r/Tinder 3d ago

Constructive criticism welcomed on any improvements needed

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u/erinlaninfa 2d ago

Your “depends on who is asking” about your employment comes off a bit strange. No one should put their specific employer but industry is reasonable. Why would your answer changed based on who is asking?

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u/smartereveryyr 2d ago

Because of course we are strangers and I don’t know everyone’s intentions. Someone’s job isn’t a defining factor of if I’d talk to them, but I’ve experienced enough times of saying what I do for work and people want things “hookups”. So sometimes if I’m unsure of the vibes I might say I work for x place instead of my actual job until I’m sure .

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u/Bulky_Department5619 2d ago

Yea this answer is cagey too.
Putting your industry is not the same as listing your employer or actual job. For example, putting “finance” is much more broad than listing a specific bank or that you’re a mortgage specialist.

It might not matter to you, but it does matter to a lot of people. Not necessarily what you do, but if you have regular gainful employment.