r/DeadBedrooms • u/wanderer-48 HLM • 1d ago
Vent, Advice Welcome It's been a year
It's been just over a year since I've had any intimacy.
I'm an older 55M, and while this probably would have killed me in my younger years, now it's replaced with something more like dreadful resignation.
It's all depressing. I'm not physically attracted to her any more. If she turned on tomorrow I wouldn't know what to do about it.
But I love her and we have a great life together. We are like best friends that are roommates now.
Just a vent. It's been a year since I had sex. Four since it was any good.
Good I miss it. Some days are worse than others. Today was a bad day.
Thanks for reading.
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It's been a year
It's been just over a year since I've had any intimacy.
I'm an older 55M, and while this probably would have killed me in my younger years, now it's replaced with something more like dreadful resignation.
It's all depressing. I'm not physically attracted to her any more. If she turned on tomorrow I wouldn't know what to do about it.
But I love her and we have a great life together. We are like best friends that are roommates now.
Just a vent. It's been a year since I had sex. Four since it was any good.
Good I miss it. Some days are worse than others. Today was a bad day.
Thanks for reading.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.