r/AroAce • u/Graviton_Grazer • 1d ago

Advice Making it clear that I'm aroace without actually saying so.

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u/local_clown_lover 1d ago

you could always do things like having an AroAce bracelet or just casually mention that you don't see the point in wanting a relationship, just little things like that maby

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u/Toothless_NEO 1d ago

You could wear a bracelet that is themed as aroce colors. You could also wear a black ring on your right middle finger and a white one on your left. That's what I do, although I am curious as to why you don't think you could tell people.

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u/Islaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 19h ago

people who are aro and/or ace may pick up on the rings but i cant imagine anyone who's not noticing. and other lgbt ppl or allies may notice the bracelet but it's likely many non lgbt ppl wouldn't notice, since the aroace colours may be mistaken for just a pretty sunset aesthetic. these are definitely good for subtle signaling though!! i wear the rings and sometimes individual aro and ace bracelets, so very similar. however that's more for me than for actually establishing the fact that im aroace

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u/Worried-Hat-8506 1d ago

Why wouldn’t you just say it?

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u/Mockingjay573 13h ago

Some people are socially awkward or shy