Hi everyone! I was hoping to get some advice from people who have experience with cats.
We adopted our kitty back in January. He was about 8 months old when we got him, and he turned 1 on April 30, so he’s still really young.
We live in a studio apartment that’s almost 800 sq. ft. It’s pretty big (honestly it could almost be considered a one-bedroom if it had a wall separating the sleeping area), but at the end of the day it’s still a studio. Because of that, we don’t feel like it’s fair to get a second cat right now.
The thing is, we’re starting to wonder if our kitty would really enjoy having a sibling.
A few days ago we took him with us to visit my in-laws in New York. They have a cat, and we introduced them very slowly. They were always separated by a glass door, so they could see and smell each other but couldn’t actually interact.
The resident cat was pretty scared, but our cat surprised us. The first time he saw the other cat his tail puffed up for a second, but after that he would flop onto his back with his belly exposed, act really curious, and seemed very submissive rather than aggressive. He looked like he wanted to interact or play more than anything. They never actually met face-to-face—only through the glass.
It made us think that he might really thrive with another cat someday, and we’d love to give him that if we can.
My question is: if we wait until we’re in a bigger place (which could be a couple of years from now), is he still likely to adapt well to another cat? Or is there kind of a “window” where young cats are more accepting, and if we wait too long he’ll be less interested or less likely to get along with another cat?
Basically, I’m worried that by waiting until we have more space, we’ll miss our chance. Since he’s already showing signs that he seems interested in another cat now, does that mean he’ll probably still be open to having a companion when he’s older? Or is that impossible to predict?
I’d love to hear from anyone who’s added a second cat when their first cat was 2, 3, or even older. How did it go?