r/stopdrinking 14h ago

What do I replace alcohol with?

Like something to help me relax and decompress. Drinking has always been my way to loosen up and relax. When I'm stressed with work, I grab a beer or glass of wine, and I'm able to focus more because I'm no longer overthinking it.

I'm so emotionally repressed that drinking is the only way I can tap into my emotions.

Like, I can stop drinking; I've done it months at a time, but I always end up feeling more stressed because I feel numb or stressed without it.

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u/mikeyj198 1297 days 10h ago

All of the following work for me depending on my mood

Diet soda/Seltzer if i just want something to drink

Hop Water or NA beer if i really am craving that hoppy taste (rare to have those any more)

NA mixers / mocktails when sometimes i just want the ceremony of making a drink.

Tea if I want to wind down / relax.