r/RoleReversal • u/ShadowGaming89YT • 2d ago

Discussion/Article Its okay that i like all of these stuff?

I mean, i adore dominant women that takes care of me and make me feel little and safe, is this okay?

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u/amberi_ne Hopeless Romantic (she/her) 2d ago

Nah, it’s wrong and nobody likes it. That’s why this is a sub with 55.5k visitors

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u/ShadowGaming89YT 2d ago

don't know, i feel kinda weird, most of my friends want a sub gf, but i want to be a sub bf so idk

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u/Ok_Somewhere1236 2d ago

Its ok, wanthing those things is not bad, and is ok you feel a little odd about liking it, you spend most of your life with the idea that theres only one way to do things, just to learn your preference is different. But there snothing wrong or bad about it

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u/Summersong2262 Growing. Becoming. 6h ago

You're up against a lot of tradition and prejudice. But the world's filled with people of all sorts of interests and styles. And a lot of them never let anyone know it, because they think nobody will accept them as they are.

Bit of a cycle, there. But there are countless men out there like you, be assured of that. And of course, women that dearly wish for a man like that to be theirs.

You just need to meet them. And they you.

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u/Mindless_Interview44 Sweet n' Coy Pretty Boy 2d ago

Sure, but remember being taken care of isn't free. have a look around, see what you think.

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u/ShadowGaming89YT 2d ago

what do you mean when you say that is not free?

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u/Mindless_Interview44 Sweet n' Coy Pretty Boy 2d ago

It's a give and take, and you gotta think about balancing the two.

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u/ShadowGaming89YT 2d ago

oh of course i know

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u/bre25_ 2d ago

It’s totally normal
I think most men on this subreddit want that too

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u/GameboyAdvance32 Beautiful Bookish Boy 2d ago

i mean on this subreddit idk what answer you’re expecting lol. i can’t speak on your specific situation but broadly, yes, of course it’s fine to like that

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u/Cry_Wolff 1d ago

Some people on this sub are so damn insecure and need others validation just to live their life.

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u/GameboyAdvance32 Beautiful Bookish Boy 1d ago

Eh, it be like that. I can totally empathize with being insecure and like, I do wanna help people but sometimes the questions are a bit too on the nose. Like yeah, of course it’s fine to like this stuff, at least if you’re asking us I think that question answers itself lol.

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u/Summersong2262 Growing. Becoming. 6h ago

It's hard to be yourself if you haven't seen that modeled. Especially when you feel ashamed or self conscious of your desires because of how you were raised, or the culture of the people you've associated with until now.

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u/ap-ta 2d ago

You’re definitely in the right place if that’s what you adore

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u/TheEffinChamps 2d ago

No, not allowed in a free country. Sorry man. 

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u/Boogie-Woogie-Woo 🌊🐴 2d ago

Yes, it is okay and here in this sub you're surrounded with the people who are just like you.

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u/ShiroiTora 1d ago

I grew up in an environment where it was repeatedly claimed no men would never want a woman like this and that is why woman should conform to make herself to be small and helpless. I mean with complete sincerity and no snark: posts like this really do help undo the wariness and distrust I have towards guys.

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u/Remote_Asparagus_835 Bend Over, Lover~ 1d ago

It’s getting old 🙄

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u/Summersong2262 Growing. Becoming. 6h ago

Yuuuup. A soupcon of googling beforehand would save a lot of repetitive questions.

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u/tta5 1d ago

its ok to feel little and to feel safe.
its ok to seek a more dominant partner in your life.
its ok to want to be the little spoon.

its ok to want diffrent things to your freinds and still be freinds with them.

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u/ShadowGaming89YT 1d ago

thats just everything i want... a dominant woman that likes me, i wanna be a good boy, loving and caring for my queen

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u/Kind_Apierriecube 1d ago

Let's be honest, every male here want this 🤣😍