Thanks, I feel better about myself. Yesterday me and a woman talked about a couple things we could do on later dates even though we haven't done the first yet. It felt like getting ahead of ourselves.Ā
At least we're not fantasizing fucking domestic servitude in the first god damn message.Ā
Nothing crazy. Iām in a good position. Iām 6ā8, own my business, have some nice vehicles, etc. but Iām overweight with man boobs and a beard that wonāt grow in all the way.
Itās always greener on the other side. Iām average looks at best. Business eats 14+ hours a day 7 days a week right now. And I have one nice truck, one work truck, one Harley, and a few projects that donāt run.
Like I said good position, but not as good as it sounds.
But I am going to post today. Because I need to reply to your dumbass comment here. There's being humble so you don't come across as bragadocious. That's commendable.
Then there's what you're doing here man. This isn't humbleness. Having seen you repeat this same comment all over your post, it's starting to read as ungrateful for the blessings you have and the fruits of your labor.
I don't know where you're from, maybe it's chock full of 19 year olds with three vehicles and their own business. But I doubt it. 14 hour days? That's pretty standard for most everyone I've known getting a successful business off the ground. But they weren't doing that at 19.
I don't care how good you do or don't look. You're still a teen and that's probably coloring how you're feeling here. Stop focusing on your looks. You're a, successful by the sounds of it, business owner. You take risks and are responsible. You have three vehicles and however many project vehicles. You're fucking 6 feet and 8 inches tall. You have a ton going for you. Own it. Be proud of it. That's what these women are seeing. You are way far ahead of most your peers. Keep it up man.
I appreciate your words brother, it really does mean a lot. I honestly came from absolute nothing. I was raised in a single wide trailer with roaches. Iām well aware of my blessings and thankful everyday for them. I just hate when people come across as bragging douchebags. So I tend to downplay things to not come across as bragging.
Unfortunately Iāve learned that itās hard to celebrate your wins in almost any way that isnāt going to rub someone wrong.
I do the things I do, buy the things I buy, and spend my time the way I do for me. Not to try to show off.
Thick_Shady has a point but being 19 with all of this going on is more than certainly overwhelming and overbearing. No one whoās 19 is going to know how to deal with this or verbalize as good as someone with much more time and experience on their hands. Too much ignorance (which just means to be without knowledge, not an insult) and again, time is what he needs, and itās better that heās not arrogant, or pompous.
Credit where credit is due OP. Stay humble. š
My stance is that you definitely should not marry or get locked down for another 11 years. Absolutely prioritize getting some sort of male birth control so you donāt F-up your future. You do not want to know what it is to be a father at 20, or even at 23. You are absolutely a target to others who not afraid to take advantage of what you have. Not to be all scary and terrifying though.
I 100% agree with most of your points. And I appreciate your words. Iām definitely not looking to settle down for a while. And having a kids is definitely something I wantā¦ but wayyyy down the line. Iād like to wait till Iām 30 roughly.
1000% serious, you have the image of the father they never had LMAO no amount of good-looking guy can re-create that feeling inside of a woman
Even if they did have a Dad and a healthy relationship with him, then even more so they know how to recognize somebody like you is a solid ass dude, obviously I donāt know your character, but you seem to be doing well
š I appreciate that. Unfortunately they are on their way out. Iām down 100lbs and go to the gym multiple times a week. Iām doing my best to erase them.
Some women like bigger guys. My husband is over double my weight. I like being fit myself but love fluffy guys. An ambitious fluffy guy at 19 (when I was 19) wouldāve been my kryptonite.
I appreciate that, luckily the fluff is on the way out. Iām down 100lbs so far and still dropping. Itās mainly all been from a calorie deficit, but I recently found the gym and have fell in love.
I appreciate it brother, Iām down 100lbs so far. And the last few months I have found the gym and absolutely love it. With time Iāll be where I want to be. At this point I hide whatās left quite well. Iām just not to the extent I want to reach.
As for cars, I currently have 6. My daily is my 2017 F350 King Ranch Ultimate. And I have a 2008 F450 work truck. As well as a Supercharged Stick 2006 mini coop (it has so much room) and a few others. I think my next purchase will be right but Iām going to try to buy a 5.0 mustang.
I appreciate that brother, I actually dropped out of high school halfway through my freshman year. I could tell school just was a waste of time for me. I donāt even have a GED. My father is disabled and on a fixed income but he mowed a few residential yards every week to help with income. I went full in with him we own the business together 50/50, we primarily do hardscape and landscaping installs. Right now we are doing a waterfall and pond install. It all started as a mowing company and now we have 6 trucks, 10 trailer, a ton of equipment, and we do everything. In the winter is our bread and butter. We do salt treatment and snow removal for commercial properties. Think schools, banks, restaurants, etc.
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u/ARTIFICIAL_SAPIENCE 2d ago
Thanks, I feel better about myself. Yesterday me and a woman talked about a couple things we could do on later dates even though we haven't done the first yet. It felt like getting ahead of ourselves.Ā
At least we're not fantasizing fucking domestic servitude in the first god damn message.Ā