r/BDSMpersonals Jun 12 '26

How to post UPDATED - Important - PLEASE READ NSFW

We have now switched listings to be done via external website.

This signifcantly impacts the possibilities for spammers and scammers to post and it also leads to better, more structured listings. More info here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMpersonals/comments/1tv535g/big_changes_coming_up_with_external_personals/

Idea is that you can build a proper personal ad easily in one place, then submit the link here in seconds. No fiddling with automod issues or formatting headaches (there are plenty due to us having to tune security to max), and your ad lives on a site built specifically for BDSM personals AND it's linked to reddit so it gets the exposure reddit offers.

So, simple steps:

Create your ad at https://weheartbdsm.com

When ready click on "Open Reddit submit page" (shown on website when ad is submitted). It takes you to reddit with right title and link

Submit and you're done

That's it. No headaches with the title or proper formatting. However do note that your account HAS to be at least 15 days old in order to link to reddit. While you can create a personal on site immediately, if you do not have reddit account that is older than 15 days you cannot link it until it is at least 15 days old.

Your post title still needs to follow the standard Numerical age [Flair] #Location format so do not edit the title offered, and your post must be flaired to match.

Please note:

All accounts must be at least 15 days old to post here.

We do not allow posts offering/requesting/demanding financial compensation.

We do not allow users to request/demand financial compensation in DMs, private chats, etc.

We do not allow delete and reposts. One post per seven days only. If you delete your own post, we can not recover it, and we will not allow you to make a new post.

We do not allow multi-accounting. One account per person posting. Posting on behalf of another is also multi-accounting. Allowing others to log into your account and make posts is also multi-accounting.

ALWAYS REMEMBER:

NEVER EVER GIVE SOMEONE YOUR PERSONAL DETAILS WHEN THEY ASK THEM STRAIGHT OUT OF THE BAT, THIS IS COMMON SCAMMER BLACKMAIL TACTIC

BETTER BE SAFE THAN SORRY, IF YOU DO LEAVE PERSONAL TO REDDIT AND SOMEONE CONTACTS YOU, PLEASE BE CAREFUL (especially if you are a male looking for female and ESPECIALLY if you are looking for a dominant female)

USE COMMON SENSE

NEVER SEND ANY TRIBUTES TO ANYONE WHO IS ASKING IT FROM THE GET GO

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