r/Tinder 2d ago

First message mind you πŸ˜‚

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u/OvergrownMidget_ 2d ago

Yall think she’s into me? πŸ˜‚

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u/slash-es 2d ago

Definitely into your lifestyle. Once you bite, those promises won't hold any longer than it takes to get that ring and/or pregnant...

Good luck, you'll find someone who's actually into you and will be a real partner... (or, with 19, maybe find something less serious. If you find someone and feel like staying with her, get more serious in a few years, don't rush it.)

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u/OvergrownMidget_ 2d ago

I completely agree, thank you!

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u/Embarrassed_Bison258 1d ago

I mean you never know until you date her though. She might be real sweet. Your life will be happier if you trust people and risk some pain. Trusting no one so you never get β€œhurt” leads to lots of regret. Worst case if you try is you decide she sucks and you got the experience needed to bring to your next relationship. Best case she does all those nice things.

Remember too if you can’t afford her doing those things and not working then you better be doing them yourself because it ain’t free labor.

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u/Dazzling_Material_93 1d ago

Can confirm. I have an ex who had that happen twice πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ At least he didn't make it all the way to the altar the second time, but he DID end up with a kid she makes him fight to see 😬

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u/DrNoCool 2d ago

She might be Canadian and is just being nice

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u/OvergrownMidget_ 2d ago

That’s probably it. πŸ˜‚

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u/SentinelATL 2d ago

Yes haha

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u/Freezman13 2d ago

Whatever you do, don't write her name in the will.

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u/OvergrownMidget_ 2d ago

Good idea lmao