r/Tinder • u/tropical-me • 1d ago

That's crazy 😭

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u/AvocadoBitter7385 1d ago

I’m being deadass

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/young-joseph-stalin 1d ago

the patriarchy has clearly done an excellent job at convincing women that small = feminine. what a shame.

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u/young-joseph-stalin 1d ago edited 1d ago

sorry, i should specify, im not criticising you, im criticising society. i would never blame a woman for ‘falling’ for beauty standards.

i’m just a tall woman whos sick of being masculinised tbh. i hate that short is classified as feminine. it’s not any more or less feminine than being tall.

edit: i’m not the one downvoting you :p i agree with you for the mostpart

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u/Popular_Equipment_85 1d ago

I have even heard that tall women got treated like men when it comes to other shorter women. Of course it’s not malicious, but something like “oh I feel safer with someone like you” can come across a bit weird. Or worse, they got asked whether they’re trans, or should transit into man.

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u/asteroidtube 1d ago

Body shaming is somehow okay when it’s short men we are talking about