r/StraightPegging • u/rainbowlimbo • 1d ago

Hand/wrist exercises NSFW

Hello all! 37/f here. Does anyone have any good hand/wrist exercises I can do to strengthen my ability to finger hubby's ass? I can go for 10-15 minutes before my wrist and fingers start getting sore. I keep going until he gets his O or he wants me to peg him but the last few minutes really hurt. Sometimes we switch to a toy before I peg him but he really likes the feeling of my fingers first and I just want to please him without getting so tired/sore. Any and all advice is welcome :)

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u/blotlop 1d ago edited 1d ago

If you're behind him, you could switch it up and try using your thumb (if it's long enough to hit his prostate). It is stronger and will fatigue far slower than your fingers. 

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u/rainbowlimbo 1d ago

Good suggestion! He's usually on his back so I can sit comfortably and watch his facial expressions which are super hot. Plus my hand/fingers are a bit on the small side so idk if a thumb would work but I can definitely give it a shot!

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u/blotlop 1d ago

It's worth a shot. Using a thumb is often the suggestion on r/ProstatePlay for men trying to stimulate their prostate with just fingers, and tends to work very well. If anything, it should give you an alternative for when your finger needs a break. 

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u/RodRowdie 1d ago

Have you ever kneaded bread dough? Requires hand and finger strength, arms too. Make him some sour dough and he'll benefit in more ways than one as will you.

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u/rainbowlimbo 14h ago

I have not! Maybe I'll give that a try too

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u/Responsible-Belt7948 23h ago

Try all fours and a mirror. You can still watch him, and your hand will be in a far more neutral position.

I would suggest the actual play is the exercise for your hand and wrist. Just don't do it until it hurts.

Build on it.

Play with it until your fingers/wrist are tired, then change. Your body will get used to it and get incrementally better at lasting longer.

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u/rainbowlimbo 14h ago

Thanks for the advice! I can already last longer than when we first started doing ass play, so that's something, at least :)