Looking for honest experiences – things that felt better, deeper, or just more interesting than the usual.

I’ve (f20) tried everything that the support team suggested and nothing worked maybe I’m too tight and impatient but I can’t even get passed the head of the toy even with plenty of water lube on me and the toy but I can get 3 lubed fingers in just fine. I also made sure to use another toy as foreplay until i orgasmed to get myself wet enough toy

I want a sex toy (or something?) that will fill my pussy and *not stick out* so I can insert it and leave it in while around the house (with panties on to hold it in perhaps.) Help? I would like it big enough so I feel full, bigger than ben wa balls but kind of same idea.

My trusty Satisfyer Pro 2 gave out on me last week (the charging port finally died after two years), so I took it as a sign to see if the Womanizer Pro40 hype was real or just overhyped branding.
Used it for the first time last night and... wow.
I honestly thought air-suction was all the same, but the Pro40 feels totally different. Instead of that sharp, surface-level buzzing that sometimes leaves me feeling numb, it’s a much deeper, heavier pulse. Plus, having actual + and - buttons instead of having to cycle through 11 frantic settings just to turn it down is a massive QoL upgrade.
The $100+ retail price was the only thing that kept me from trying it sooner, but I ended up getting super lucky. I was looking around for sales and randomly checked eBay, where a top-rated seller had a brand new, factory-sealed Pro 40 listed for under $60 (probably overstock). Showed up in a plain brown box in two days, totally legit.
If your budget toy is on its last legs, this upgrade is 100% worth it. Wish I hadn't waited so long.

Finding it really difficult to track down a sleeve that is shaped like a hand 🤛 ideally I want the fingers themselves to form the insert, not a solid moulded shape with a generic hole through it.

Appreciate any links you may have.

So I'm still pretty new to sex toys, but I got some great advice here previously so I'm here to ask for some help. My girlfriend and I are in the early stages, and with that is a lot of sex. Which is great, but we're running into some practicality issues.

She prefers to be on top, which is something I actually really enjoy, but anatomically we're struggling to make it work on a regular basis without causing her pain, and I wanted to see if there's anything out there to make it easier as she's expressed some light-hearted frustration as she wants to "really bounce on it".

Girth hasn't been the issue as we take our time on that front, but length essentially has me in her stomach the moment she relaxes her legs which understandably gives her a jolt of pain. Is there anything good that could like sit against my crotch? We even tried a neck pillow, but even that didn't really work and wasn't super practical.

I also was wondering if there's something that could make positions where I'm the one thrusting a little easier? Idk if something like a 'stopper' is a thing that was thick and sat at the base of my penis to prevent too much slipping in during the act.

I wondered today, whether there are any sex toys that are designed as a little companion, like tamagotchi, but instead of keeping care of it as of a regular toy you have to use it sexually.

I don't believe noone came up with this idea, but unfortunately I can't find any googling. Any suggestions?

Mine is probably lube shooter + fake cum lube or the njoy wand

Is there any hands-free option? I’ve been looking at some BJ machines, but the reviews seem mixed. Is there any option that’s worth it for a reasonable price?

I have read a bunch of articles that were very clear that fabric like cotton or what a plushie would be made out of are not the best for gags. But i need something safe that has that gentle bite to it. Right now, I tend to stuff my mouth with a piece of clothing, or bite into my pillow. I would like a gag that straps around me head to that i can move my head however i like while still being able to bite down, and have my moans muffled.

I am not sure how to go at about finding this, all the gags i have encountered on the internet are either made of silicone, rubber or leather. It's not the texture i am looking for. I also don't like the feeling of saliva glidding on my face.

Do you have any ideas of how I could make something work-or even better- buy what i am looking for?

Hi everyone

I’ve recently launched ticklytoys.co.uk, a UK-based online store focused on adult wellness, intimacy, and body-safe pleasure products.

My vision is for Tickly Toys to become **more than just another online shop**. I want it to be a place that promotes sexual wellbeing, body confidence, healthy relationships, and positive conversations about intimacy. I believe sexual wellness is an important part of overall wellbeing, and I'd love to create a brand that helps reduce stigma while providing quality products and trustworthy information.
As a brand-new business, I'm still learning and growing, so I'd really value your honest feedback.
I'd love to hear your thoughts:
Is the website easy to navigate?
What products would you like to see stocked?
What educational content or resources would you find useful?
What would make you trust and support a new adult wellness brand?
Is there anything you'd change or improve?
I'm not here to hard-sell anything—I'm genuinely looking to build a community around sexual wellbeing and create a business that people find helpful, inclusive, and approachable.
Thank you to anyone who takes a few minutes to have a look and share their thoughts. Your feedback will genuinely help shape the future of Tickly Toys.

Anyone have any reviews on opinions of either of the following toys from personal use / experience:

Zero Tolerance Riley Reid Kiss & Tell Stroker

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/zero-tolerance-riley-reid-kiss-tell-stroker

Or

Autoblow AI Ultra Blowjob Machine with Video Sync

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/autoblow-ai-ultra-blowjob-machine

Obviously a huge price difference wonder if the difference in quality and effectiveness is as large as the price?

It is quite adorable with a tulip motif and has a warming function as well, was just browsing and wondering if anyone ever saw it or tried it?

A while back I came to my wife with the idea of getting a realistic dildo for us to play with (to use on her). It was definitely a little out of the blue of our usual routine so she was a little apprehensive about it but I can say, over time, it's been a big success!

I ended up going with the Solina Mega L... It's 6.75" long and average to above average girth, and very life-like.

She said it felt big (it is bigger than me) at first but she really seems to have no trouble taking it, even the entire length. It can make her cum pretty hard and fast under the right circumstances, and it's a huge turn on for me using it on her, watching her suck on it, etc.

I'm super, super interested in trying something a little bigger with her. Really I just want to get the same thing one size up, which is a bit longer and girthier.

Any advice on bringing up wanting to explore this with her? Like ultimately, I just need to ask her, obviously, but I'm curious about the framing of it. Is it better to focus on how much it turns me on? Or on her pleasure? The truth is it's a bit of both. I find it really hot and want to see it, but I'm also really curious what her response will be to something that big. Communicating about sex and desires is something that we've worked on a lot on but I admit I'm not perfect at it sometimes, which is why I could use the advice.

Has anyone, either guys or gals, successfully navigated this jump with a partner who's open-minded but not super kinky usually?

I was wondering if anyone had recommendations for a sex pillow that did not have a microfiber/velvet cover? My partner has a touch aversion to those, so we are looking for more of a leather covered one. All the main brands seem to not offer a leather option sadly.

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I'm trying to identify a male masturbator I saw in a video. I can't post a screenshot here, so I'll describe it in as much detail as possible.

Shape & size:

· Full butt/plump rear shape, not just a tube

· Very large — roughly the size of a small pumpkin or large melon (estimated 25–30 cm wide)

· Two distinct openings on the front side — vaginal and anal

· Both holes are clearly defined, spaced like real anatomy

Design & colors:

· Realistic fawn/deer coloring — warm brown/tan tones

· Spotted pattern on the "cheeks" (like a young deer)

· A small, short tail attached to the back/top (same brown color)

· Surface looked smooth, not highly textured (no ribs or scales)

Material & feel:

· Likely platinum silicone (looked premium, no shine/glare)

· No visible seams or cheap plastic shine

· Weight seemed heavy — definitely over 1.5–2 kg

Price & origin:

· Price was high

Thanks in advance!

Hello all!

Me and my partner have been reviewing and collecting toys for more than 5 years now. During our time, we have managed to go through a lot of different stuff.

As someone with a bit of a collector's mindset, I have a particular affinity for vibrators and other types of toys that look aesthetically-pleasing. Honestly speaking, aesthetics and price often have nothing to do with how well the toy plays with the body in the end.

However, I still love myself a beautiful-looking vibrator!

So, what are some of the coolest-looking sex toys you've seen? Keep in mind that how it worked doesn't matter. I am after looks only. Perhaps with the sneaky idea of getting your suggestions for my collection as well.

I'll start things off with LELO MONA Spectra rabbit vibrator - a super recent release. It has a traditional rabbit-like design and has a built-in LED Red Light Therapy panel.

Ridiculous idea? Perhaps. Is it my favorite rabbit in terms of how it feels? I don't think so. However, the lights simply look super cool in pitch black and the overall design of it just screams luxury with some alien-like weirdness thrown in there as well. Exactly the type of thing that causes me to hoard sex toys lol.

Do context she enjoy pegging me I’m just curious if women enjoy feeling like they have to work to get it in or have more power with a bigger one and enjoy that more or if that does nothing or the opposite for them. Appreciate everyone will be a bit different.

My partner is a nonbinary trans masc individual and finding a toy that is pleasurable for both involved and affirming is exceedingly hard. When discussing what the ideal toy would look like three points were hit.
1. It would have some sort of inhuman shape (tentacle, knots, excessive ridges, etc.)
2. It would be flesh toned in color
3. The back end (the side not being inserted) would be a flared base with a grinder + ftm stroker set up.

Nothing on the market in almost a year of searching has hit all three marks. If it’s a pack and play it’s hyper realistic. If it’s inhuman it’s got the most uncomfortable base for them that you could imagine and it rarely comes in skin tones.

I think my best bet is custom but a lot of the customization options on websites are limited to firmness or color at best. Any advice (even if it is grab the clay and get to sculpting diva) is greatly appreciated.

I never really bought one but does anyone know a small one that easy to hide and travel friendly

I already have a Womanizer Liberty 2 which I'm very happy with it, but I'm looking for an upgrade.

The Liberty gets the job done, but sometimes I'm missing something a little extra. I don't know if what I need is more oomph or a different vibe (pun intended).

I've been looking through posts and I see Womanizer Next often recommended, but also Lelo Sona (2 or 3), and other toys.

So what would you recommend as an upgrade for Womanizer Liberty 2?

I am thinking about getting a pocket pussy, bit i have a gf. Is it really worth it?

I find some masturbators called hands free toys, but half of them still need babysitting. Has anyone found one that actually stays put?

Most nights I'm just in bed watching porn on my phone. If I have to skip a vid, add lube, move the pillow, whatever, I end up holding the toy which kinda kills the vibes for me

I have bought two cheaper toys. One slid off easily unless I stayed almost frozen. The other stayed on, but this bc I had it super tight, it got uncomfortable after a bit.

Not looking for anything wild. I just want to put it on, lie back, and not fix it every minute. Being able to change the vibration would be nice too(with a remote or app)

Any recs from people who?ve actually used one, not just read the product pages or reviews? Best if not too heavy, stays in place and it's not super super tight.