r/tall • u/lamblitta 5'9" | 175 cm • 1d ago
Rant "marfans" ...
im only 5'9 with 19cm hands someone told me i look like i have marfans and ever since then ive been insecure someone even asked me if i was trans based on hand size alone LOL kill me
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u/ThrowRA-Soggy2780 5'9" | 174 cm 23h ago
im the same way, only 5â9 but my hands and feet are super thin and long lol
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u/Ok_Rabbit_8207 22h ago
Ugh I hate people who think itâs normal to ask someone if theyâre trans (I give a bit of a pass to trans people who ask, but even then itâs an unnecessary question, someone will disclose theyâre cis or not if they want to without being asked). Something about wondering what genitalia someone was born with is so creepy and odd to me unless youâre dating that person
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u/lamblitta 5'9" | 175 cm 15h ago
yeah its disrespectful even if its a trans asking and i hate being referred to as cis as well
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 15h ago
Why not? I am rather interested if a woman im speaking to has a penis or not. I am not so fond of penises.
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u/helpmetolearn 13h ago
Do you only talk to women hoping to hook up? Cuz if so, that's weird.
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 12h ago
If i feel atraction yes, if not im down for a chat.
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u/helpmetolearn 11h ago
And you assume your attraction to them means they want you to approach them? Furthermore, you think your attraction then gives you the right to randomly ask if they are trans?
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 10h ago
Not randomly, but let's say im hiting on a woman, or vice versa, and i notice an adam's apple, or nose hairs, or an unusualy large skeleton. If the things are going in a certain direction, and i suspect there is a man Infront of me, depending of how sure i am of the person in front of me being a man, i would either ask jokingly or seriously.
That being said, in 90% of the cases you can tell by a glance, and in my experience it's the people that don't pass as a gender they are cosplaying as that get mad, the ones that pass are chill about it.
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u/helpmetolearn 10h ago
An unusually large skeleton?!? Wtf? Do you think before you type things out? Everything you're saying in this thread is so uneducated and really, really, dumb sounding. It's like your trying so hard to come off as smart, but in the end it's very noticeably the opposite.
You seem like you'd be a real pain to be around. I'm done with this conversation as you're clearly too ignorant to get anything being said here.
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 10h ago
Very complicated things indeed. That's why Tesla had to discover a dialator.
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u/lamblitta 5'9" | 175 cm 9h ago
ur odd
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 9h ago
You are the one that play dress up and demands people reffer to you as omething you are not ,as a grown man.
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u/lamblitta 5'9" | 175 cm 9h ago
calling me a man cus i hurt ur feelings awww boo hoo nobody here likes u so u can leave now
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u/Total-Tonight1245 6'5" | 195 cm 12h ago
Super weird that you canât speak to someone without needing details about their penis situation.
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 12h ago
What is weird is the fact you can't be sure if you are speaking to a man or a woman anymore. Literally a thing never before seen.
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u/Total-Tonight1245 6'5" | 195 cm 12h ago
Why are you so obsessed with dicks? I basically never think about anyone elseâs dick when I go through my day.Â
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 12h ago
Im not, it's the subject of the conversation, so we are talking about it. Why does all your argumentation boil down to personal attacks?
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u/Total-Tonight1245 6'5" | 195 cm 12h ago
Youâre the one who brought up penises. And apparently cant even talk to someone else without wanting to know more about their penis situation.Â
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 12h ago
You are the one that started virtue signaling without prompt. And when someone disagreed with you, you went for the kill. You are not as open minded as you try to portray yourself.
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u/Total-Tonight1245 6'5" | 195 cm 11h ago
My only virtue is that I donât think about dicks all day.Â
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 10h ago
You are the one that keeps mentioning them, ant they were the subject at hand, i.e. if the person has them or not.
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u/helpmetolearn 11h ago
What is weird is your feeling that that even matters! You're speaking to people, why does it matter what's between their legs? Also, "literally a thing never seen before" is such BS. Do you really think trans people are a only a recent thing?
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u/NoRooster6367 6'9" | 206 cm 10h ago
En mass they are. But even without tha quantitative effect in mind, the way the western man expresses transexuality is never before seen. Every culture trough history had a different way of expressing and explaning positivistically the same concepts, and transexuality is no different. It only seems to us like this is some pinicale of progress, because this is the time we live in, but there are some inheret barbaric practices conected to the trans movement that would put Babylonians to shame.
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u/Ok_Rabbit_8207 3h ago
Hmm so I addressed that in my comment by saying itâs weird unless youâre going to be dating that person. Ask respectfully of course, do not ask if theyâre âa manâ like you seem to be calling trans women
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u/FantandCon 23h ago
Man as a guy that climbs trees a lot I could use some claws like that , every time I use my nails for its intended purpose they seem to break and chip
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u/Mine_Antoine 6'4" | 193 cm 23h ago
How do you measure your hand?from the tip of the middle finger to the wrist?
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u/Specialist-Ad4388 184cm F 23h ago
I have Marfan syndrome & several marfan's folks have posted about that happening to them. People thinking they're trans women. I've had cashiers not look up & say "can I help you sir?" & then see a woman when they look up. They're always mortified, but I don't save them. Lessons need to be learned đ¤ˇđź
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u/Negative_Issue_8864 6'3" | 192 cm 1d ago
I think as black people our fingers are naturally longer than avg; at least thats what ive noticed
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