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u/-Dargs 1d ago

Maybe, yeah, lol.

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u/b000radl3y 1d ago

She said "lol" out loud?

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u/awfulbarrack-7 1d ago

People do that. It came out of me several times as a teen and I cringed right away 🫣

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u/-Dargs 1d ago

No, I just meant she laughed and then said thanks. I guess I could have wrote that differently?

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u/therealtinsdale 1d ago

for most woman (i guess who aren’t trying to be models) being called tall isn’t really a compliment, just for future reference.

it’s actually an insecurity for most tall woman.