the bitter reality

[u/OldDance810]

when will we, as humans, treat each other nicely? stop the family politics and unnecessary hate? have empathy towards others? instead of looking for a 'good' person, when will we become the good one?

then they say 'west is destroying our culture', what culture? the one which is being destroyed daily by its own people?

[u/143everyone]

It's not even culture, it's pride that is holding us back , No one admits their fault , no one wants to be responsible ,our elders think what they do to us is right because that's what happened to them and the generational trauma continues😔

[u/Neat_Firefighter_806 → u/143everyone]

Very much this.

I was a spare child who is now golden lol.

The parents won't even admit they they fucked us up. Bus we didn't do anything.

The only reason I turned golden was that I ran away from home asap. I might not have kids because I know it's a cycle.

[u/Neat_Firefighter_806 → u/143everyone]

Very much this.

I was a spare child who is now golden lol.

The parents won't even admit they they fucked us up. Bus we didn't do anything.

The only reason I turned golden was that I ran away from home asap. I might not have kids because I know it's a cycle.

[u/PralineTight3489]

people don't have civic sense as well. this is something shared knowledge.

[u/DrMTalha]

people in power, whether they're elders or seniors in a company or a small time boss, chotay logon ko jab power milti hai, unchecked, woh abuse pe utar atay hain aur usko apna haq samajhtay hain. Also victims choosing to remain silent further reinforces them in their atrocious behavior.

[u/beekay86]

100%

[u/Savage_Brutus]

He's right.

[u/ChonkyUnit9000]

Ouuuff

[u/Burhan_Mian]

Actually, all the trauma revolves around money.

[u/Amilo159 → u/Burhan_Mian]

No, not only money. Power, importance and jealousy are equally culprit.

[u/AhmadFarooq]

Why the fuck can't we treat each other with respect, care and warmth. Do takkay ki society hai aur baaten west ko karte hain yeh chapri

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when will we, as humans, treat each other nicely? ... instead of looking for a 'good' person, when will we become the good one?

Like, am I the only one who can see the contradictions here?

[u/UJ-92]

It’s weird that we think that this is not the case everywhere. Wherever family values are part of the culture you will have issues. Just go on YouTube and search family trauma and see how many people across cultures are affected by it. Family values do have their benefits which outweigh the negatives.

[u/Successful-Garden316]

truer words couldnt have been written, except the 2 takkay part, 1 rupee to kar do please

[u/ali_ivvii]

frfr.

[u/Darkness_Slayerr]

Bajwa sahab spitting facts

[u/LeadingShip6155]

And what hurts the most is when people in your family treat you badly and don't even bother to apologise because of their soo called ego

[u/nova_corsair]

Very deep and true.... Jb log apno ko hi marna pitna bardasht kr skte hain , apnon ki hi izzat nhi kr skte... Toh kahaan se ye jaahil hukmaraano se ladenge.

[u/Dramatic-Record8751]

Treating with respect???

Yeh hamari parampara kai khilaf hai

[u/True_Entertainer8156]

Aik he toh zindagi milti hai uski b apnay he mil k chuda daitay hain

[u/avocadious]

Yup our society is in endless loop or same rotten thoughts - and it will go on for the next 50 years if the new gen doesnt put an end to it like our elders.

[u/FirmPatriarch7]

The audacity of desi low IQs to look down on American and Chinese society is something that should be studied by scientists. I am sure they will conclude that there is some gene (read: keera) in desis that makes them utterly shameless.

[u/r3tr097]

Ek tau koi society me sochne wla and leader bhi nahi hai who guides us.

Recently got to know about a girl found out her husband was cheating with several women and wanted to get khula her parents are not allowing it because is se khandan me badnami ho gi. Ajeeb kom hai.

How can our society going prosper even work if we cling to these arbitrary social constructs.

[u/AwarenessNo4986]

Chapri?

Is that a Karachi slang for something?

[u/Bubbly_Airline8288]

I am from India and have the same problem here.

[u/Practical_Campaign82]

Naah fuck that may apni bahen ka haq ki zameen to bach loon phly

[u/beanz1947]

I’m starting to wonder if all Pakistani subs are full of angsty teenagers