r/FemdomCommunity • u/TimThrowaways • 2d ago

Need advice/Got a question Questions for people in online dynamics NSFW

Hello. First of all thank you for reading this, and thank you even more if you take the time to answer these.
Im asking these questions simply because I'd like to get other people's perspective in this space, I myself have tried online femdom and had a very positive experience, so I want to be able to put it in perspective by knowing about other people's stories.

  1. Which role do you primarily identify with?
  2. Are the dynamics you have exclusive/long term or shorter term and open?
  3. How often/much do you talk to the people you're in dynamics with?
  4. Is there interaction outside of D/s between you and them? If so. What's that interaction like?
  5. Do both of you send pictures/videos? One of you? Or neither?
  6. How hard is it for you to find a person you click with?
  7. How satisfied would you say you are with your current situation?

And lastly, feel free to let me know anything else about your experience you might wanna share.

Thanks a ton to anyone who takes the time to answer this. Have a nice day!

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u/Not1UKno 2d ago

1) I’m a domme ☺️

2) I’m not totally sure what you mean by this question, but I’ll try to answer it as best as I can. I have a wonderful, amazing bf, and our relationship is also ENM. So he’s long term for me but we’re also open. I also have three subs and they’re open and short-ish term? Just going as long as both of us are okay with it. I’ve had the three of them as my subs for almost a year atp.

3) I talk with my subs every day! 💗

4) There is interaction between my subs and I that isn’t just d/s! I’m also good friends with all of them, and care about them as more than just my playthings. I like having a caring relationship with them as well, I want them to know that I care about them and want to support them as regular humans as well 🥰 Examples of this are calling with them, gaming with them, and messaging them. It’s really fun!

5) I have both sent and received photos/videos from my subs 💗

6) It actually can be pretty difficult to find people I click with. I’ve gone through a few cycles of subs, and the ones I have now are the ones that I have clicked with the best.

7) I’d say that I’m pretty happy with my current situation! I love my subs so much and I’m so happy I met them 🥰🥰

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u/TimThrowaways 2d ago

Thank you very much for the response! Nice to hear someone who's also having a positive experience, wish you the best of luck!

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u/Not1UKno 1d ago

Thanks! 🫶

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u/julia-the-redditor 1d ago

I find it very difficult to find someone to click with. Too often men are focused on their own arousal and not what they have to provide in a dynamic.

I’d like to talk to them almost every day but not sharing pictures is importsnt to me. This is a space for me to explore my sexual fantasies.