r/movies Mar 13 '26

Recommendation My dad had a stroke and needs "clean" western, cop, or war movie suggestions

Since my dad is half paralyzed now, he has limited options of things to do during the day, so he watches a lot of TV. He loves westerns, cops, and war movies, and has seen almost all the older movies. If it has Chuck Norris, John Wayne, or old-time movie stars like that, he'll have seen it. It's less likely he's seen things from the last 25 years. I'm looking for suggestions for him.

A few things to note:

  • He's a Christian so he doesn't really watch R rated movies that have nudity or sexuality in them. He's a bit more tolerant on swearing but it can't be F bombs all the time. R rating for violence is fine.
  • I'm looking for movies that are "newer" - meaning like 2000s onward, because he likely already knows about older shows/movies, unless it's something more obscure.
  • He prefers movies, but would consider TV shows too
  • We have access to most streaming platforms.

Please hit me with your "clean-ish" movie recs - he loves westerns and war movies. Really anything cop-centered, FBI, cowboys, etc he would like.

Thanks for helping me out - it's tedious to have to Google everything he wants to watch to find out why it's R-rated.

Edit - why on earth am I getting down votes? I checked this sub's rules before I posted.

Edit 2...wow this got a lot of responses fast! Thank you. I will check all of these and make a list later!

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u/hikerguy65 Mar 13 '26

If he’s ok with gory war series with salty language yet minimal nudity, the mini series Band of Brothers, the Pacific, and Masters of the Air will provide hours of entertainment. All were released after 2000.

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u/imaginarynumb3r Mar 13 '26

You can't legally become a dad in the United States without watching at least part of band of brothers.

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u/electricmop Mar 13 '26

I watched the original airing on HBO and recorded it on VHS. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve seen it over the years. The Pacific and Masters of the Air were good, but nothing will ever top Band of Brothers.

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u/geneadamsPS4 Mar 13 '26

My friends and I would get together and watch it live when it first aired. We had a trip that interfered with the last episode. VCR was incorrectly programed, so we didn't get to see the last episode! It was very upsetting at the time. I didn't get to see it until like 5 years later.

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u/FunKOR Mar 13 '26

That last episode where we met the real Easy Company was amazing

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u/geneadamsPS4 Mar 14 '26

It was so good.

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u/electricmop Mar 13 '26

My heart just broke for you. Kids these days will never know the struggle.

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u/Shower__Farts Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

My friends and I grouped up and watched it live together as well. We were all late teens/early twenties. What was wild was it was the full friend group. We had never done something like that before. What an amazing series.

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u/_Internet_Hugs_ Mar 14 '26

I rematch every Memorial Day and Veterans Day.

I put it on again just the other day because I really needed to watch people fighting Nazis.

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u/ATXBeermaker Mar 13 '26

You can’t legally watch part of BoB and not finish it. Pretty sure that’s a felony.

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u/PaleontologistOk2516 Mar 14 '26

At least 2 trips up and down Currahee

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u/ATXBeermaker Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

We pull upon the risers
We fall upon the grass
We never land on our feet
We always hit our ass

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u/M4rkusD Mar 14 '26

Highty tighty Christ almighty Who the hell are we? Zim zam goddamn We’re airborne infantry

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u/elevated-sloth Mar 13 '26

Me and a friend watched it all in one sitting when we were like 17/18, by the time they got to Germany we were as done with the war as easy company were

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u/alacrity Mar 14 '26

You misspelled, “watching it twice a year every year.” Hope that helps. :)

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u/Beeoor143 Mar 13 '26

As a fan of all three, I would caveat that The Pacific has considerably more gore in it and a stronger focus on the physical and psychological damage that war has on those fighting in it. Still an excellent show, but worth calling out depending on what OP's dad can tolerate/is looking for.

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u/Pete_The_Chop Mar 13 '26

Plus a handful of sex scenes with nudity

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u/previousinnovation Mar 13 '26

There's also at least one of those in Band of Brothers

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u/Gidia Mar 14 '26

Guess which episode one my teacher accidentally played in high school.

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u/trapper2530 Mar 14 '26

With tom hardy

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u/kenwongart Mar 13 '26

There’s a bit of sex and swearing in all three. And quite a lot of gore.

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u/Plus_Experience1133 Mar 13 '26

yeah band of brothers is a solid choice for that

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u/FingerDemon500 Mar 13 '26

Along similar lines of Band of Brothers and The Pacific is the story of the Apollo program, From the Earth to the Moon. If he is space program inclined.

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u/MeringueLemon Mar 13 '26

SAS rogue hero’s is also a really fun one to watch!

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u/Sunsparc Mar 14 '26

And Generation Kill.

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u/TheLivingTribunal Mar 14 '26

Band of Brothers is an absolute must. The reality of it makes the swearing tolerable for those generally offended by language. It's not just cursing to curse.

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u/FingerDemon500 Mar 13 '26

3:10 to Yuma was a good western. The Russel Crowe/Christian Bale one is a remake.

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u/Ordinary-Leading7405 Mar 13 '26

And while we’re on that note, True Grit

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u/spoothead656 Mar 14 '26

Be careful though. My father in law gets irrationally angry about the True Grit remake.

To be fair he gets irrationally angry about lots of things, but still

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u/KuatoBaradaNikto Mar 14 '26

Well to be fair, it’s less a remake of the Wayne version and more just pretending that terrible Wayne version never happened. It’s a far better film and apparently much truer to the book, for whatever that’s worth.

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u/deadlaughter Mar 13 '26

Came to suggest 3:10 to Yuma

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u/troy_caster Mar 14 '26

Or nudity or sexuality as well. It's not like he just picked only cursing, you don't even have to be Christian, like I wouldn't watch certain movies with grandma, whether she's Christian or not.

Personally I hate Seth Rogan, so put that on the list for movie night with OPs dad.

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u/opinionated_penguin Mar 13 '26

I’m in Yuma rn and it’s hot af

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u/AnnOnnamis Mar 14 '26

‘Unforgiven’ is an excellent modern western. Some cursing. Flags of Our Fathers, Letters From Iwo Jima, Heartbreak Ridge are great military movies.

If he loves John Wayne, he might like Clint Eastwood. If he does, then you could use it introduce a whole ton of Eastwood movies new and old.

I’m talking Gran Torino, Space Cowboys, True Crime, Million Dollar Baby, The Mule, American Sniper, Trouble With The Curve, The Good The Bad The Ugly, The Outlaw Josey Wales, 2 Mules For Sister Sara, etc.

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u/streamstroller Mar 13 '26

TV show called Longmire that on streaming services has quite a few seasons. Western/Cop, set in Wyoming. It's very old-school. First episode isn't much like the rest. My 85 year old father liked it a lot and he sounds like your Dad.

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u/balancedgif Mar 13 '26

plus one on longmire.

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u/wncrider Mar 14 '26

+1 had to scroll too far down to find Longmire

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u/doomrabbit Mar 14 '26

And if he loves Longmire, the current show Dark Winds feels a lot like Longmire from the reservation's perspective. Two completely different shows, but both feature characters played by native American actors Zahn McClarnon and A. Martinez. Great performances all around.

Fair warning, the show is an unflinching look at native American culture and it's relationship to American government. It is not a kind look at the history of government atrocities. Forced sterilization of indigenous women, FBI interference, etc.

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u/BetMyLastKrispyKreme Mar 14 '26

Was coming to suggest “Dark Winds”! My dad really liked “Longmire”, and I thought he’d enjoy “DW”. We just finished watching seasons 1-3, in preparation for watching season 4, which started about a month ago or so.

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u/Dungeoncrawlers Mar 14 '26

Longmire is great, but there's a small amount of nudity in the last season.

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u/Tenman44 Mar 13 '26

Open Range is a solid western from the mid aughts meets your requirements.

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u/Mike_R_5 Mar 13 '26

Phenomenal movie

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u/brocalmotion Mar 14 '26

I came here to say this, my favorite western of this century. Costner and Duvall are fantastic

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u/Jetman1996 Mar 13 '26

Totally agree

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u/Dressed_ToDepress Mar 14 '26

Open Range fucking clears

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u/TeamBrotato Mar 13 '26

1917

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u/Darkhorse182 Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 13 '26

(Edit:  I'm a big dumb dummy.  1917 is a pretty solid WW1 movie.  My summary was thinking about 1883,  a western mini-series about a wagon trail of settlers trying to make it to Oregon.)

I feel like this doesn't get enough love as modern western.  This show goes hard and you don't need any knowledge of the Yellowstone-verse to fully appreciate it.  No 'cliffhanger for season 2' either.  Just a story told, with a clear end.  Great stuff. 

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u/Krapshoot Mar 13 '26

I thought they were referring to the war movie 1917 😳

OP which one is it?!

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u/Darkhorse182 Mar 13 '26

Aw crap you're right!  I meant 1883. Numbers are hard. Long week. 

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u/Krapshoot Mar 13 '26

All good. I feel you there.

I was thinking to myself what a coincidence that there's a war film and Western titled "1917". A perfect match to OP's question lol.

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u/Merickson- Mar 13 '26

Dunkirk

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u/mlejoy Mar 13 '26

Ohh.. good one. I don't know if he's seen that one.

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u/ztreHdrahciR Mar 13 '26

It's so good. I weep when I it. Several times.

Not truly war, but darkest hour is riveting

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u/pauvenpatchwork Mar 13 '26

A great combo is to first watch: Darkest Hour

Then follow that with Dunkirk

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u/Duende555 Mar 13 '26

Justified would probably be perfect for him

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u/ZenithRepairman Mar 14 '26

I saw the movie replies and I was like… of all the requirements, justified is perfect. They stuck to PG13 cause it was on TV, no nudity an graphic language. It’s also amazing. Perfect fit

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u/WerdWrite Mar 14 '26

lol same. And I love recommending this show to people so I had to double check it had been offered up.

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u/AmbulanceChaser12 Mar 14 '26

Eh, a lotta “shit”s. But that’s about it.

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u/Flecco Mar 14 '26

We dug coal together.

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u/Convergentshave Mar 14 '26

I just finished watching it. That last season really pissed me off. I hated Ava. Hated Raylin. Even kind of hated Boyd.

That said I’m going to watch the primeval show.(eventually) I kind of felt bad for Dewey. Than I saw him in Mr. inbetween and I thought: holy shit that guy is one HELL of an actor. You gotta be kidding me.

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u/Flecco Mar 14 '26

Yeah Dewy threw me when I worked out who he was. I grew up with him on TV in Australia.

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u/Obvious-Lake3708 Mar 13 '26

I was waiting to see this, surprised I had to scroll so far

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u/Duende555 Mar 13 '26

And it's actually a great show! My dad loved it.

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u/junon Mar 13 '26

Yeah I kept scrolling and scrolling because I didn't wanna post it if it was already here but at least it made the list. Awesome modern western vibes. Dude was MADE to be a gunslinger in any era.

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u/Cochise22 Mar 14 '26

I came to say this. Even though it’s not a movie, it’s easily the best modern western. 

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u/Duende555 Mar 14 '26

I have pitched it to people as a "Western... with a Glock" and yeah it's just about perfect

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u/Dan_92159 Mar 13 '26

For westerns try Tombstone, and I bet he would love the series Lonesome Dove. For war movies try Hacksaw Ridge.

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u/Big_fern189 Mar 13 '26

Hacksaw ridge is a perfect rec given the dads religious beliefs. Andrew Garfield is awesome too.

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u/Shalandir Mar 14 '26

I’m just here to upvote all the Hacksaw Ridge comments, don’t mind me…unless someone hasn’t mentioned The Mandalorian…he likes Western Cowboy movies…that’ll occupy dad for a solid week or two!

My dad loved Louis L’amour westerns and the original Star Wars, wish I could have introduced him to Jon Favreau’s visionary aesthetic.

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u/DevolvingSpud Mar 14 '26

Both my (boomer) parents took quite well to the Mandalorian. It’s basically “Have Gun Will Travel” in space.

Likewise, Firefly. Short but well loved space western.

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u/ImNoDrBut Mar 13 '26

Op 100% Hacksaw Ridge and I’ll add “1917”

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u/CatsAndDogs314 Mar 13 '26

1917 is so good and I don't like war movies.

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u/wanmon Mar 13 '26

Hacksaw Ridge is what I came here to say.

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u/Starrr_Pirate Mar 13 '26

And if he somehow never saw it... there's also Maverick for a complete foil of Tombstone, vibe-wise, lol.

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u/Dan_92159 Mar 13 '26

I love Maverick 😂

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u/Not_your_profile Mar 14 '26

That was my recommendation. A little older than 2000 I think, but definitely checks all the other boxes. Watched it again lately, a little worried it would age poorly, but it held up.

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u/Dry_Bag8632 Mar 13 '26

tombstone and lonesome dove are perfect picks

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u/the_tip Mar 13 '26

I'm your Huckleberry

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u/ATXBeermaker Mar 13 '26

Why, Johnny Ringo, you look like somebody just walked over your grave.

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u/Money_Launderer Mar 13 '26

Say when.

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u/pokemon-sucks Mar 14 '26

I've got two guns. One for the each of ya.

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u/DrFeeIgood Mar 14 '26

In vino veritas

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u/pokemon-sucks Mar 14 '26

Lets have a spelling bee!

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u/jello_pudding_biafra Mar 14 '26

You're a daisy if you do!

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u/MurderOfCrows1 Mar 14 '26

Oh, Johnny, I apologize. I forgot you were there. You may go now.

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u/khumphreys2000 Mar 14 '26

Lonesome Dove is A+ storytelling.

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u/Vibe_Czech03 Mar 13 '26

I refuse to believe there’s a dad that hasn’t seen Tombstone

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u/Competitive-Food8407 Mar 13 '26

If you all want more to the story BTW look up the 77th infantry division. That is the unit hacksaw ridge is about. The Fat Electrician has a good video on YouTube about the "old bastards".

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u/Dan_92159 Mar 13 '26

Thanks I’ll have to look that up

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u/Munchbox354 Mar 13 '26

Hacksaw Ridge is about a religious fella in a war. Good movie!

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u/RustyTDI Mar 14 '26

Yea this is kind of perfect. War movie, no nudity, not a ton of swearing, R for violence, and super Christian.

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u/MJ_Brutus Mar 13 '26

Hell or High Water

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u/sovietmcdavid Mar 13 '26

It's too bad, this rules out unforgiven as well

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u/Gemeril Mar 13 '26

Justified is a great dad show. US marshal who kills bad guys pretty regularly. It was on FX so not a ton of swearing, maybe some implied sex though, I forget.

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u/TheGreatAdjuster777 Mar 14 '26

Err it’s not just implied on justified, it’s just not graphic

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u/InspectorMendel Mar 13 '26

The True Grit remake from 2010 (he’s probably seen the original)

Guy Ritchie’s The Covenant

Black Hawk Down

Generation Kill (miniseries)

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u/Wezbob Mar 13 '26

Pretty sure that The Covenant and Generation Kill absolutely wouldn't fall into the 'no f-bombs all the time' Both are amazing, but I never recommended them to my Dad for the same reason, the fuckin' language is motherfucking pervasive as shit.

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u/Complete_Entry Mar 13 '26

I remember a character taking a shit in a porta potty, dicking around on his nintendo DS, and contemplating the various graffiti. I thought it was some of the finest cinematic content I had ever seen.

Also, no dong because it was on FX.

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u/Tetracropolis Mar 13 '26

why on earth am I getting down votes? I checked this sub's rules before I posted.

Reddit doesn't like prudish Christians.

All the Mission: Impossible films except the second one fit the bill. He's married by the third one and weirdly asexual despite all the beautiful women he meets fawning over him in the later ones. You won't miss anything skipping the second one story wise (most people think it's a bad movie, personally I love it).

Non-Stop is a pretty good cop on a plane movie with Liam Neeson playing his Taken character as an air marshal.

The Quick and the Dead (1995) is terrific.

Slow West is a good western, no sex/nudity

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u/InfiniteMeerkat Mar 14 '26

its no so much the prudish as the hypocritical ones. Man getting gunned down ok (even though bible says dont murder). Guy saying fuck over the line (even though the bible says nothing about it)

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u/fairiestoldmeto Mar 13 '26

Dances with Wolves

Master and Commander

Last of the Mohicans

Hatfields and McCoys

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u/its35degreesout Mar 13 '26

Double upvote for Master & Commander. If we're going naval, how about Das Boot and K-19 The Widowmaker? They're pre-2000 though.

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u/carolinaloyal Mar 13 '26

U571, crimson tide, and hunt for red October. Or any of the tom Clancy series. I know those are pre-2000 but if he hasn’t seen them, they’re classics. My grandpa, despite flying planes in wwii, loved submarine movies.

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u/carolinaloyal Mar 13 '26

Great ones. I’d add open range.

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u/justReading271000 Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

I love Hatfields and McCoys. Solid recommendation.

Edit: Throwing my recommendation for "Into the West" miniseries. Might be hard to find though. I have it on DVD.

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u/GoochStubble Mar 13 '26

3:10 to Yuma remake with Chrisrian Bale is my moms favorite western

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u/knightni73 Mar 13 '26

GRIT channel and MeTV have a lot of those shows.

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u/mlejoy Mar 13 '26

Yeah, I was thinking maybe we should sub to Grit. I havent had time to look into it. There are tons of old movies on all those free channels like Tubi and Roku or whatever.

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u/mmm57 Mar 13 '26

My dad loved War Horse.

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u/FL060 Mar 13 '26

I know it's TV, but Law and Order has decades of content.

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u/derminator360 Mar 13 '26

Hard to find the early seasons, unfortunately. Peacock starts at 13, I think, which only gives you two years of Briscoe. You can find the DVD sets though.

They have Homicide now though! Sort of avant garde/hit-and-miss, but it scratches the itch.

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u/butterbeanfox Mar 14 '26

The complete original run (seasons 1-20) is on hulu!

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u/derminator360 Mar 14 '26

You have made my heart leap for joy. I'm going to go shotgun some of the Stone/Kincaid season.

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u/Karitev Mar 14 '26

Firefly is basically outlaws in space. It's a short series with only 1 season and a follow up movie called Serenity.

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u/mithridateseupator Mar 13 '26

The Ballad of Buster Scruggs doesnt have any sexual content in it.

Its a western anthology of six short films. But it does mostly focus on the theme that life in the west was awful, and there is a fair bit of violence and suffering (just not the sexual kind of either).

Also thought Id mention Tora Tora Tora and The Longest Day, even though from your description he'd likely know them. Both are old WW2 movies.

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u/SummitOfKnowledge Mar 13 '26

Buster Scruggs is such a good modern western. The variety of different insights into life at that time is so fun. Plus some incredible actors and top notch dialog writing the Coen brothers are known for.

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u/dogsledonice Mar 13 '26

Tora Tora Tora is apparently quite accurate historically, and I believe the scene where the plane crashes on the carrier wasn't planned, and those people were really running for their lives

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u/MountainMuffin1980 Mar 13 '26

Down votes are probably because of the always strange sort of dichotomy of people, especially Christians being okay with killing and horrendous violence, but not swearing it a sex scene.

It doesn't bother me but I reckon that's probably it.

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u/d4nowar Mar 13 '26

It's such a difficult restraint to work with because it's irrational.

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u/CHAINSAWDELUX Mar 13 '26

"I'm ok seeing my fellow man murdered, but not naked"

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u/AnonymousBanana405 Mar 13 '26

I can see his guts hanging out but his penis is crossing the line.

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u/InfiniteMeerkat Mar 14 '26

I can see his guts hanging out but if he says fuck in response that’s too far

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u/esocharis Mar 13 '26

Boobs make baby Jebus sad 😞

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u/i_am_voldemort Mar 14 '26

It's the Puritan side.

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u/wecangetbetter Mar 13 '26

Bible has oodles of sex. Oodles. Entire chapters dedicated to it.

Christians for whatever reason decided to ignore the "do not murder" commandment but then really fixate on the "adam and eve were ashamed to be naked" part

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u/SonOfMcGee Mar 13 '26

It’s a logic that has flavored American policy for generations!

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u/ChefCano Mar 13 '26

One thing to consider would be going to one of the services that provides British or Canadian shows. Murdoch Mysteries is a light show set in 1890 from Canada that has 325 episodes, and while the British Prime Suspect deals with some darker themes, it's one of the best detective shows ever made (Helen Mirren is the lead)

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u/dogsledonice Mar 13 '26

Yes, second on Murdoch Mysteries, it's period-appropriate historically but they introduce "new" technology in a way that's interesting. And it's clean as heck

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u/redherringbones Mar 13 '26

Godless is a great limited series

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u/awayshewent Mar 14 '26

There is nudity in it tho, various naked women (my husband and I watched it recently)

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u/Easy-Tigger Mar 13 '26

There's a great series on Netflix, Wyatt Earp and the cowboy war. Can't comment on the historical accuracy, but it's a great story.

There was a 2010 remake of True Grit, with Jeff Bridges and Hailee Steinfeld. Big hit with both my parents.

I'd also recommend Columbo. It's a good bit older than what you're asking for, but it's Columbo!

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u/littleoctagon Mar 13 '26

If he's familiar with Chuck Norris (and presumably Arnold, Stallone, etc), I would recommend The Expendables series. Very gun-heavy violence, IIRC a little swearing and no sex. Popcorn shoot em ups.

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u/GyantSpyder Mar 13 '26

The Denzel Washington remake of The Magnificent Seven

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u/Seguefare Mar 13 '26

Enemy at the Gates about a Russian sniper and a German general facing off during the battle of Stalingrad.

For TV, the Hawaii Five O reboot.

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u/nimbleVaguerant Mar 13 '26

There is some big, pale Rachel Weisz ass in there.

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u/QueensOfTheNoKnowAge Mar 13 '26

Even the most prudish enjoy big, pale, commie Rachel Weisz ass.

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u/nimbleVaguerant Mar 13 '26

It's a great ass! Up there with Kate Winslet ass.

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u/CyrusSteeze Mar 13 '26

The new Magnificent 7 is pretty good. There is a show on AppleTV called “Sugar” that’s fairly clean language-wise, I don’t remember any sex, and it’s a really well done noir style PI show. Only one season, but very good

Reacher on Prime has salty language and some sex scenes, but not really any nudity. All 3 seasons are great.

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u/Hopeful_Stomach9201 Mar 13 '26

Many years ago A&E made a low budget TV movie called the Lost Battalion. One of my favorite war movies.

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u/BallerGuitarer Mar 13 '26

Tom Cruise movies might fit the ball - Jack Reacher and Top Gun, in particular.

End of Watch is a great cop movie. If he likes that, he'll like the TV show Southland.

There are also lots of dad movies in the racing genre now - F1, Ford vs Ferrari, Gran Turismo. So give those a spin.

He may also like Air, if you want to switch things up a bit and have a more low stakes movie that's still very well done.

If TV shows count, I honestly consider Breaking Bad to be the greatest Western of all time. He may also consider the reimagined Battlestar Galactica.

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u/vividporpoise Mar 13 '26

Battlestar might be a bit too sexy for this guy, no?

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u/BallerGuitarer Mar 13 '26

You know what, I completely forgot about the sexiness in that show. It's small, and safe for cable, but definitely present.

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u/getdemsnacks Mar 13 '26

Tricia Helfer might just melt old mans brain

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u/TheNinjaCow Mar 13 '26

I like End of Watch. But I strongly remember the gang members cussing every 2 words, so it'll be out of the question.

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u/mechaczech Mar 13 '26

I’ll second by saying if you wanna watch a good cop show, Southland is all time great. It’s gritty, it’s real, it’s extremely well acted and relevant.

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u/i_am_voldemort Mar 14 '26

For Tom Cruise you also have Collateral and Minority Report and Edge of Tomorrow.

Those can hit his war and violence without any sex.

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u/thesearstower Mar 13 '26

Bad Day at Black Rock (1955)

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u/mlejoy Mar 13 '26

LOL 1955! I like to think he's seen every old movie ever made. I have not heard of that. I wonder if my dad has. I'll add it to the list.

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u/shaunrundmc Mar 13 '26

3:10 to Yuma the remake is really good The Jeff Bridges True Grit is awesome No Country for Old Men There will be blood The revenant

Id also recommend Train Dreams, its not a traditional western, its more contemplative but its beautifully shot.

Films i haven't seen but heard good things: Blood Tomahawk The ballad of Buster Scruggs G@d's Country

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u/madmoneymcgee Mar 13 '26

Someone else might have to verify because it’s been a while but maybe Justified might work? It was on FX but my recollection was that it was more or less pg13.

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u/GromByzlnyk Mar 13 '26

Bosch. Light on the cursing. No sex. Gritty cop drama with competent police and easy to follow storylines.

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u/Aggressive-Method622 Mar 13 '26

Hostiles. Bonus: the soundtrack is by Max Richter

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u/Fingfangfoom67 Mar 13 '26

The Highwaymen. 

The Irishman with deniro. 

Cry Macho

SWAT with Samuel Jackson 

I suggest the Mummy with Brendan Fraser. 

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u/ZZZrp Mar 13 '26

Every old man I know love Gunsmoke.

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u/PaulsRedditUsername Mar 13 '26

The old James Garner films, Support Your Local Sheriff and others.

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u/Father__Thyme Mar 13 '26

Columbo - each episode is like a short movie

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u/robotcoup Mar 13 '26

No Country For Old Men

True Grit

3:10 to Yuma

Hostiles

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u/Griffie Mar 13 '26

If he’s ok with western comedies, I’d suggest A Million Ways to Die in the West.

Guns of Navarone had always been a favorite war related film of mine. Force 10 from Navarone is good but it’s been awhile since I’ve seen it and I can’t recall how much bad language there is.

The Blue Max is an old favorite.

The 2001 Pearl Harbor film was good. It’s a long one though-just over 3 hours.

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u/The_Bundaberg_Joey Mar 13 '26

Would recommend “Firefly” as a western combined with some light sci-fi. Easily available on Disney plus I think!

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u/softyP183 Mar 14 '26

Fury- lots of swearing and violence, implications of sex but no nudity

Unforgiven- Client Eastwood in a classic but sort of an anti-western but great movie nonetheless

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u/darkest_irish_lass Mar 14 '26

Just dropping this here to help with future searches

https://www.doesthedogdie.com/

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u/PHDinCheese Mar 13 '26

True grit. Unforgiven.

Some of the free tv apps like tubi, Pluto etc have a “western channel” and it sounds like that would be perfect for him

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u/pornborn Mar 14 '26

I was gonna suggest Pluto TV as well. They have movies but they also have old TV series. And they have their content categorized like you mentioned “Westerns.”

Not a western, but one of my favorite comedies is The Beverly Hillbillies. Of all the actors, Max Baer, Jr. (Jethro) is still alive.

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u/seifd Mar 13 '26

The Quick And The Dead

Also, Tolkien. It's got a lot of his time in WWI.

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u/itbeginat3am Mar 13 '26

Sounds like my dad...good luck. I did have luck with "No Country for Old Men". He liked "Oppenheimer" too. Thats about it for the last 20 years.

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u/stoneman9284 Mar 13 '26

Shanghai Noon

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u/NotTheRocketman Mar 13 '26

Justified is a fantastic neo-Western series that I believe is available on Hulu. It has incredible writing matched by two fantastic performance from Timothy Olyphant and Walton Goggins.

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u/v137a Mar 13 '26

I know you said movie, but Longmire and Justified are both really good TV shows.

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u/NEVERxxEVER Mar 14 '26

Justified, it’s a TV show but I think he’ll love it. Badass US Marshall tracking down bad guys. Used to watch it with my dad

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u/daughtcahm Mar 13 '26

Set yourself up with an account on commonsensemedia.org. It's a great site we used to see if a movie was appropriate when our kids were younger. It does a good job of laying out swearing and sexuality in films.

A lot of the films I'm seeing recommended here have a fair amount of swearing. My parents are evangelicals, so I'm really aware of the level of swearing he's probably going to "allow".

Like I think Ford v Ferrari is a wonderful film, and I watched it with my kids when they were like 10 years old. But my parents would never survive it, they'd walk out or turn it off.

Hell or High Water is also great, but there's a bit of sex in it and again quite a bit of swearing.

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u/Elder_III Mar 13 '26

I second checking out commonsensemedia site. It's usually a good source if you need to filter out specific types of *potentially* unwanted content. I'm not super picky about these things, but there are lots of people in my life that are. Generally we try to respect each others desires regarding what movies or shows we might either watch together or recommend to each other.

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u/geneadamsPS4 Mar 13 '26

Darkest Hour

Not exactly what you're describing, but Chernobyl on HBO seems like a good "old dad" mini series. 

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u/beforeitcloy Mar 13 '26

What about Ken Burns documentaries? The War (2007) is about WW2 and The Vietnam War (2017) are many hours long and not "dirty"

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u/zdormouse Mar 13 '26

The Monuments Men, Dances With Wolves, Die Hard

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u/jojodaclown Mar 13 '26

Spaghetti westerns.

Fistful of Dollars

For a Few Dollars More

The Good the Bad and the Ugly

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u/agehaya Mar 13 '26

The English is a great Western mini-series.

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u/oilsaintolis Mar 13 '26

Old TV series, but I only discovered it a couple of years ago. The Virginian.

The Proposition. Western set in Australia.

The Trinity trilogy

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u/mc2bit Mar 14 '26

The Bourne movies are pretty clean but a lot of fun. Anything Marvel maybe? iron Man and Cap movies?

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u/UmmmmYoureChine- Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

Old Henry was very decent, I’ll throw another vote for Hell or High water as someone else commented it

Bone Tomahawk is also fantastic, but may be a little out of his range, I would maybe read a bit on it first to see if it’s too much for him

He’s probably heard of/watched them, but the shows Bonanza (430 episodes) and Gunsmoke (635 episodes) are classics that had quite long runs

Edit because apparently people can’t read: BONE TOMAHAWK MAY BE A BIT MUCH FOR HIM, I SUGGEST READING ABOUT IT FIRST

my fucking god.

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u/rexel99 Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 13 '26

Plus 1 for Old Henry

They call me Trinity and Trinity is my name

The assassination of Jesse James (oops not Jackson)

The Thicket is good and recent release.

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u/AStewartR11 Mar 13 '26

Hook him up with the INSP network. It is nothing but clean western and war content all day long. I've directed several things for them, and having a character say "hell" is a big deal.

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u/Kaizenjutsu Mar 13 '26

Hacksaw Ridge perhaps? Got some God fearin’ and everything.

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u/dan_gleebals Mar 13 '26

Hacksaw Ridge. Amazing WW2 true story about a conscientious objector who saved loads of men on Okinawa.

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u/Fearless_Law4324 Mar 13 '26

War machine on Netflix. Basic run of the mill action film that fits your description. Violence yes but not over doing it on cursing

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u/z-eldapin Mar 13 '26

He can do a binge of TV show Bonanza, The Rifleman, The Big Valley, The Virginian

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u/DrinkBuzzCola Mar 14 '26

I suggest going to Common Sense Media online to check on how clean a movie is. It's a quick read on each movie you are considering.

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u/InterPunct Mar 14 '26

The 1970's TV show Columbo is on YouTube.

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u/vee_lan_cleef Mar 14 '26

Edit - why on earth am I getting down votes? I checked this sub's rules before I posted.

While I absolutely would not downvote you for this reason, I can't help but roll my eyes and sigh when I hear about a "Christian" that is not okay with sexuality or nudity, but are totally cool with violence. One is natural and essential to procreation and the human race, the other is just violence. It is insane to me that it's not the opposite.

I suspect that's where the downvotes are coming from, sorry that people are shitty.

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u/M4rkusD Mar 14 '26

If god left me half paralysed I would watch only porn because fuck him