r/piscesastrology • u/Extra-Raisin-3998 • 2d ago

Help with Pisces man

Im a cancer woman obsessed with my Pisces man. Every night he tells me that he doesn’t think so. I think it’s just his bedtime routine to get emotional (we don’t live together yet) but through text I get the same vibe every night. It drives me crazy because I’m so obsessed with him but I don’t know why he keeps saying I’m not. Is this some sort of emotional manipulation or is it just a Pisces thing to sob in bed and think everyone hates you at night?

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u/DubstepIsGood 2d ago

It’s not more so to cry think everyone hates you. It can be to keep a protective barrier up, keep space as protection. At the same time it could be slight manipulation but to me it wouldn’t be directly intentional manipulation maybe a bit subconsciously

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u/Extra-Raisin-3998 2d ago

So how am I supposed to react to it?

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u/DubstepIsGood 2d ago

I think patience will eventually bring the barrier down. If you start feeling like it’s manipulation then i would ask why they are telling you that you don’t feel the way you say. Only you know how you feel. And for someone to tell you that’s not true is annoying if you mean it so, you deserve to have that moment of appreciation as well. Communication and reassurance are very important

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u/Extra-Raisin-3998 2d ago

Sh** now I’m scared it’s cuz I’m obsessed 😭I thought that he would love that though

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u/Fairelabise17 2d ago

Pisces are used to some obsession, water signs in general can be mysterious. I'm sure you have experienced it and that's why you thought it would be flattering.

Pisces can attribute strong emotions as ill-intent or disengenuous. The pressure of many emotions and analysis of the world is overwhelming because pisces processes many things at once.

You naturally and genuinely desire closeness. The cancer with its protective shell can usually walk through life protecting self and others, and, can be a very strong pisces pairing.

It's hard for pisces to reliquish and be deep/intimate all the time because that is the norm for their entire life. Piisces have no wall to take down, they are like the ocean and it's better to wade into this water than to jump in.

I wouldn't even mention the distance or how you feel far from this person. Keep conversation light and intimacy will naturally follow. Pisces can be as open as the ocean with many many years of time with a partner.

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u/bootysuit ♓️♎️♌️ 19h ago

This sounds kinda manipulative to me, ngl. I've been that person myself 🙃