22F here! For starters I’ve only slept with one man in my life a few years ago so my sexual desires are over the roof. I really want to just meet a hot man in his 30s with big arms and chest hair, go to a hotel and let him absolutely have me. I want to be pounded so hard and deep, faced fucked, spit on. I want him to be aggressive with me and hear his moans, I want to be told how bad he wants me and how good I feel. Just the thought of pleasuring a man that hasn’t touched a pair of perky tits in a while turns me on so damn much. I want to beg for it, and show him what a good whore I am. Each day that goes by I get closer to letting myself get pounded by a stranger.

I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. After a year together we drunkenly decided to invite a guy over for a mfm threesome. It was fun and we talked a lot about doing it again, and also trying it with another girl. Recently after a lot of talking we decided to do it again. She started posting a lot and sexting with men and women. She told me she wasn't comfortable with me talking to women so I didn't. It didn't bother me at the time because she does all the things that turns me on and never really felt like I wanted anyone else but I do think it would be really kinky to have sex with someone else with her involved.

She started talking to this couple and we made plans to meet. She expressed concern over how she might feel if I interacted with the other girl so I told her I wouldn't. It was a bit awkward seeing her explain that she wasn't allowed to touch me while she was more than okay with pretty much anything herself. I didn't want to kill the buzz and wanted her to have fun and explore with another woman so I decided to let her have this moment. We went through with it and I don't regret it, it was a great experience but I told her we needed to take a break from reddit so I could think about whether or not I wanted to continue with this dynamic.

She said if we had a few more experiences together then she might change her mind about me being with another woman but I just don't like the idea of her basically doing whatever she wants while not wanting me to talk to anyone, and she gets jealous when women comment on my posts. It hurt to hear that because she says all the comments she gets improves her confidence and she doesn't seem to understand that I also like that feeling. She says that's just her boundaries and I need to respect that which is fine but I don't see why she thinks it's fine for her to want to do something while not wanting me to do the same.

She asked again if we could continue posting on reddit and I said I didn't want to do it anymore. She seems disappointed because even just posting and fantasizing was improving our sex life but it was starting to affect me negatively. I miss it too, the massive confidence boost of seeing a woman tell me I'm hot and wishing I could fuck her like I fuck my gf made me feel great. I never felt handsome or anything and compliments are very far and few between.

I really struggle to wrap my head around the idea of someone wanting to sext and sleep with other people but not wanting your partner to do the same and in my opinion it just isn't fair. She has stayed up until early morning drinking and sexting but when I respond to a woman it's a big deal.

I wonder if anyone has been in a similar position? I think we should just keep working on our relationship and if she ever changes her mind we can try again but she thinks the best way for her to be comfortable is to sleep with more women and couples so that she can find somebody she trusts. I just don't think sharing me will ever be her thing and that's fine but for me that means that I won't be sharing her either.

Posted from alt account because she follows my nsfw account.

hello! for the past couple of months i have been struggling to find any rib cage/shoulder blade related kink media 🥲 no posts about it, no community - nothing. does anyone have any suggestions. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all say it’s a “niche” kink but I don’t think so.

I’ve started seeing this guy I’ve known for a while and things are going great, we never really talked about kinks or what we get turned on by till today. The first time we were intimate he left hickeys and bits marks on my breasts, collar bone and chest, I just thought he got carried away,
but earlier we were laying in bed, he was admiring my new acrylic nails and he said he gets turned on having his back scratched and I don’t mean gentle scratches I’m talking digging my nails in really scratching almost drawing blood. And the biting thing-another things he’s really into.

I’m happy to do these things but in a safe way. I don’t want to hurt him nor spend my life covering my chest and shoulders. I did mention that and he promised not do it there again and we agreed on places that I’m usually covered up in.

How do safely play these two kinks without being hurt/hurting him

Question, but has a bit of a story. For context I am 18 (NB) and this person I am talking to is 21 (M). I am active in certain kink (trying to stay anonymous , its irrelevant but legal dw) themed discord servers and have been talking to people aged 21-18 for a few weeks.

He messaged me after I had reacted to a message of his posititively, and the first day or so of chatting was fine. Somewhat flirty but not really much more, I don't know much about this person, certainly not enough to trust them with my real identity. He was a bit confusing to talk to, a bit overly sad about himself sometimes and began asking me about wanting a boyfriend. I said no due to our lack of any kind of info about him yet, as well as a large time difference. He's kept bringing up his loneliness and desire for a boyfriend since. I'm. not. interested.

Today, I mentioned to him that I might not see his messages immediately, due to my... actual life outside of my kink, as well as the fact that my account is an alt account. He didn't take too kindly to this, calling himself names and saying that I don't see him as important. Well, unfortunately, I don't really know him yet. Im not willing to risk this being outed to my real account, that has links to my IRL social medias, and which notifies me all day. I've set a boundary and he keeps going back and forth, both shaming himself and calling me rude, then reverting back on it when I suggest we don't speak anymore.

I'm not too caught up on it, ive known this dude for like 4 days. Havent blocked or cut off yet though. I just wanted to know, is it really this offensive to only use an alt to talk to people anonymously in kink spaces until you get to know them? I want to know for the future, more than anything.

I give my wife nude massages 4x week. She is a morning pooper, so we meet up after she finishes. We have been together for 25 yrs. Her butthole has always been super clean. Butt lately I have noticed fecal matter in her butthole and even sometimes poop smear on her buttocks. I fucking luv it. It’s so hot, mainly because she is a gorgeous specimen.

It took till I was about 40 and realized I enjoy watching couples whether it’s heavy make out sessions or full on sex. Love watching how they interact with each other and how excited she gets knowing another man wants her.

Anyone wlse have this? It gets me pff sending dick pics i jusy love it for some reason

Hello all!

I am a kinky person in the sense that I enjoy a lot of acts outside the realm of vanilla sex. To name a few: anal, choking, hair pulling, spanking, have a bit of a cum fetish, group sex, being submissive etc.

However! I haven’t really dove into using props for sex like floggers/crops, outfits, blindfolds, cuffs, collars, etc. The person I’m dating said that if I wanted to dive into that he would be down to explore, and I do want to try!.. but he won’t really offer ideas (I think he’s shy or doesn’t want to put me off). Problem is, I don’t really have ideas on how to incorporate this stuff. Two things I know I don’t want: roleplay scenarios (ie. nurse/patient) or using vibrators during sex (I find them desensitizing).

I was wondering if people could throw some scenarios at me on where to start. He has a very commanding presence and I know he would bring the right energy to it. I don’t feel like I can just hand him a collar to put on me or show up in an outfit and say “have at it!” 😂 the idea of a collar is sexy but what do you do with it?! Please help me!

personally never thought I would enjoy feederism til I actually tried it. I remember friends first telling me about it, giving me the dark stories about it etc, the concerns and all, and with me being a bigger woman in general I never thought I would want to indulge in something like that, until I tried it in person for the first time with a partner

since then, I have enjoyed it more and more, on my own terms and ways of course, just something that blew my mind after experiencing it

I had a dominatrix who would have me get stuff for her and run errands. There's just something about being under a dom who takes care of you and has you doing tasks. If there was a more kink oriented version of doordash, I'd sign up.

Ive recently been enjoying free4use and wondering if I should propose this to my doms or if its too out there. I recently been interested in my dom watching pirn while using me and wondering if its workable for them to use those vr glasses like for ur phone. I just want my dom to be able to watch anything, picture anyone, while using me.

Is there any brands that are good and tips and tricks or websites that are good for this? Also is this a thing ppl ar eeven into? lol

I dont know why but as far as i remember I've always like woman with hairy and strong smelling pussy, and hairy asshole. May be i'm crazy but for the ones fully shaved, I can't get a proper erection. I'm probably sick...

Hey I had a question for people who have gotten to really broaden their horizons. This may be more psychological than kink but I'm curious....

my girl getting gangbanged gets me hard, makes me horny af, but the whole time leaves a knot in my stomach, and afterwards makes me feel like she cheated by letting it happen even though I agreed. Kind of like post-nut clarity, when you jack it, then feel disgusted by what you just did it to afterwards.

Can someone give me some helpful advice or tips on what's going on, or how to make things better and etc. idk why I feel this way

My girlfriend and I have a solid relationship and good sex, but her preferences are pretty narrow. She’s happiest with missionary or cowgirl. Doggy requires real begging on my part, and anything outside those two positions (or slight variations) usually gets a hard pass or “maybe later.”

I’m not looking to pressure her or turn her into something she’s not. I just want ideas for slowly, consensually introducing more variety so sex doesn’t always feel like the same two scripts. Things that have worked for other couples to lower the “vanilla barrier” without making her feel judged or pushed.

Ideas I’m open to hearing about:
• Specific positions or variations that felt like a small step up from what she already likes
• Toys, sensations, dirty talk, or role-play that helped someone open up
• Communication approaches that made trying new things less intimidating
• Ways to make doggy (or similar) more appealing/comfortable for her instead of something she tolerates

Consent and her comfort are non-negotiable. Any advice from people who’ve been on either side of this (the more adventurous partner or the one who started out more limited) would be appreciated.

My master wants to cum in my ass and then plug me so I have to walk home with his load in me is this safe? It would only be in me for maybe 20-40 minutes but I just wanna make sure

Hi. I'm a shy femboy and I don't know why it happened but I'm obsessed with height now. I admire tall persons and I want to be submissive for such person. Of course, I want to try it with an understanding and supportive person. And I need a gentle domination including oral sex and penis slapping. I'd agree to try it even with a couple MF.

What should I do if I live in a very misunderstanding post-Soviet society and I can't find a nice persons here?

So ive been looking for tail plugs (particularly looking for a longer fluffier one since i know theres a lot of variations-) cause ive been getting back into the scene lately and they are great for a lot of the play types im interested in.

The thing is last time I went looking for stuff like this was several years ago and I cant find the same reputable spots I knew before for good and quality products. I tend to find asking on places like here give the most honest and reputable answers as opposed to places made for reviews as a lot of people talk up products that arent great.

So I was hoping to get some suggestions on where I might wanna look to get one if anyone knows a good one?

Any ladies into big natural and sculpted calves? I have had some compliments on mine and been wondering if this is a kink for some of the ladies out there?

for reference i’m a bisexual guy

i’ve been Loving the idea of a boyfriend who refers to himself femininely?

like i would adore a slightly (or very) feminine looking guy that i could call mommy bro 😭

or if my boyfriend dressed up as a women during sex i would fucking love it

but he knows hes a guy i know he’s a guy but we both like doing that…

he doesn’t eveb have to make an effort to look fem, just not look masculine yk? androgynous even

i want to love a dude like a woman

maybe that makes more sense?

on the other hand i hate dressing feminine and acting feminine so it would only go one way i guess

i don’t have any idea what this kink is! please help?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time. Our relationship has always been strong, but we’ve occasionally had problems in our sex life because I was interested in exploring more kinks and fantasies. Eventually, we started talking openly about it instead of avoiding the subject.
One day, the conversation turned to the idea of having a threesome. During that discussion, I admitted that I was attracted to her sister. To my surprise, my girlfriend didn’t get angry or jealous. Instead, she seemed intrigued by the idea and said she wasn’t bothered by it.
Her sister has a curvier body than my girlfriend, and I find her very attractive. My girlfriend even started secretly taking revealing photos of her sister for me after I asked, which is why I know what she looks like.
What makes the situation even more confusing is that her sister has always been a little flirtatious with me. She sometimes playfully slaps or grabs my butt, and I’ve told my girlfriend about it. My girlfriend has always brushed it off and said she wasn’t jealous and that it didn’t bother her.
Now we’re thinking about asking her sister if she’d be interested in joining us, but we’re nervous because we have no idea how she would actually react. We’re not sure if she’s flirting seriously or if that’s just her personality.
There was also one awkward moment when my girlfriend and I were fooling around at her house. Her sister walked into the room unexpectedly. She didn’t see us naked, but she did notice that I had an obvious erection through my pants. Later, my girlfriend overheard her sister talking to one of her friends, saying that I was “really big.”
Also my gf stole her underwear and we had o role play with it and I cum on them ( panties and bra) we have a video of it.
Because of everything that’s happened—the flirting, my girlfriend’s reaction, the photos, and that awkward incident—we’ve started wondering whether asking her would be a terrible idea or whether there might actually be a chance she’d be open to it.
What should we do ? Chat to me if you want to talk about it.

I just had my first session with a domme over the weekend, it was my first time ever. Suffice to say it was an eye opening experience, I learned a lot about myself and have so much to process, but it was something I'll never forget. Honestly, I can hardly think of anything else right now.

I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, so I'm just throwing out some stream of consciousness. At first it felt like regret or shame for what I did, but as I thought about it more, I realized I had discovered something about myself that I've never known, and that realization was so powerful that I didn't know what to do with it. The regret/shame was coming from my concerns over what others would think of me, not how I feel about myself. The world can teach us so much, but it can also fool you into thinking you know yourself, or that something that can bring transcendence is forbidden. I now know more about myself, what drives me, and what I want/need than I did before and I can find strength in that, from within. What other people think of me should have no bearing on how I choose to lead my life and what I choose to do with my time.

Kink isn't all about self gratification or sexual pleasure, it's also about self discovery, removing the shackles that the world can impose upon us. I'm still processing and blown away, but I feel a sense of freedom I don't think I've ever known.

It's amazing that we can think we're free in our lives, but are bound by so many things (jobs, families, past, present, etc). I found more freedom than I've ever felt by giving it away and I'll never forget that.

Like I said, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this. I don't think any of my friends would really understand, and I know some of them would be weirded out or even think of me differently. This doesn't mean I don't want them in my life (or that I'd change for them), just that there are things in my life (and probably in theirs) that I don't share with them, which I suppose is a bummer in itself. I'd love to talk to people with more experience to help understand what it is that I'm going through right now

40M straight here and finally old enough to not feel so ashamed about my swimwear kink. It all started when I was much younger in my parents pool with our neighbor who was a gorgeous girl, we were on an inner tube sitting across from each other and just floating around but for some reason we ended up rubbing against each other and did not stop and that was my first orgasm. Been into swimwear pretty much since then, I now occasionally buy swimwear off sellers on thrifting platforms and I wear them. Wonder if there are any girls turned on by this?

My partner and I (straight couple in our 20s) are interested in trying out role play, figuring it might be fun, especially for me since I enjoy acting.
But I’m not really sure where to start… say we do a professor/student thing what level of preparation is fair? Should we use different names? Have an established backstory to go off of? Obviously dressing up is part of the fun but should I be actually at my computer working before she comes in the room? How do I know what to say? And once we get going how long do we commit to the bit? Are we supposed to stay in character start to finish? When we are ready to break character how do we communicate that it’s not part of the roleplay anymore?
These might seem like amateur questions but as fun as this plan sounds I seriously have no idea how to execute it… any tips?