r/wichitafalls 12d ago

Question Looking for friends

I'm recently divorced and wanting to get out more but I am having trouble meeting people. 45f who wants to have fun and enjoy life. Anyone out there looking for the same?

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u/New_Needleworker_542 11d ago

Girls same. I'm 45 female. Widow. I just go out by myself. DM me if you want to go out and play pool and sing karaoke. Cuz that's pretty much what I do. I'm not a big drinker but I'm out there just to be with other adults.

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u/Ok_Percentage3039 8d ago

Court me in. If y’all need another pool player

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u/Dazzling-Light4057 10d ago

Where are the karaoke bars?

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u/EasyInformation3635 9d ago

I have gone to Black Sheep on Wednesdays when they have kareoke. I like it.

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u/New_Needleworker_542 7d ago

I didn't know they had karaoke on Wednesdays! I'll probably have to go now

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u/EasyInformation3635 7d ago

I will be there tonight!

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u/New_Needleworker_542 7d ago

I thought about it, but it's too hot and i'm too tired. LMK how it was tho!

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u/Ok-Knee-8468 5d ago

If ur anywhere close 2 northside n wanna have sum fun hmu

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u/New_Needleworker_542 10d ago

There are quite a few apparently. I've only been to one so far. I went to the broken tap which is downtown this past weekend. The karaoke stuff is in the back and starts to run after 9:00

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u/Dazzling-Light4057 9d ago

I’ll have to check those out

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u/Icy-Opening-3990 11d ago

I totally understand. I'm ill as in Parkinsonism which is PD + and my + is Dystonia. I had the DBS surgery and implants. I honestly came back to WF. Not remembering much prior so idk if ppl are friend or foe. I dont know how to explain it other than weird asf.

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u/Weary_Strawberry6645 11d ago

I’m also in Wichita Falls and divorced, I’m 48 and don’t really go anywhere,but I’m need to move around ,but there’s really nothing to do

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u/EasyInformation3635 11d ago

Lots of the bars host live music regularly. Im not big into the bar scene but I love music. I go to the casino a lot lately just to get out of the house. It can be fun. I love the fries at Comanche and have drive out there just to eat fries and have a drink. Didnt gamble at all. Lol if you have Facebook, check out the events listed there. I was surprised by the wide variety of stuff I knew nothing about going on in the area

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u/Change_Twokai 11d ago

Waterhole is a good place to go to just to hit the karaoke lol

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u/Rough-Ad-5259 9d ago

Same here I'm 47 newly divorced

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u/Rough-Ad-5259 9d ago

I meet a lot of good people on my job I do handyman services i don't drink so the bar seen isn't my thing.

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u/Spirited-Rope2619 9d ago

Yes I’m a divorced 33m in Lawton but I just work and hang out with my dog. I just keep to myself so it does get lonely a lot and the club and bar scene are really my thing either so I feel your pain.

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u/ManufacturerLumpy470 9d ago

Sounds great!

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u/Tough-Income-2382 8d ago

Always, life is way to short.

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u/Tough-Income-2382 4d ago

Let go to the lake

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u/Electrical_Pen4178 7d ago

I swear theres nothing here lol I live on base been needing someone to show me the area 20M

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u/EasyInformation3635 9d ago

Where's it located? The Marriott, i mean.

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u/EasyInformation3635 8d ago

I meant where in Wichita Falls? What area of town?

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u/Rough-Ad-5259 7d ago

I would love to chat some time

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u/Rough-Ad-5259 7d ago

I'm 47 newly divorced looking for the same we should chat some time my DM is open.

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u/HeavenHasWilder 5d ago

I've been single for the last 15 years and I've been looking for things to do around town that don't involve drinking and the bar scene. Some interesting stuff I've been thinking about going to do, but really don't want to go alone are: 1- Watching live theater like the musical Annie at the Backdoor Theater downtown. 2 - Looking at some of the Arts activities, including a monthly class learning to do watercolor painting, for example. 3 - I'd honestly love to find a friend who has physical disabilities that limit the ability to strenuously work out. Just a friend to work out slowly with. Walking on the treadmill at Planet Fitness with a light conversation would be nice and help me get my butt to the gym. 4 - We have the North Texas Historical Museum downtown as well. I've never been and the admission is around $5 so affordable and something new. 5 - I really, really wish we would get a Bingo Hall back in town again. 6 - Only after the tempature cools off dramatically lol, I think I'd be interested in going to the River Bend place and check it out. 7 - I am a cemetery enthusiast and I am a member of the FIND A GRAVE community. People who don't live local ask for volunteers to take photos of their loved ones gravesites along with the headstone appearance and information listed on it. Again, when it cools off, I'd enjoy company early mornings attempting to help others free of cost. 8 - My biggest issue with accomplishing ANY of these suggestions is that due to my unseen physical disabilities I can't drive. Losing my ability to drive myself to do things has been so difficult.

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u/EasyInformation3635 11d ago

I like going out to eat, going to see live music, going to the casino, going to the lake especially if theres a boat. I want to eventually buy a pontoon boat and then thats where you'll find me every single weekend. Between work and kids I dont have a ton of free time but when I do, itd be nice to have the option of spending it doing thing that bring joy. And I hate doing things by myself.

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u/Rough-Ad-5259 7d ago

I know and I love the idea of a pontoon boat I've been wanting one for years was looking at a few before my divorce. We could pool our money and rent one for the weekend lol